Michael PhD

I would disagree on calling it a double standard. If one advertises a business and leaves a number for contacting and scheduling that does not constitute an agreement that the client is open to solicitation.

Anyone meet him recently?

I’d consider cosmo. Been there a few times and made a connection that continued in the rooms upstairs 2 out of 3 times there.

I’d say pretty close. He’s very cut and muscular.

Yes and yes

Who is this!

I would say it didn’t live up to it… great guy. Great technique though.

Absolutely not. That would be cruel man.

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I think that doesn’t necessarily matter - as pointed out I do agree that the right thing is to move on from a physical relationship with both of them…

The lines get blurred but I consider sensual to include more seductive touch. Mutual touch may be a part of it. Release +/-. Erotic often includes mutual touch and release and often more. Would be careful with expectations as these definitions are not universally accepted.

Yes, you’ve made that suggestion a couple times… thanks for your continued interest none the less.

@pubic_assistance, I don’t have influence anymore…

I understood your point. Again, it does not apply to me. I can’t make anyone do anything. My question was how I should handle this. And I’ve gotten sound advice. Thanks for your input and the time you spent reading this.

Appreciate hearing your perspective. I’ve gotten good recommendations on how to handle the situation. This current topic about relationships between a son and father albeit tangentially related to what I am dealing with does not apply specifically to me (maybe something the two of them need to explore) so not much I can add but thanks for chiming in @pubic_assistance!

Well I don’t usually resort to anecdotes to make conclusions but as someone who is also bi, I have met married couples where the man is bi and they have gay children. Most I imagine aren’t out to their children as this lifestyle is not one I find to be easily accepted but I may be wrong. My experience would challenge your statement. Don’t have the data to make a conclusion but would just point out that our experiences do not align so your statement may be true for you and mine true for me.

Yes, that’s my issues. Sorry if I wasn’t clear.

Yes

Appreciate the feedback. I am not planning to see either. My bi buddy isn’t out and I don’t plan on outing him by telling his son that I know his dad in that way. He’s upset and hasn’t talked to me after this all came out and I promised I wouldn’t see his son again. My buddy’s son and I have met for almost 3 years. We are more than fuck buddies. Friends at minimum. No long term potential but we have mutual respect and what I find challenging is how abrupt this will be for him to hear without sharing context. I’ve been vague with him this past month when he texts but he can tell something is off. Doesn’t feel right to ghost him. Doesn’t feel right to lie. Doesn’t feel right to not share something to help him understand. Anyway, thanks for the feedback. I’m not sure how I’ll handle it aside from not meeting either for play… navigating how to end the “relationship” is challenging.

Met him this past week. Great massage. Really deep pressure. If he was local, I’d be a regular. Strictly therapeutic.

He’s great. I think there is some options you can consider that may allow for a more personalized experience when booking.

I didn’t plan for this or set this up. I’ve made connections with them both. But after the input and much thought, it’s clear that I’ll have to move on from both.

Thanks. I know you are right.