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One week ago  today I had one of the worst experiences of my life. I have not posted about it simply because I have been debating how to go about it because I do not want to be banned from this site. I still don't believe I know all the proper procedures and rules for this site. I have decided to go ahead and tell what happened because if I do not I would be remiss. I absolutely cannot remain silent anymore and allow the possibility  to happen to another one of you gentlemen the experience that I had with Alex. And I am not going to offer the pm me for details.
The anger I have at myself is almost palpable. There were too many red flags and yet I went ahead and went through with it. His communication in setting up the appointment was awful. After a few texts between us I decided to hire him in spite of the numerous delays in his communication. We had the appointment set and then he did not show. He called me the next day elaborating that he had partied too much tonight before and he really needed to get his life together.The anger I have is because I keep questioning to what extent will I put up with crap just to experience a hot man. I have self-worth and self-esteem and at the same time still possess an amount of insecurities. I hired him. He showed up. I have never seen a more fabulous body. I was getting excited in my groins just when he walked in the room and hugged me. Then he asked for the money up front. Suddenly that excitement in my groins became very soft. We all know that this is a sign that he will probably stay for 15 and 20 minutes and just do a rub and and tug  then get the hell out. What happened next hurt my spirit and has left me in a position in which  I could not call legal authorities. I don't think anybody could call regarding what happened to the police because of the text messages that would be giving away what I was paying him for. I handed  him the $350 and he hugged me again then he said he needed to use the restroom. He told me to get undressed. I did. He came out of the restroom not once looking   in my direction and opened  the adjacent door to the hall and fled.  He robbed me of $350. I hope that what I am posting here will remain here as a warning because his appeal in the pics as well as first glance in person is astounding. I can't help but wonder however  how many other men he has done this too which would explain how a body like that has no reviews. 
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One thing I also hate is last-minute cancels, especially when the communication has been inconsistent to begin with. But I can’t blame the glowing reviews here if their experience was different than yours. Personally, I have met Brady once many years ago and I had a good time. There were no signs of him as a tweeker then. I would also not recommend a guy who has obvious issues.
Sorry to hear about your disappointing experience… it’s true what we all say in this forum — “YMMV”.

One thing I also hate is last-minute cancels, especially when the communication has been inconsistent to begin with. But I can’t blame the glowing reviews here if their experience was different than yours. Personally, I have met Brady once many years ago and I had a good time. There were no signs of him as a tweeker then. I would also not recommend a guy who has obvious issues.
Sorry to hear about your disappointing experience… it’s true what we all say in this forum — “YMMV”.

Gives a good massage. And iirc, many on this forum like him. From what I gather based on other’s experiences comparing to mine, he’s a very YMMV guy. With my case, he upcharged mid session. I didn’t repeat because I personally hate masseurs who upsell. More when they do it after so many teases and while the client has a raging boner; it’s always a mood killer to hear an upsell. I said no and never went back.
 
Edit: This experience was from a couple years ago so he might have changed now. 

Gives a good massage. And iirc, many on this forum like him. From what I gather based on other’s experiences comparing to mine, he’s a very YMMV guy. With my case, he upcharged mid session. I didn’t repeat because I personally hate masseurs who upsell. More when they do it after so many teases and while the client has a raging boner; it’s always a mood killer to hear an upsell. I said no and never went back.
 
Edit: This experience was from a couple years ago so he might have changed now. 

It would help if you specify what city?

You meant you paid higher than his posted rate of $300 for 60mins?

I wanted to try him. But the rate being minimum $350 is ridiculous for a masseur rate. If you don’t mind sharing (or DM), how much did you pay and what was included? 

Blessings is perfect in every single way. Totally recommendable 
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As if right on cue, our friend Eddie is now showing off his best assets on RentMassuer.
Amazing.
 

I have had 2 massages with him.  Good mix of therapeutic plus sensual 

I booked him during his visit to NYC. His profile pics are OLD. I gave the benefit of the doubt because I know some masseurs use photos that are decade old. Do not expect him to look like he does. He's more on the average body side. He does have a shaved head, and that's where the similarity ends with his photos.
He had a funky smell and that turned me off immediately. I left after 10 min. The massage itself was very mediocre. Just a simple rub and tug. I would not recommend him at all. Save your money for a different masseur.
Also, the multiple reviews posted a day apart is a red flag.
 

He’s back!
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/25716/

My contribution happend not during the massage, but before it.
It was my first time meeting this masseur at his studio after first hiring him at a local massage spot. (Short backstory: It was a legitimate local massage place. I went in for my regular massage, he was assigned to me, and I liked his massage so much that I asked him if he practiced privately, if he had a studio, and asked him to share his business number. It all worked out, we had an exchange of numbers.)
Fast forward two months later, I reached out to him so I could book a massage directly with him privately. It was our first time to meet at his studio. I arrived at his place, he welcomed me and showed me to the massage room. As I undressed my shirt, my pants still on, I suddenly had the urge to piss. So I asked, “Can I go use the bathroom real quick? Need to pee.” And he responded, “Sure, I need to wash my hands for the massage anyway,” as he motioned out of the massage room to the bathroom.
We got close to the bathroom and he pointed at the door. “It’s that door right there. You go first. And I’ll just wash my hands after you.”
To which I said, “Or you can wash your hands while I pee. I don’t mind you in there, if you don’t. Saves us a few minutes!”
Now when I offered that, in my head was the bathroom layout I had back home, where the toilet and the sink are on the opposite sides. His bathroom (a half bath), I didn’t realize, had the sink and toilet adjacent to each other.
Still not knowing this fact, I insisted. And he said sure.
And there we were in the bathroom, almost standing next to each other. Him washing his hands, me taking a piss. I thought I saw him glancing while still trying to be professional, and I really found that hot. I almost couldn’t pee and shoot very well because I was getting really hard! I even said, “Sorry, I swear I need to pee!” And we both laughed.
Needless to say, I had a fantastic massage that night and a happy release ending too. I still see him every now and then for my regular massages, and everytime I have to pee during our session, I can now just casually ask, “You can pee or wash your hands together too if you like?” and him being okay with it! That one unexpected innocent incident offer is now kind of like our thing. I even got him to piss at the same time with me.

Asking the masseur if they can watch me pee or me watching them. I’m into watersports (WS) and that’s probably the least weird way of asking from those who aren’t into WS.
I have one masseur who’s okay with the watching bit mid-massage. This built up after seeing him a couple times. Like when he asks I turn over after working on my back, and I say I gotta go use the bathroom and ask him to watch me pee or that if he needs to pee, i watch him.  But nothing more—no golden showers or anything wild WS like that. I reserve that for escorts, if I want.

Asking the masseur if they can watch me pee or me watching them. I’m into watersports (WS) and that’s probably the least weird way of asking from those who aren’t into WS.
I have one masseur who’s okay with the watching bit mid-massage. This built up after seeing him a couple times. Like when he asks I turn over after working on my back, and I say I gotta go use the bathroom and ask him to watch me pee or that if he needs to pee, i watch him.  But nothing more—no golden showers or anything wild WS like that. I reserve that for escorts, if I want.

Hello All,
  I do not know which forum this belongs in.  Is there an appropriate way to ask a masseur if I can watch him while he pisses?  I don't know if it appropriate or not.  I don't want to touch or anything more, just watch.  Does this border on inappropriate?
  I have been in many a session when the masseur asks to be excused to pee.  Most times, the bathroom is adjacent to the massage room or close enough for me to hear them while I wait on the table.  All massages I have been to were mutually nude, so the masseur simply strolls out, does his business, and returns.  I am is turned on and aroused knowing the man that was just naked with me went and pissed and is now returning.  I am disappointed I cannot see what the great body does nearby.  All of these were during massage sessions only.  Again, I do not want anything further, just to watch.
Thanks for any opinions or redirects to the proper forum.

Thank you for this great information It helped me make a decision because he just arrived in Detroit. I won't see him because I can get that massage from a lot of other people. I'm not paying $140 unless there's definite arousal. As a people who hope for diversity I hope that they will come we can say somebody is a head or sexual and leave it without any other qualification. But I get what you're saying. Thank you

I second with the above. I remember telling myself I wouldn’t be back. Not because he did anything bad. It’s simply because when I pay for massages, I want to get that — an actual massage. I didn’t want to write negatively about him because he did have a friendly personality. I still believe some of the guys on here will like him. Just personally not for me.
He could be a ymmv - but yes, HE & MT.

Oh it would be a bummer if he stopped!

I find it’s more difficult to get guys in “actual” LA last minute. If you’re willing to make the drive, I’ve had luck with the guys over in the valley — SFV and SCV. It’s been a while since I don’t live there anymore, but whenever I visit and text any of them for a same day appointment, I usually get an affirmative response.