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  1. A few thoughts:

     

     

    People are typically too polite to ask, the exception being when getting to know a potential playmate or romantic partner where the information is relevant to the relationship.

     

     

    I don’t believe in the concept of “[fill in the blank] acting.” When some one is simply themselves there is no acting required. I don’t know what you mean by pretend not to be gay. Aside from the gender to which they are attracted, gay and straight men pretty much do the same spectrum of activities.

     

     

     

    When I first came out I experienced one of the two following reactions:

     

    1) Oh, that’s nice. Thank you for sharing. How do you feel about this?

    2) Really? Wouldn’t have guessed.

     

    It wasn’t hard for me, it was simply a matter of me being out to myself and being ready to share this with others.

     

     

     

    I think you mean “...who people think or perceive are gay.” The only one who knows is the individual himself. Others presume or assume or, once someone comes out to them, take the new-found knowledge at face value.

     

    To answer your original question, there is no universal answer. It truly depends on the individual.

     

    Excellent analysis. Someone recently asked me if I was gay and I had only met the person for 10 minutes. It was kind of shocking actually for me. Because I was at work, and I didn't really know the person, just shooting the breeze.

  2. I feel like gay men who are masculine or presumed to be straight have it worse, than the stereotypical effeminate gay man, when it comes to coming out of the closet, or telling people that they are gay when/if asked. In some ways it's easier for the straight acting gay man, because he can pretend not to be gay in certain situations, but if he reveals he's gay more people would be shocked or surprised. Versus the effeminate gay man, whom people can already tell that he's gay, from his mannerisms, voice, dress, etc.

     

    Thoughts anyone?

  3. He's amazing. I met with him a couple years ago, twice, before he began to advertise on rentmen. He had a backpage ad, briefly. I don't want to supply too many personal details. So pm me if you need more information. He's a total top. And his pictures are as advertised, and looks better in person.

  4. I deliberately looked for a good shot of him and a dizzy-looking shot of her. She seems part of that silly group of popular singers these days with highly-altered looks and singing voices much aided by electronics.

     

    Nah, Ariana can sing. She doesn’t use auto tune. She’s probably the best singer of her age group/generation. Critics often compare her to a young Mariah Carey. Pete Davidson on the other hand has no talent whatsoever.

  5. Drained empty, I understand where you are coming from and have read some of your previous posts from other threads. I think Asian women have it easier then Asian men in terms of being more sexually desirable. I don’t think any straight man regardless of race would turn down being with an Asian woman. But somehow Asian men aren’t seen as sex objects as compared to Asian women. Look at Hollywood or in adult films. Not many Asian male heartthrobs. Though I think Southeast Asians and Indians have it easier, because they are more racially ambiguous.

  6. I tried contacting Dustin Tyler when I was in town. He was very flakey, and kept thinking I could be a cop, then he decided not to meet with me at all. I would avoid him. He seems very selective with whom he meets. He just seemed very uncomfortable about escorting. Very odd encounter. He asked me for a pic to prove I’m not a cop, which I did not send.

  7. I recently met with him. Won’t go into the details, anyone can pm me. I thought he was great, I had a blast. Beautiful sculpted body, edible bubble butt. I would say he looked more distinguished then his pictures portray. He didn’t talk much during session, but did everything I asked for as far as positions. Would recommend in a heartbeat.

  8. Laser wasn't on my radar. Will explore. Are you hairy or smooth?

     

    I'm hairy all over. But had laser on my chest, abs, lower back, armpits, butt, and even on my face and neck to shape up my facial hair. There is some pain, but I couldn't imagine the pain of laser treatment on my pubic hair area. I think that area might be too sensitive. For me, I know that would hurt.

  9. I'm not questioning the existence of bisexuality, but speaking from my experience, I have zero interest in intimacy with women. If a person can be 100% gay (such as myself), it's certainly the case that someone can be 100% straight.

     

    Agreed. I think most “straight” men would not be interested in doing anything sexual with another man. But, I do think there is a spectrum. Because I know many “straight” men, and escorts with wives and kids, who are strictly into receiving oral or topping.

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