Gymowner

Well the thing is if people will want to hire him again if he does come back. Burning bridges is never a good thing. Back to being young, under 27 and lack of communication skills. This shit never ends does it!?

my impression is that when an escort uses orientation... "ask me" and safe/bb... "ask me" then full on sex will not be an option. just a hunch. best to ask him directly

holy bejesus!

Meth look. Poor guy. I wish him and everyone in this crazy world of ours good luck and the wisdom and inner strength to keep forging ahead and treat each other with kindness and respect.

orville and xyz ... both calm down. i for one am not defending anyones behavior. i said it comes across to us from a different generation as disrespectful. for some they purposefully mean to be that way. let them go then. for others i dont think thats their intention. these providers lack empathy. hopefully over time, with maturation and being burnt enough times themselves, they too will grow up and complain about the short falls of that young generation.

I agree somewhat. As an example I get these sorts of convos all the time. "Hey! What's up? How was your day?" "Good here. How was yours? Training hard? What day do you want to get together this week?" Silence.... until the day before he wants to get together. So in this sort situation I dont view it as a "well since he didnt respond I wont ever respond back" but a "he doesnt have a concrete answer yet". Many lack the skills to follow up with a "I dont know my schedule yet this week. O.k. if I get back to you in a few days" and instead just respond back when they do want to set something up. This is the sort of example of when I say dont throw the baby out with the bathwater.

i agree orville on that as well. so much i think stems from ones upbringing... or lack there of!

i am totally with you on that Baron

its lack of empathy and unfortunately a little bit of lack of respect. i dont think they look at it like that but that is how it comes across to the one being ghosted. they honestly dont put themselves in others shoes nor look at the situation as to how they are affecting others from creating this sort of action. if A ROD were texting them do you honestly think they would ghost or blow him off? no way! the flip side is one also cant throw the baby out with the bathwater. if one ghosts you.... and you ignore every single one that does so, then you will be relegated to only speaking and associating with those over 70! lol so i look at it as do you want to win the battle or win the war? if i ever thought it was personal that people that ghost me only do so towards me, i would be done with those people in a nanosecond! these young un's do this to everyone! its not right but most of the time its not personal guys.

this is a huge issue with many, as stated under 27. i have a regular that is a really nice guy. he starts a short text conversation with a question. i reply, ask a question or so back and then many times silence from him. i have even asked in person why this is the case and i get the answer "yeah my parents say the same thing. i really need to work on it. i much prefer talking on the phone than texting." so when he goes silent, i call... goes to voice mail. i have explained that making a general statement doesnt necessarily need a response back but when one asks a specific question it is proper and RESPECTFUL to answer back! i have even so much as said at times "if i dont get a reply back shortly then forget about our next session". then i get a response. i also know guys of the same age that are punctual, text back with answers to questions and just goes about this form of communicating in what i would call a normal manner. is it selfishness? laziness? lack of proper upbringing? control issue? i wonder how they feel when they are in the same position and someone ghosts them? are they upset or do they just figure this is normal. god help them if thats the case. our society has created this with i believe our modern ways of communicating ie.... texting, emails, etc. when you pick up the phone and the person answers you start the conversation and end the conversation. very effective!

A true regular... once a week. Sometimes twice a week. It's usually someone that's under the radar. Most are not posted on the websites.

vitaly just won a big show in russia this weekend. go to his instagram, goodvito. 3 pics in he posts a short video doing a lat spread... my god his ass, hams and back are insanely massive! at 23 years old! if this was really him in NYC a few weeks ago im biting my tongue that he wasnt in my neck of the woods to see him. anyone meet up with this guy to confirm yeah or nay if the ad was really him or fake? his ad has expired and he did get a contract with larry wheels and a few others recently, so he really could have been in and out of NYC quickly. man am i dying to find out whats what on this one! lol

I did however have a regular I saw every week for a year or so thru discussions during our meet ups talk about loosing his regular job and how tight money was. He was very selective on who he saw so didnt see many people at all. He NEVER asked me for any advances for money ever but knowing his situation I offered to see him twice a week to help him out. More than able to help him. It was my call... my decision. He eagerly said yes. My father taught me to work for my money, so I did the same with this escort. A win/win for both of us.

I recently, 6 months ago had a local guy I saw about 4 times maybe 2 years ago hit me up. Asked if I could cash app him $50. He was at a casino and "needed the money".... that he would like to see me that week and just take it off the fee. "No can do". I said. He got a little pushy about it and I said "look... let's not have any problems here. If you keep this up you will be a problem. You dont want that". Radio silent after that and never heard back again. Other than that I really dont think I've ever been in that sort of situation. Knock on wood. I also think that some hustlers feel they can push certain people that way and not others. Depends many times on your personality type and mannerisms.

I cant believe in our society nowadays how many young people have no vision, no drive and no desire to stand on their own two feet with a career to support themselves. Seeking arrangements, rentmen etc is all about making fast, easy, big money with little or no effort nor learned skills. My generation went to college, got a degree, hired onto a job as a career and many times with enough drive and determination started your own business. Capitalism at its finest. All the while paying taxes and contributing INTO the system. Now it's about easy money, no career and when you cant make ends meet want the government right there for your share of the handouts. So lazy, unfocused people not paying taxes INTO the system but want big money for doing little to nothing then expecting government handouts taking FROM the system. Hmmm....This country is fucked!

Mark Dalton

yes. i think i saw Dominic when i was in NYC and went to the Gaiety. i remember hiring Mark Dalton who performed at the Gaiety and was pretty new to the biz back then. that boy LOVED analingus!

a story this psycho/nut job told me was he had a client that was married. an attorney. the escort actually knew the family of the client. so after a few sessions the escort/whack job said he wanted to remodel his kitchen. he asked the attorney for a "loan". when the attorney said he didnt have the money for the escort, the escort then said "thats too bad. it would be really awful if your wife learned about what you have going on with me." after that, i think the escort was in the process of getting the funds. another story was with an accountant. the escort asked for a $5000 advance of sessions since he wanted new furniture. the accountant "loaned" him the money against future sessions. well... the escort then started inviting the accountant to house parties, cooks out etc, which he went to. after a few actual sessions the accountant wanted to know how much was left. the whack job said "we are just about done". the accountant said "what?... you have to be kidding". the escort said "do you really think i would ask you over to my house for parties for free? that was part of the fees". what recourse did the accountant have? when i heard these two stories i said ....."goodbye"!

thats sounds like a mind fuck there. get you to pay for the ticket and a no show. gets his mind control rocks off. what is with these pyschos?!

never got a chance with TJ. i guessed i missed out with that one! Dominic was a uber hot little Guido muscle fuck for sure! i wonder what he looks like today?

I wonder how much of these scams come down to sociopathic tendencies? Knowingly harming or hurting someone without remorse/little remorse and still going through with the act is considered anti social behavior. Many times brought on by very bad childhood trauma. I met an escort in florida about 8 years ago in a coffee shop. Went out on actual dates with him for a few weeks. never a hire situation. Then I saw the ugly. Talked openly about how he wanted expensive things for his house. He would basically blackmail his clients if he knew they were married to give him money for his projects. Incredibly sweet and charming at first. Then the monster quickly reared its head. After those stories and saw those actions I said "bye bye". This man went beyond sociopath into psychopath realm!

If a guy his hot as fuck then so are his tats. If a guy is ugly as fuck.... well.... you get the idea.

oh man do i remember dominic! hot as fuck! i hired him in NYC many years ago around Thanksgiving time. the small hotel room had full length mirrors on the entire wall close to the bed. Dominic got really turned on by watching our action in the mirrors! ah memories!!1

as did sonny markham. a hot as hell blast from the past!

Great points guys. The problem is when a guy does something that has a short shelf life... porn or not.. time goes by. A 26 year old that gets into porn for 3 or 4 years even if successful, now has an even worse dilemma than they had at 26. 4 more years of others advancing in careers and now at 32 can become more unmarketable or even harder to get into a career. Most dont think about these big big issues until it is tragically too late.