Seconding all Bluefin and rubmythighs are saying. I had a friend back in the day who used to joke of hiring: "I'm not paying them to massage /have sex with me. I'm paying them to make me believe they want to!" Glib, yes, but I always keep that in mind. They're good at their job. It's not deceitful just talent and maybe some necessary compartmentalization on their part. Good luck!