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I couldn’t imagine quoting more than $800 for an overnight. Geez. The only time I say anything more than that is when the text is clearly from a fake/scammer and I might as well just throw a wild number to the wind!

I have had some recent experience with escorts in NYC where I've texted them about once or twice with a brief description of me their location get a better idea of their preferences and their rate? No response at all. I've moved on. LoL

Their loss

I’ve seen this but in the opposite direction. Lots of fake profiles of “daddies” that will ask to start giving me money right away even if they can’t meet up anytime soon and will want to know my PayPal log in information to do this...which makes zero sense and gives it away as a scam instantly. I hope nobody actually falls for that.

I’m game for whatever. I like to follow my client’s lead. And I’m not one to watch the clock, so if we talked a bit and then got to having sex, I would hardly care if it went over a bit if we are having fun.

I would like your thoughts on a rather unexpected event... A very hot, nice guy I hired while traveling texted me when he was in my home city and asked if I would be interested in seeing him. I was and I did. Fast forward a month later when the same thing happened. Again, we met and it was great (like really, really great, just like our first meet). Then he surprised me by suggesting that when he moved to my city in a few months, we should become fuck buddies. I was aware that we had *great* chemistry, but did not see that coming. I wasn't sure how to react - so told him I would consider it, to let me know when he had settled in. I also said I would help he move in if he needed an extra pair of hands (perhaps here I crossed a line??)

 

My questions to our resident experts: 1) have you ever suggested to a client to change the relationship from professional to something more casual? 2) how did the client handle it? 3) turning the situation around - has a client ever approached you with the same type of request?

I haven’t been doing this long so I’m no expert, but I did have a client who I was really attracted to and had great chemistry with sexually. So when he hit me up a few weeks later he said he wished he could book me but funds were short, and I said you know maybe we can grab a drink instead? Because I kind of liked you. So we agreed we’ll need a new how you met story but we are going to hang out.

And here I thought that I was hairy...

I used to hook up with a guy in my non-pro life who insisted on condoms for oral and it really just wasn’t my thing.

Hey there, thanks. Yeah that is true. I’ve spent the weekend looking through listings, and most everything is $900+ in Orlando area. The places that are lower are basically dumps about an hour outside of town. And it goes back to what I was saying: why would I want to get into debt renting anywhere in Florida, when half the time, the requests I get for appointments are bullshit, bullshit, bullshit and trying to get them to follow thru is like herding cats.

 

I’m almost contemplating to just give away most of my things in storage I’ve acquired to consignment and just living out of hotels and air bnb spots and just go city to city and only come home to relatives every couple of months. I’m just having a hard time finding apartments, and it seems I only make the amount of clients I’m happy with, when I’m traveling state to state.

I’ve moved about four times since I turned 21. Every time I wonder why I have so much stuff. I’ve now gotten rid of pretty much every type of “collectors” thing that just moved with me from place to place. Wasted space. I’m good.

Next time I move, I plan to just have clothes and some furniture. And if it were up to me, I’d just move the clothes.

Was it televised? I went to a professional wrestling match. Saw Hulk Hogan. I had a friend whose teenage daughter liked pro wrestling. They lived out in the country, no cable. Long before satellite dishes. I lived in town and had cable. There was a pay-for-view Thanksgiving show he paid me to tape. When Hulk Hogan came to an arena an hour away we three went.

Oh yeah. I’ve been a fan since I was a kid. Still am. My best friend and I went to tv tapings for a WWE brand just this past Wednesday. Given where we sat, I suspect we may be on tv a bunch the next four weeks. It’s a show that airs on WWE Network.

Do pro wrestling shows count?

I have nothing constructive to add except to say every time I look at the thread title fast, I think it says “Batman Penis Pump.” Every. Time.

It seems to be an increasing trend in NYC. Escpecially with guys visiting

from other countries. As someone who takes the NYC subway 95% of the time,

I find it a humorous request. The only time I take Uber is when I’m dressed

to kill for a night on the town in an outfit that would be unwise to wear on

the subway. Since no escort has ever shown up dressed like that at my door,

I don’t see the need for them to take Uber.

 

If we were going to a major event in black tie....I wouldn’t have any problem,

it’s simply a routine expense for that type of experience.

 

I’ve had several ask me to call them an Uber on their way out the door.

Of course, the only way for me to call you can Uber is to put it on my tab.

I politely tell them that the door man downstairs will be happy to help them

hail a taxi if they need assistance.

I feel the same! I’ve told any guy in NYC/NJ asking me to travel that “have metro card, will travel”...

I’ve only gotten three reviews on RM so far (none on Daddy, yet) but I didn’t even ask for the reviews let alone offer a bribe. I was quite humbled to see each one and thanked the person who left it immensely afterwards.

Move on.

 

Would you pay $5 at the grocery store to find out the price of the peaches?

 

Of course not.

That’s my new favorite phrase!

I couldn’t imagine asking for a deposit personally.

That person would be in the running for my favorite client ever. I’ve traveled far for some. Traveling around the corner would be amazing.

somewhat off topic....clients wanting - and willing to pay for - an overnighter may want to consider, instead, an all-dayer......meet at 10 or 11am, go have lunch, walk around, mess around, take a short nap, go have some coffee, mess around, go have dinner, walk around, mess around.......then kick him to the curb about 9 or 10pm so you can get a full night's sleep.....all alone....in your own bed......with nobody bothering you with weird sleeping habits.......

 

That actually sounds really awesome! I love that idea.

Many escorts who not visit but live in NYC actually live in Brooklyn these days

I live in the Bronx but grew up in Brooklyn so counts for something right?

But in the US you should not say this sort of things or a different reason: you should not link sex acts to money (unless you are actually making a porn movie, I guess).

An escort provides companionship for money, not sex for money, that would be illegal.

So an escort will likely block you if you start linking sex with money in your communication. Too much chance of you being a police sting.

This is the same reason why it becomes a problem (or even insulting) when a client tries to haggle your rate down based on what they want to do. Like “hi my hourly rate is $250” “oh but I just want to perform oral on you and you don’t have to do anything to me, can’t we make that $100?”...No, because my rate is for my time. And for legal reasons that does need to be made clear.

I’d do it. I actually had a guy on RM ask if I’d send him a video of me peeing and talking in a dominate way. I did it. We agreed to $50 for it. He never sent the money (which was weird after going to the trouble to sign up and add me on Venmo) and more or less went radio silent since then. Definitely frustrating.

I technically ended a date last night so I could go see a client. I mean we had been on the date four four hours already, had drinks and dinner, and live too far from each other for one of us TJ go home with the other anyway. So it wasn’t weird when I said hey it’s getting late, let’s get the check.

I technically ended a date last night so I could go see a client. I mean we had been on the date four four hours already, had drinks and dinner, and live too far from each other for one of us TJ go home with the other anyway. So it wasn’t weird when I said hey it’s getting late, let’s get the check.

Escorts that travel to NYC from out of town that are only here for 2 to 3 days tops I don't book. For personal reasons I prefer AM or lunch time in call to the escort. Now if an escort is seeing multiple guys before that more power to him LoL. This is a fantasy sexual situation where I really don't want to know how many guys the escort has seen before I get there. In this case the less I know the better.

Plus isn’t morning sex just more fun?

I couldn’t even begin to guess but I get why I’ve been contacted by a few guys and asked if I’ll travel to LI from the city. And I do say yes as long as the LIRR can get me there, haha.

Yeah I don’t know, I’ve never had an issue cumming multiple times a day in life. I definitely do at least twice a day on average. So I wouldn’t worry if I had multiple clients in one day. So far the most I’ve ever had was two in one day. If I ever get to a point where I’m pulling in 3 clients a day, I’ll probably quit my day job lol

It doesn't bother it's just a bit of a red flag to drop that much off an hours rate? Good luck by the way in this market your hot and sound like a class act. Xoxo

Thank you! I think I’ve done well in my first two months. Hopefully it only keeps going up from here!