I feel like gay men who are masculine or presumed to be straight have it worse, than the stereotypical effeminate gay man, when it comes to coming out of the closet, or telling people that they are gay when/if asked. In some ways it's easier for the straight acting gay man, because he can pretend not to be gay in certain situations, but if he reveals he's gay more people would be shocked or surprised. Versus the effeminate gay man, whom people can already tell that he's gay, from his mannerisms, voice, dress, etc.
Thoughts anyone?