Michael PhD

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Hey guys, I’m not sure I’ll have any luck but wondering if anyone recalls Miles from LA with the long dark hair and great muscular body? Probably late 20s, early 30s in 2013-2015… I met him a few times and I recently came across our old emails. His email isn’t active any more. Wondering if anyone recalls this guy and if so know if he still massages?

I respectfully disagree. I noticed you made a comment about not wanting to derail this conversation so I’ll also take your lead and not comment much but just remind all that read this that there are two perspectives and clients are vulnerable for being taken advantage of with costs that are unreasonable or uninspired sessions sold as one thing but then the masseur doesn’t deliver which leads me to strongly believe that all is fair if there were no promises made or expectations of more (either physically or monetarily).

I’ll be reaching out in the next couple of weeks. Any one have thoughts on him?

This is frustrating to read. If they are professionals, they can compartmentalize their personal and professional life. You should reach out only if you can do the same. As stated already, you shouldn’t judge their behavior. I hope you are able to see after receiving feedback, that you created this internal struggle you’re dealing with and not them. If not, it’s probably worth exploring why not receiving feedback on a hook up site takes such a toll on you. Good luck man.

AthleticAndrew was great. I saw him a month ago. Great technique. Amazing body. P

Met him last month. Agree. He’s excellent. Will be my go to guy in Waikīkī.

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I don’t think they both know. I think that my masseurs husband assumes that I mess around as the masseur does advertise as having options for sensuality. I haven’t said anything and don’t get into details about our sessions but have made comments that would be hot to play with both. They both have Grindr amd Scruff and are linked to each other on Scruff and mention playing solo and together. With the masseur, the massage room is in an area removed from the living room and it’s pretty isolated. His husband is usually not there as I schedule during the working day. I think many bring up great points about potential downsides so decided to move on from this fantasy unless it’s initiated by one of them. Thanks guys.

LOL. I edited my OP to fix my grammatical error.

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Not sure I was clear on timeline… thanks for input.

Thank you. You make a lot of good points.

Appreciate the quick response. That’s what my gut tells me also… your perspective has always been helpful Benjamin. Thank you.

Hello, I have been seeing a masseur for about 7 years. At first it was professional with the standard sensual elements at the end… mutual touch, happy ending. After a few visits, he began blowing me. When scheduling sessions thereafter, we would flirt a bit via text and I commented on his great ass and the next session he asked me to top him. Since then, he bottoms for me after the massage is over almost every time. We have never played outside of a session. Early on after I started seeing him, I met his husband. We hit it off and had a great conversation. Every time I get a massage, if he’s there, we chat for 20-30 min at the end. I saw my masseurs hubby on Grindr and connected there. We talked about wanting to play (open relationship) years ago but couldn’t figure out our schedules to make it happen. We both ended up in Las Vegas for work in mid 2024 and played then and have met a couple of times since then. My masseur doesn't know and even though they’re open, they don’t talk about stuff they do alone. My masseurs husband wants me to bring up the idea of a threesome to my masseur so that we can all play together and potentially have more opportunities to see each other but he doesn’t want me to mention that I’ve already played with his husband. Curious to get peoples opinion? I was thinking if I brought it up casually I could just see his reaction and determine if I should pursue the issue? I mentioned this to a bud who posts here regularly and he thought it was a bad idea. I don’t want to miss out on seeing my long time masseur but at the same time I’m very intrigued about seeing what can happen? I imagine some may think it’s a really bad idea and I find this forum to be very helpful so appreciate hearing any perspective from those willing to share.

I saw him 3 months ago. He was amazing as always.

Any recent experience with him?

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Hi. I’m debating if I should schedule. Any recent experiences with him?

He’s been a regular for me for years. Massage alone is great. He has a dom personality. Wouldn’t let that scare tops away… lots of sensuality and a superb massage.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/26848/ I think Clark would fit a possible description of sub masseurs

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He’s not easy to schedule but I just was able to get another session recently. If you are still interesting in scheduling I encourage you to keep trying.

I’ll be in LA soon. Any details on why he’s your pick? Thanks!