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I generally go for massage with extras, but a few years ago I really messed up my neck and was desperate for a genuinely good massage to help. None of the previous "sensual" masseurs I thought could do the trick. So I looked in CL and found a guy. Handsome in his pic, but more importantly the ad read like he was skilled. So I booked with him.
 
My first session was great and he really knew what he was doing. Focused on my neck, he was very knowledgeable and was able to alleviate the pain. He even gave me stretching exercises to do on my own to continue the healing. He is gay and in person was very sexy. I was there for legit massage and that's exactly what I got. He was fully clothed the whole time and I was draped. I secretly hoped extras would happen, but no. I did get an erection but it was ignored. But I didn’t care b/c I was totally satisfied since the massage was such high quality. So much so that I booked a second session maybe a month or two later.
 
Second session was just like the first: draped, legit, and amazing again. Didn't think I would repeat with provider that didn't provide "sensual" techniques.
 
Third session was much like the first two. At this point I was not even thinking it was more than a really great massage. Well...Half way through the session he brushed up against my hand and I swore he was hard. Thinking it was accidental and telling myself I must be mistaken that he was erect I didn't give it any more thought....until the same thing happened on the other side. Still a little hesitant I waited for the 3rd and 4th "accidental" brush and decided to be bold and rub a little back on his shorts with my fingers. He was definitely hard! Repeated this game a few times. He kept me draped, but with each pass and stroke up my leg to thigh, he went a little higher and the sheet covered less and less until a good portion of my business was exposed... I was obviously very excited. HE and mutual touch occurred, then more excellent massage technique. Felt like I struck gold. In addition he is really sweet, engaging, and smart. We had some really nice conversations.
 
I saw him a number of times after and they were like the third visit. Sadly he has moved away and I think has stopped doing massage. Haven’t found anyone else who matches the skill and fun mixed in.

They do exist...or at least used to. Many moons ago I worked for a now gone gay porn mag, and part of my job was to help plan and set up photo shoots. I happened to there and on a few occasions was happy to lend a hand (among other things) to keep things moving.
 
Well...someone had to. It was not for my enjoyment...Just doing what I could for society ~

They do exist...or at least used to. Many moons ago I worked for a now gone gay porn mag, and part of my job was to help plan and set up photo shoots. I happened to there and on a few occasions was happy to lend a hand (among other things) to keep things moving.
 
Well...someone had to. It was not for my enjoyment...Just doing what I could for society ~

I just replied to a post in the spa. We all seem to agree he needs to change his ads. Thanks for the feedback.

I've never met him, but we've exchanged a few emails. To me, the copy in his profile doesn't reflect well on him. My email exchanges with him were decidedly more pleasant than you would think from his profile.

because they'll leave for good after a couple or three hours and then I can have the bed to myself and sleep like a baby

It’s a very “clean” transaction (for the most rpart). You get what you want (and maybe otherwise couldnt get) on your terms, on your schedule. You know what you are getting in advance. There is no flirting no cruising no thrill of the hunt nor fear of rejection. It’s hot sex, guaranteed. I am in a LTR and am otherwise emotionally complete so am not lonely or looking for company/companionship, I realize that’s not true for everyone’s motivations. For an Uber-busy, over scheduled undersexed and partnered professional - this works for me.

I find this guy so smoking hot. Surprised there are no posts about him. Anyone met him and can share info:
 
https://rentmen.eu/yummyfur

That is hysterical. The whole thing was made bearable by downing a few Upson Daquiris ......Huuunnney.

I was getting a massage from @BunnyBixler, and the lotion bottle rolled off the table, and when Bunny moved forward to apply extra pressure, he stepped right on the the lotion bottle. Squashed it to bits. He went to his supply cabinet to get more lotion, and it was locked.
 
Can you imagine? We had to call the massage off! Well, it was ghastly. Well, it was just ghastly!

Adam Levine, Liev Schreiber, and Henry Cavill

I’m so disappointed reading these great reviews of Rob. I wish that I would have had a similar experience.
 
A few years ago I was traveling to DC for work. Since he had plans to visit there at the same time, I contacted him. Like others I was so intrigued by his hot pics. Communication was prompt and cordial, and we settled on day and time. Confirmation of the appt the day before (and/or earlier on the day)...all fine.
 
He asked that I text him when I arrived at his hotel so that he could give me the room #. I arrived and texted as instructed, then crickets! Here I was like a chump standing outside the hotel waiting. No response again to follow up texts at 5min after the scheduled time, 15 min after....
 
Finally he texts back about 20-25 min after scheduled (and confirmed!) time, and he cancels on me! Some bs about having scheduled someone else. No apologies, no kinds words, nothing! Needless to say I was furious. Tried to text back to tell him what a douchebag he is, and he had blocked me. He blocked ME!! I’ve never encountered anyone so devoid of courtesy or respect. I wasn’t so upset about being canceled on, but it was how he handled it that really got me.
 
So yes he’s uber hot, but that doesn’t give license to be rude and insensitive. I didn’t know about this forum at the time. Tried to leave a negative review on MF and m4m, but it wouldn’t let me. So now I got it off my chest.

I get that texting is preferred, but I'm sorry, sending a few emails seems like a reasonable investment in their business. Scheduling their appointments goes along with the territory. I know it's not exactly the same thing, but customer service in any other business means relating to your customer, not making them work too hard to get to you. Given the amount we pay for the service, shouldn't I be able to select the method of communication that works for my level of comfort?

Ah yes, there are always the exceptions. Just to keep our interest (and our wallets ) engaged!

I like to keep things light...There is so much BS going on in the world, that there is no point getting all butt hurt about a different opinion. Variety is the spice of life.
 
I can definitely see why you think your examples are hot, but they don't do anything for me. Too young, too pretty, and too hairless!! Lol
 
Like I said, we won't have to scratch each other's eyes out competing for providers. Thanks for sharing.

It's easy for me. To my eye Rob looks like a man. A huge bonus is no apparent tattoos. Those other guys look like caricatures.

I booked this guy a couple of years ago. Pics are real, and he is just as gorgeous in person. He was visiting SF. Unlike the other posts I had no trouble booking a time at all. I was reluctant to book because the ad was vague in terms of what "sensual" meant exactly. But I went ahead with it half expecting it would be an overpriced therapeutic massage. So I was pleasantly surprised that it was more. Definitely not sexual, but I left Happy at the End.
 
He was not overly friendly, but that's okay. Not rude or cold, but rather aloof or maybe he's an introvert. If you like attention paid to your feet (I don't especially) you'll be happy.
 
Overall a good experience...and did I mention he's gorgeous?! I probably won't repeat only b/c there are others that push my buttons better.

I generally go for massage with extras, but a few years ago I really messed up my neck and was desperate for a genuinely good massage to help. None of the previous "sensual" masseurs I thought could do the trick. So I looked in CL and found a guy. Handsome in his pic, but more importantly the ad read like he was skilled. So I booked with him.
 
My first session was great and he really knew what he was doing. Focused on my neck, he was very knowledgeable and was able to alleviate the pain. He even gave me stretching exercises to do on my own to continue the healing. He is gay and in person was very sexy. I was there for legit massage and that's exactly what I got. He was fully clothed the whole time and I was draped. I secretly hoped extras would happen, but no. I did get an erection but it was ignored. But I didn’t care b/c I was totally satisfied since the massage was such high quality. So much so that I booked a second session maybe a month or two later.
 
Second session was just like the first: draped, legit, and amazing again. Didn't think I would repeat with provider that didn't provide "sensual" techniques.
 
Third session was much like the first two. At this point I was not even thinking it was more than a really great massage. Well...Half way through the session he brushed up against my hand and I swore he was hard. Thinking it was accidental and telling myself I must be mistaken that he was erect I didn't give it any more thought....until the same thing happened on the other side. Still a little hesitant I waited for the 3rd and 4th "accidental" brush and decided to be bold and rub a little back on his shorts with my fingers. He was definitely hard! Repeated this game a few times. He kept me draped, but with each pass and stroke up my leg to thigh, he went a little higher and the sheet covered less and less until a good portion of my business was exposed... I was obviously very excited. HE and mutual touch occurred, then more excellent massage technique. Felt like I struck gold. In addition he is really sweet, engaging, and smart. We had some really nice conversations.
 
I saw him a number of times after and they were like the third visit. Sadly he has moved away and I think has stopped doing massage. Haven’t found anyone else who matches the skill and fun mixed in.

Curious as well. He's here in SF now.

Was a decent enough hotel while he was visiting SF. All aspects (massage, HE, discussion) were with minimal effort. Seemed pretty disinterested in general.

Smart move

I exchanged a few messages with him to set up a massage session. We talked on the phone. I confirmed. Everything seemed fine. He even gave me an address for an apartment building (but no apartment number). I showed up but did not get any single messages from him again. I'm guessing he blocked my phone number. I do not know if he actually lives there or he sent me out on a trip to Burbank... (in my defense, this was before I knew this forum existed...)

I generally go for massage with extras, but a few years ago I really messed up my neck and was desperate for a genuinely good massage to help. None of the previous "sensual" masseurs I thought could do the trick. So I looked in CL and found a guy. Handsome in his pic, but more importantly the ad read like he was skilled. So I booked with him.
 
My first session was great and he really knew what he was doing. Focused on my neck, he was very knowledgeable and was able to alleviate the pain. He even gave me stretching exercises to do on my own to continue the healing. He is gay and in person was very sexy. I was there for legit massage and that's exactly what I got. He was fully clothed the whole time and I was draped. I secretly hoped extras would happen, but no. I did get an erection but it was ignored. But I didn’t care b/c I was totally satisfied since the massage was such high quality. So much so that I booked a second session maybe a month or two later.
 
Second session was just like the first: draped, legit, and amazing again. Didn't think I would repeat with provider that didn't provide "sensual" techniques.
 
Third session was much like the first two. At this point I was not even thinking it was more than a really great massage. Well...Half way through the session he brushed up against my hand and I swore he was hard. Thinking it was accidental and telling myself I must be mistaken that he was erect I didn't give it any more thought....until the same thing happened on the other side. Still a little hesitant I waited for the 3rd and 4th "accidental" brush and decided to be bold and rub a little back on his shorts with my fingers. He was definitely hard! Repeated this game a few times. He kept me draped, but with each pass and stroke up my leg to thigh, he went a little higher and the sheet covered less and less until a good portion of my business was exposed... I was obviously very excited. HE and mutual touch occurred, then more excellent massage technique. Felt like I struck gold. In addition he is really sweet, engaging, and smart. We had some really nice conversations.
 
I saw him a number of times after and they were like the third visit. Sadly he has moved away and I think has stopped doing massage. Haven’t found anyone else who matches the skill and fun mixed in.

Could be that changing his name frequently helps. Like Madonna, he reinvents himself.

I’m curious what your hesitation is related to texting vs. email?