I've been sexually attracted to men since puberty. But never felt the need or desire to experience the romantic side of being with a man. Never wanted to cuddle, hold hands, or even kiss men. Heck, I've never even had a boyfriend. However I find satisfaction and fulfillment by hiring escorts. I don't know if I'm supressing any romantic inclination towards men, because I'm still closeted about my sexuality, or if I'm truly aromantic by nature. I can't live without the physical sexual contact of being with a man, but I have no desire for romantic contact. I also have no desire to have sex with a woman. But honestly, could rather see myself romantically linked with a woman, holding hands, growing old together, raising kids etc. But I've only had one girlfriend briefly in high school. I'm in my late twenties now. What do you all think? Does it seem like I'm aromantic? Not to be confused with asexual. I've always been the kind of person that never wants to draw attention to myself in public. I feel like holding hands with a guy would do that, at least where I live. I don't live in San Francisco, or NYC, where you might see that often.