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  1. People are motivated for many different reasons to become sexually intimate with another person. Physical attraction and yearning for an intimate bond that leads into a relationship is the ultimate desire. Yet at times that isnt the case and many people turn outside of that sphere for the connection. To feel loved, to feel secure, to show or feel affection, the desire to be needed, the need to make money, the need to make others feel good and worthy all come into play as factors. My mother told me many years ago "if you are ever ashamed of doing something then that's the reason not to do it". I look at hiring as an indulgence. I'm not ashamed whatsoever to do so and have no issues telling others. If they dont like it then that's on their conscience... not mine.
  2. Omfg that Jett Wayne is white hot!!! Hottest looking gay I've seen in a long time!!! Wonder if he has the gay attitude to go with it or a cool dude.
  3. yes it is jake. so he is now married? i wonder what the little missus thinks about her oogiewoogiebear getting fucked raw and bringing home the "gift that keeps on giving" to her.
  4. i believe it is trent is as well. i had the exact same situation happen with him about 15 years ago. nice guy. handsome and he was so willing for me to give him the salami he almost broke down and did it for no extra. but alas he didnt. so instead i put his legs up on my shoulders and had him jerk his cock to the end. right when he was ready to blow i pushed up hard and got his cock within inches of his mouth. right at explosion i said "open your fuckin mouth". he did and exploded right down his throat. very hot. he claimed at the time that was the third best sex scene he ever had. i wonder what the first two were like!???
  5. MsclLovr has it right on the money!! Performed flawlessly under adverse conditions! Like I said there will always be a muscle monkey hotter, younger, hornier and more willing right around the corner. Problem is many times we dont turn the corner to find that out! Bravo MsclLovr! And saved a ton of money to enjoy the city with!!
  6. i dont believe this for a moment. if this were true, then he would have replied to your texts and said something like "oh my god... it is for tonight? i am so sorry. i planned this in my schedule for tomorrow night. i am busy tonight" not a ghosting until after the fact then try to come up with a feable excuse. just like my escort that blew off our restaurant meeting and then 2 days after the fact said "oh i forgot" while i text him the day before and the day of the dinner. yeah right. i smell a pile of bullshit right around the corner.
  7. And just think. You can take the money not spent on a flake hooker and pamper yourself at the spa and their ultimate treatment!
  8. and if you look hard enough you can see all these guys online for free.
  9. lazarus... i get where you are coming from and yes there is a sting to those words. maninsoma said it best. the escort then should not agree to the dinner date or doing something out in the public if he is to feel insecure in front of a bunch of total strangers being side by side with an older man. in my case above i feel the escort really wanted to go. there are factors outside of our understanding on a day to day basis that can prevent follow through of intentions. girlfriends not discussed, boyfriends not discussed, another offer from a client for more money etc and many times the escort trying to be a "good guy" and not hurt ones feelings actually does just the opposite by not communicating. i didnt stop seeing my regular from this situation. i stopped when the constant cancelling became a factor. in fact, the escort was the one suggesting the get togethers in the first place then cancelling them!
  10. i see this sort of behavior happen over and over with this generation. we actually discussed this in another thread about this issue. i had a very similar situation happen to me with an escort a few years ago. i was seeing him regularly for about 6 months at that time. so not a newbie. i found out his birthday was coming up so i made dinner reservations as a birthday present. he 100% agreed to the dinner at one of our sessions and he was really happy to go. day before, i text him the time and the address of the restaurant. no reply. day of, again no answer. so as a back up, i asked a friend of mine if he wanted to go to dinner that evening (no one puts baby in the corner!). he agreed so off we went. i didnt text the escort again and 2 days later he text me as if nothing happened. i asked him what the hell happened. he said "oh sorry i totally forgot." what.... with two texts reminding him? the next time i saw him i flat out cornered him about this and he agreed that he was lying about forgetting but never could give me a legitimate reason for the ghosting. i told him point blank that i would never ask nor involve him outside of coming over to my place again. and i never did. funny thing was, he was actually a lot of fun to be with once he was over at my place. hence why i continued seeing him. but from that point forward i just made sure i didnt put myself in a situation that would become a bad experience or aggravation to me. if he cancelled at the last minute (that happened a lot) and i was at home watching t.v... no biggie. after enough times of cancels though (i finally had enough when he cancelled 4 times in a row and HE initiated each and every appointment) i told him i would be looking for a new regular and you guessed it.. he told me that he could read between the lines and I was making a big deal over nothing (gas lighting anyone?). like what....my time is worthless and only he mattered? so that was that. remember guys... there will always be someone younger, buffer, hotter, hornier and flat out needing the money more than the one before him. and you can take that to the bank! i think it goes right back to what i have said and have learned from my mistakes... this is a business dealing. be friendly... yes. try to be friends with an escort...forgeddaboutit! you are not getting involved with your best friend from high school. once one goes outside of these boundaries then it can and usually does get weird. even something as simple as a dinner!
  11. A bodybuilder being all about himself? Ghastly.... just ghastly!!! Lol
  12. Really? I never seen a harder cock fucking with a gay dude on a straight guy in my life! You are watching different porn than I am!
  13. harlow... you give the impression that something either happened in the session he wasnt comfortable with or he just flat out wasnt comfortable with you after the first meet. sorry to sound blunt but this is how i am reading this. time to move on
  14. i am not one to glamorize or rationalize their decisions but it seems we scorn those that go this route even though we ogle over their bodies yet clap and applaud the "fortunate" ones that go into rehab for drug addiction and martyr those that die from drug overdoses. i dont get it.
  15. well kidney failure is becoming more and more prevalent with bodybuilders. however... it usually doesnt cause short term death. so many that look and feel invincible have no idea what is lurking inside of them. blood pressure is usually the culprit for their kidney disease.
  16. beautiful man none the less
  17. guru... that has always happened. my point is that these young people want others to take care of them instead of making their own way in life. "help me sugar daddy so i can stay out and party with my friends all night".
  18. what is totally sad with our society now is that there are very few people to motivate, as examples, young people to go out and work hard and succeed. guys like this are now a dime a dozen. stuck in their career (what....at 24?), doesnt make the money he needs for the lavish lifestyle he wants to live (dont we all?) and wants to travel the world (way too many instagram losers trying to prove to other instagram losers that they are winners). i am actually glad that i am nearing the later part of my life. if i had to be stuck in this "modern liberal" society that goes nowhere, i think i would end my life prematurely.
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  20. unfortunately many escorts will put a "i dont do" list out there so as to not offend the client in the meet up. what they end up doing unfortunately/fortunately with certain clients far exceeds that list. it can be frustrating but it is what it is boys.
  21. Oh lordy! I remember hiring Heath even further back than 2011. Prolly more like 2005 or 2006. He was a young 'un back then and cute as can be! Very new to the biz. We saw each other maybe 5 or 6 times. He had a muscular latin boyfriend at the time that was also an escort. Man a blast from the past!
  22. stupid question guys.... thats the same guy right? i can definitely see the similarity in the facial features
  23. hmmm. he is 11x8 and his friend is 10x7.5. the chance of truly finding 2 guys with those measurements would be like a needle in a hay stack! and he is travelling. i'd want to meet them in a coffee shop or hotel bar for sure before i would take the bait. proceed with caution.
  24. hot homeless guys? thats disgusting. if an adult is offered financial gain for an act and that person agrees then i really dont think there is an argument or a position here. as long as the adult is free thinking, lucid and understands the pros and cons then whats the big deal? how many people gave them selves up on the casting couch to get ahead? many.... many did not.
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