nycman

You’re right. We can’t. Peace out!

That’s more than a red flag….that’s a black flag. And I’m not talking about the world’s greatest punk band…..

Do NOT make me fly all the fucking way across this country just to get you your learners permit, Missy. Not to be a Karin but, "may I speak with your supervisor please?" One of you fuckers better take one for the team….that’s a long trip for me. If he’s bad, one of you Palm Beach bitches is putting out. Just so we’re clear!

Something about him is sexy as fuck. I even think the flower over the asshole pics are kinda cute. Of course, shaved head, face down, ass up is my favorite, but I’d be pretty happy if any of his looks showed up. That’s rare. Someone needs to test drive. I nominate "down the street @Charlie"

You’re welcome? Baby, that’s true for every single human being on this planet. And it’s not even that. None of us appeals to everyone. As a bitchy friend once said to me "don’t worry, some guys are into skinny, anemic, southern, white guys." Bitchy? Yes. True? Thankfully, also yes. Learn to look past the ones who aren’t into you. They’re meaningless and you’re missing the forest for the trees. It’s sad if that’s all you got from my post. Oh well, I hope it helps someone else.

Whenever I’m at a bar and someone is crying into their beer that no one likes them, I usually observe several things……. A) no one wants to be around someone who’s feeling sorry for themselves, so the behavior is a self fulfilling prophecy. Buck-up butter cup. B) the pity party host, is usually fixated on the "perfect 10’s" in the room and ignoring the other 99% of the room. Look around with your eyes wide open. There are usually several interested men sitting right next to you that you’ve overlooked. C) alcohol never helps the situation. D) if you really think you’re that much of a shit show that no one wants to be around, (you’re not but let’s assume you honestly feel this way) then start taking inventory and start changing the things about yourself that you can. None of us is gonna get new genes or win the lottery, but we can all improve our bodies and start being more responsible with our spending. Baby steps. E) non-arrogant self confidence is sexy as fuck. Learn to project it. Personally, having a killer wardrobe helps me pull this one off. But find whatever gives you confidence in being you, and use it to your advantage. F) escorts are a temporary fix but looking to them to solve this problem is delusional. They're like crutches. There’s nothing wrong with crutches when you need them, but they’re never going to help you fly.

…and doesn’t kidnap you for an unwanted trip to the Bahamas (aka "the Bronx of the Caribbean").

Ok, I would not pay him $350. Hope that helps…..but I’m still think my n=1, compounded with the vagaries of my own personal preferences and my own particular financial situation, make that information pretty useless to you. Nonetheless, you are free to use my meaningless data point in any way you choose. Now if you interpolated your data and produced a multidimensional scatter graph with 5 or more axises….then maybe I’d be interested. Until then, enjoy your random data point in space. nycman = "no". You’re welcome Nice attempt at a side dig, but I pass.

For all you ignorant sluts (like me), who didn’t get the reference in @Charlie’s post until @MscleLovr helped us out……

He sounds like fun. Good for him! And a new acronym is born!

Maybe he was trying to sell you stock in First Financial Bank (FFIN)? Or a new camera app for your iPhone?…..FFIN camera app by beyondf? Or just using local welsh slang to try and help you find the border town of Chapel-y-ffin? Unfortunately, he’s probably just offering to shove his fist up your ass.

The above link was broken…. https://rentmen.eu/ADAM_STAMM See, I can be nice. You’re welcome.

But you do…. On this we agree. Lay on, Macduff….

You have my attention…..grin

Oh, don’t get me wrong. I don’t think my "legal" case has a snowball’s chance in hell. Still, I’d be screaming "kidnap", "help, we’re being held hostage", and multiple other insane things while they dragged my ass to the Bahamas. My impassioned speech in the Dining Hall that night about "freedom, wrongful imprisonment, and slave ships" would be make grown men cry and women swoon. My interpretative dance on the Lido Deck at midnight about corporate greed and the oppression of the common man would be Legendary! Of course, I’d film the whole thing and post it everywhere. Hell, I might even try to insight a mutiny while I was at it. Mostly for my own entertainment though. I agree, no one would really give a shit. That doesn’t mean I’m wrong though….grin

I’m sorry for your loss. Take time to grieve. Things will get better, when they get better. There is no right or wrong way to get through this. Take care of yourself and persevere. Know that there are men who love you. Some for a minute. Some for a lifetime. You are still at the beginning of the race. Pace yourself and don’t be afraid to ask for help.

As a New Yorker, I agree. But also as a New Yorker, I am appalled at the lack of respect, dignity, intelligence, and tolerance that these two people showed in their online posts. Being a true New Yorker requires all those things and much, much, more. I’m not into "cancel culture" but I am into helping idiots pack their bags to leave NYC.

Fair enough, if we’re just discussing his rate. But explain to me why you would care what another John is willing to pay? Full disclosure, I’m not saying I haven’t done the same thing….. just that your or my expense tolerance is kind of irrelevant to the discussion of an escort’s rates.

And you used it in a Rentmen ad? Plausible…..but still a moron.

A year later…..you had this revaluation? Now I’m beginning to think you’re a Russian bot too…..grin. For the record, your mind should go to: 1) the sex is going to suck, and not in a good way. 2) you’re going to get ripped off and lied to. 3) the "poor English" is a stunt. They’re just pretending they don’t understand to get out of delivering on their promises. 4) trust your gut and don’t hire unknowns from Eastern Europe.

Just so this thread has some semblance of meaning…. https://rentmen.eu/KevinEvans Although, I’m still not sure why we should care what you’re willing to pay him?

I’m on a boat….. Being taken somewhere I don’t want to go… Against my will…. Not for my safety. Not because of war. Not because of famine. Not because of weather. But because you’re trying to avoid facing the penalty that a judge has ordered for a crime you’ve committed? That’s a kidnapping/hostage situation in my book.

позвонить в КГБ и сообщить о нем как о шпионе (just taking full advantage of the new "relaxed" foreign language rules) Fucking Russian bots…..grin

I’ll take "stolen pics….chosen poorly" for $200, Alex. The word ‘moron" comes to mind…..

Don’t worry….we all had a "first time". And just like your other “first time"… It might not be perfect and everything you dreamed of…. But don’t let that stop you from trying again until you get it right!