Oh Jason Carter! About 16 years ago I met him in Dallas. He apologized that he had been at Pride all day and was sweaty and perhaps needed to go home and shower first. I said “no way”!. Get over here now and let me savor you! When he visited SoCal the following January he spent a night at my house. Smart, hung and a great conversationalist. I hope he’s thriving.
In the past 6 years, I’ve moved 4 times, leaving some of my possessions in storage in Orange County. One of the moves was to the summer house I bought near the San Juans. It’s a hassle, but one you can manage.