Have you narrowed your choices on Rentmen, for example? Once you’re compiled a list, search the site for comments or reviews (there are hundreds, if not thousands). Then, post a 411 on the narrowed down list and seek input from members. Once you’ve got a good list, simply text your candidates and be clear about your interests (or fetishes). Don’t be embarrassed; most have probably heard it all and will appreciate your stated interests. Then inquire as to session rates. You‘ll no doubt narrow your choices to a handful and then follow your intuition.