I really think you should invite someone you know, or have recently met socially, to enjoy a dinner with you.
All of the scenarios you pose are possible and honestly probable. I hire for sex - enjoying a young hard body and stamina. I go to dinner with friends and clients - never with an escort. In my experience, most escorts, while polite, are not very good at much past pleasantries. It's just a matter of age, experience, education, exposure, and opportunity.
If you're in Dallas, drop a note, I will be happy to enjoy dinner - with my cell in the car.