nycman

Isn’t that the small English town Ian McKellen is from?

Ghastly, just ghastly.

To me it’s weird and I personally wouldn’t be directly involved. Nonetheless, I’ve been at plenty of cocktail parties where the "new boyfriend" is obviously a whore. Just like the aging queen who wears too much makeup, it’s not my thing but I’m happy to play along with the farce. It doesn’t hurt me.

One thing I’ve learned in posting here over the years…. If I have to: 1) Number my response. 2) My point isn’t really worth making 3) I’m WAY overthinking the importance of this board. 4) I should take a break and find a beautiful man with whom to have amazing sex.

Huh? Snarky, oh HELL yes. Grammar police? Ok….your use of the past tense is incorrect. How am I doing?

Says who? Most of whom have been dead for centuries. So…do you want us to bury them, place them on funeral pyres, inside pyramids, or sink them to the bottom of the ocean? Why not give these "exact copies’ to the locals, and let the museums keep preserving the originals as they have for centuries? The originals cannot be replaced. That way, when the "locals" loose, destroy, or simply misplace their copies (which you know they will), they can just be given more copies. yeah…like in free museum, in a world capital, someplace everyone can get to…you know, like London. Good luck figuring out which pieces those are. You know all the "world famous" pieces would immediately be classified as "sacred" by the locals, regardless of their origin or purpose. Your intentions are noble, but I feel misguided. They will lead to a great loss for humanity. At the end of the day it’s all about the money. To pretend otherwise is naive and/or disingenuous.

But if you do it right….that’s all you’ll need.

No.

Dude, in part he made you the MAN you are today. And I love him for it.

Fuck off, the god damn Greeks should give them the remaining 5% to make a compete set. grin

And here I was just falling for your ginger bush. I feel so shallow and cheap…..and that’s a good thing. grin

"The reason it feels wrong…is because it is" Brilliant.

Ahhhh…now you’re playing both sides of the coin. I call shenanigans.

Position: Top Not everything…..grin

No….please…..don’t….go…..oh, noooooo! Thank god that twat left the party.

What does it look like?….it’s simple really… Ok, that was fun. In all seriousness, @Rod Hagen raises valid questions and points. Nonetheless, I think it’s incumbent on both parties to keep their feet on the ground and not let fantasies invade too far into reality. And yes, I’ve seen it go both ways. Hell hath no furry like whore who thought he was getting the house, only to be dumped on 10th Ave with a wad of $50’s. It’s a business relationship. And like all business relationships, it’s only really successful when both parties fully understand the terms and both parties are happy with said terms. Spoiler alert: the "terms" rarely involve the escort’s heart, and they almost never involve the John’s deed to the house.

I mean you’re cute an’ all….but I really just want to fuck your brain.

I swear to god, if you have dog face tattoos on your finger nails when we meet up……

I mean, we KNOW you people exist….we just pretend not to….grin.

aw, c'mon!.....How could you not go with the “Roughrider State"? Peace Garden State….seriously?

We’ve all done it to one degree or another. Don’t beat yourself up about it, but do learn from your mistakes. Feelings are ok. Losing grip on reality is not. It’s a fantasy. Nothing more, nothing less. You have always been and will always be wrong when you think "a mutual thing" is developing. This really shouldn’t be a newsflash for you. Still, don’t let it ruin your fun. Learn to enjoy the fantasy. What rooms? Where? Are you stalking him? I hope I’m misreading this statement because it sounds creepy and unhealthy as fuck. You need to remember that this is a "hobby". It’s not real life. Don’t let your heart get involved. If you start developing real feelings for a provider, I suggest you disclose that to them immediately. Then stop seeing them. He may be fond of you. He may even "like" you. But in the words of Avenue Q, he doesn’t "like you, like you, like you like him". I know it hurts, and yes most if not all of us have had to go through the difficult phase you’re going through right now. The good news is, if you can learn to navigate it and stay in control of your emotions, this hobby can be damn fun. Like REAL fun. But if you need or want love, look somewhere else. You’re fishing in the wrong pond.

At least a banana is biodegradable. I’m all for fucking fruits……grin