beaudejour

This is where I stop feeding trolls.

I've been thinking along the lines of doing my homework. I do work the profession every day, and in fact, I'm fucking good at it because I study and ask for feedback. This is part of being a professional. Professionals study, go to conferences, ask their clients questions. This is not the least amount of effort, in fact, it's the most. It proves I give a shit. Sorry you don't like my style.

This is where I stop feeding trolls.

This is where I stop feeding trolls.

This is where I stop feeding trolls.

This is where I stop feeding trolls.

This is where I stop feeding trolls.

LOL. I am glad for this response actually. I was just thinking well, I'm game. As long as I'm not competing against pro native loincloth wrestlers, then the pressure is off!

Say what??!?!!? I must be limited in my experience. Who the hell knew this was a thing? It’s too much to process...

Screwing up is part of the learning experience. Dont sweat it !

As @poolboy48220 said, you don't generally want to contact an escort far in advance. I'm not an escort, but I do sometimes contact an escort early to be sure I get on their list for a trip. I don't want to miss a chance I just contacted one escort to get on the visiting list 3 weeks before he would be in a city I will be in at the same time. Being clear that you are doing so should relieve the escort of time-wasting questions. You might want to ask when he wants to set up the date time for the meeting.
 
Since you're new, and have had at least one 'misdial', I'd suggest trying an email in or out of an escort site (I prefer starting with the Rent.Men internal mail system to start a conversation). If you text, I start with something that doesn't make it look like I'm contacting an escort. So if the working name is "BestEverEscort", I'll start with "Hey, BestEver, is this you?" Many have some name (Lucas, Mark, whatever - check their profile), so you can use that. When they respond, I say that I'd like to visit them and suggest a date and time. When I'm doing this, I mention that I'm pretty vanilla. If they don't have prices listed, I'll ask on it. Not wanting to say "How much for you to pound me into next week?" I say something like "I know your time if valuable, what is your fee for an hour?" You should mention anything special you want, or that you want to be sure happens. For example "I really like to kiss, is that good with you?" Keep it to as few message as possible.
 
Once the date is set, I'll send a text a few days before just to confirm. Than another the day of, usually in the morning. So "Just a reminder that I'm looking forward to seeing you at 6 tonight."
 
Escorts get a lot of messages, so there is a high chance concise messages (and polite) messages would be better received. Take a few minutes to get all your questions out rather than a lot of them.
 
It is possible they will text a bit back to you, if so, it's fine to respond. @VictorPowers has recently agreed to see me in a few weeks. He's a nice guy and sent a few messages after we set the time that made me feel great. I always responded, but when he broke off, so did I. It's just further proof of what a great guy he is.

When he removes his dentures.

Lots of sucktion and NO teeth (unless they ask for it)

The giver needs to keep his eyes open and look up at the receiver!

I think this answer will be a little different for everyone. I like when they start by gently licking the shaft, balls and all around. As their tongue runs up the shaft, they nibble on the head and suck then deep throating but focus on the head. As they are jerking the shaft, they suck and swirl their tongue. They make a swirling motion over the head and increase the jerking, sucking and tongue swirling. Then when I am ready to cum, they apply sucking pressure and a swirling tongue as I cum in their mouth. The prior description makes a perfect blowjob for me.

In my experience, couples are harder to book. Logistic-wise it's double trouble. The ideal situation is where I'm able to meet one of the guys in a solo session and at a different date we all meet together.

:eek:Couples are usually a nightmare in one respect or another and I try to avoid at all cost (especially couples in Dallas).
 
However, if I get a request to join another escort who’s currently having FuN with a client, those types of calls are almost always good times.

It likely depends on if you wear the magic underwear or not

I'd hire you, beau!

Maybe some ideas here for you from posts the past year:
 
Payment methods….
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/payment-methods-the-majority-of-escorts-prefer-to-use.125405/
 
Overnight and Travel…
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/overnight-and-travel-questions.123306/#post-1265300
 
Credit Card Question…
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/credit-card-question.82648/
 
CCs and PayPal
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/ccs-and-paypal.120077/#post-1209094

Venmo is a good option. I have also used PayPal and Zelle. All 3 of those options vary in anonymity.
I'd caution you on a trip for a first time meet.

Now that one I have gotten before. And I love it. For both reasons!

I have a lot of experience with fisting and am a gentle introduction because of having pretty slender hands. If you are into trans guys - and I will say a couple can have a lot of fun with a trans guy - give me a call.

It’s because everybody wants the chance to do the missionary position with an actual missionary.
 
Gman