DALE CRUZE

Does anyone want to play?

Take it easy on me will ya other? Im just an extreme purist n to be fair when every single guy on rentmen is now "str8 alpha jock "etc etc it just decreases the novelty of the authentic guys. I know ppl who now expect str8 guys to bottom n will reference some random str8 guy who did. It really starts distorting reality and leaves alot of ppl disillusioned. Truth is many guys are simply misrepresenting themselves and i believe in authenticity. If you want to role,play n dreas up go for it but dont tell me your a cop because you strip in a cop outfit.

After doing my homework I found what I am looking for. It may seem "OCD" but I want a sure thing and as I've been doing this a few years I'm willing to put in the work to find it. Vegas to me is one of the top 5 cities full of opportunity, but I'm not one to just hire anyone because they have the look. I want an experience that fulfills my fantasy and I don't want to have to say in the end "none of my plans worked out" or worse "Vegas sucks".... it's all what you make it, but waiting around till the last minute is a definite way to end up disappointed. Thanks for the recommendations and insight, it's been really helpful!

People who charge by the hour don't make bank by spending a lot of time on the low-yield prospects. And someone who calls you multiple times while just thinking about engaging your services is likely a low-yield prospect. I'm not saying the person shouldn't take any calls, I'm saying if someone calls too many times while dithering they shouldn't be surprised if the escort stops responding. I'd say the prima donna is the first-time client who is expecting a lot more off-the-clock engagement than most.

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"RELATIONSHIP TO REVIEW SITE
The Message Center is provided as a public service to the Escorting Community and is operated independently of the Review Site. The views expressed in the Message Center are wholly those of the members who post them and do not necessarily reflect the views, opinions, policies or procedures of the management."
 
The two sites were separated well over a decade ago, and there are those that don't respect that fact. Therefore the sites were delinked at this critical time.
 
H.R. 1865 was signed into law on 4/11/2018. Threads that contain new posts that are suspected to violate the new law are removed from public view to be reviewed. Contrary to what was posted earlier, only one thread was removed from the South America forum.
 
It is a sad day for "Freedom of Speech." The Terms and Rules will be updated to reflect the new law shortly.
 
https://www.companyofmen.org will take you to the message-forum main page.

WOW. THANKS for the info...i didnt even know about them...looked at it and liked the clean layout. Thanks again...don't be surprised if you see me on there in the next few weeks !

I've paid for the platinum MF ads for over a year and it's been a worthy investment until these changes. This month I switched to the basic plan, and will remain there until their growing pains subside. Personally, I've only had good interactions with their tech support, whom I've called upon a number of times in the last year. It's understandable that providers would be upset at their lack of communication, but also consider what it'd mean for them to be candid about this situation - evidence in court against them. They aren't going to come right out and say "oh hey guys this sesta things has us all spooked so we're making a lot of changes!". They have to play it cool, even if it means ignoring/delaying indignant complaints. It's fun to be mad, but let's direct our energy at the dipshits that created this law. And remember that female providers (esp trans) will feel the weight of this law exponentially more than anyone here. We can just go back to the spas and bars. They will have to go to the streets/pimps and there will certainly be deaths/missing persons on their end. Food for thought.

Rentmasseur is so much better than Masseurfinder!

That option was one of the first thing to go with the changes.

@DALE CRUZE , I really like your perceptions of MF. You have put it PERFECTLY about how dysfunctional they have become. Some changes were necessary because of SESTA/FOSTA, but most of the changes they made were just bad decisions. Totally agree with all you said!

99.00 - 188.00 - 277.00

Everything is normal on my searches:
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28681/

Contact information is back.

I also send out texts in the past becuz my clients will often say "give me a heads up when youre back in town" i am very accomodating not to put people in my contacts if they request i dont. lately i dont send out many "heads up" texts becuz i also feel like it is a little intrusive. I just figure when someone wants a massage they will find me...if im not in their town at that time then better luck next time...so i can relate to both arguments for and against. BUT clearly if someone says "hey dont contact me, i will contact you" then i adhere to their requests.

I also send out texts in the past becuz my clients will often say "give me a heads up when youre back in town" i am very accomodating not to put people in my contacts if they request i dont. lately i dont send out many "heads up" texts becuz i also feel like it is a little intrusive. I just figure when someone wants a massage they will find me...if im not in their town at that time then better luck next time...so i can relate to both arguments for and against. BUT clearly if someone says "hey dont contact me, i will contact you" then i adhere to their requests.

I think he's just letting you (and others) know that he's visiting. Is up to you to hire him again or not.
Before escorts would contact by email and make plans by phone call or text, now is pretty much all by text.
 


 
I couldn't agree more.
 

 
I wouldn't be surprised if SESTA pushes some escorts (and possibly even masseurs) off the open advertisement and they start texting their former clients as a way to be hired again.

I was just wondering if anyone else finds this inappropriate. There are a few masseurs who I've booked in the past who now text me about once a month to see if I want to book a massage. It feels like some sort of text blast, they usually begin with "hey guys, I'm in town and available" and then their info. I understand the need to market your services, but I'd rather not receive text messages soliciting my business. I always respond and ask them to take me off their texting list, but there are two guys who I occasionally still get texts from no matter how often I ask them to stop. Does anyone else get this?

yes...exactly ... i agree with the points u make

I think some words are red flagged.
 
I noticed one of my reviews of a provider were removed. I went back to find the draft I typed, shout out to Evernote, and everything was on the level, but I typed the phrase "positions his body " and I guess that was enough to get the entire thing erased. I didn't even write it to allude to anything.
 
Seeing people write reviews with "ample assets" "tip top notch" or "hands made for this type of job" definitely steer people into thinking about the direction things could be going. My review was tame in comparison.
 
I think they should have provided a warning to their paying customers that changes were coming. Not being transparent about it looks shady. We understand why there's changes but the way they are going about it is wrong.
 
TBH They probably were not even prepared or were paying attention beforehand. Once CL made their announcement, MF and M4M seem more like they made reactionary responses instead of prepared ones.

They were prepared. Once the idea of FOSTA was even being entertained months ago, that made us tighten our ads then. Made us take out some verbage.
 
And then they made us tighten them again more recently. 2 weeks ago I tried updating pics, and nothing with the slightest hint of chest (even just my face) made it through.
 
And then this most recent change. And their dismissive attitude.

THE president can boast freely about sexually assaulting women anywhere at anytime and get away with it, while others who have done far less must lose their careers, jobs, positions etc, etc...but all of a sudden two consenting adults who want to go about their own personal private bizness out of public view must be regarded as criminals ??? is this america still anymore? ? i can't tell. someone pinch me.

Guyz! Masseurs, escorts, sugarsons... We all should use & support the sites which R free 4 us and(or) friendly towards us. Masseurfinder is NOT 1 of them