I went to the LA Adonis Nude Party for the first time last month. I was worried about going alone and pictured myself awkwardly standing in a corner between lap dances. I ended up, however, conversing with other attendees, which enhanced the experience. Multiple people asked if it was my first time and were very friendly.
I got there relatively early (after 8), so it was easy to get lap dances at first. All of the dancers don't arrive at the same time, however. There was a very assertive guy who kept pushing me to get a lap dance from him, which was somewhat annoying. As mentioned above, you reach a point during which the popular guys are grabbed for a lap dance as soon as they leave the room. The kitchen, which leads to the lap dance room, becomes packed. I wasn't keeping time, but perhaps this started a little before midnight. At that point, it can be very difficult to connect with certain guys, as you might not see them again. Even though the guys who looked like fitness Instagram models tended to be most popular, I didn't think that any of the dancers were unappealing. I thought that a couple of them looked better than their pics.
I had fun and would return. I went a little overboard and got 10 or so lap dances, which were all good but one, and a VIP room. I'm glad I finally tried it out.