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I sent a message asking a few standard details abt his session. He read it but didn’t respond ?

seriously? some people play mah jong, others go for cake and coffee

Yes, that is what you do. I also have Google Voice (free) and that is what I use to chat and text. Once I have met them, I might give my actual cell number. 

Get a google voice number. It protects you from all of the crazies out there!

Get a google voice number. It protects you from all of the crazies out there!

Not for me, I will not repeat - his massage only lasts 45 minutes then it's the sensual ending. Kneading skills are a-ok. 

I remember one time I was ‘using’ a gloryhole (is that the right term?). ‘Using’ as in my cock was through the hole. The guy the other side was doing a fine job. Then he stopped, and I was far from cuming. I think that’s fine because I was keen to try a few different techniques through the hole…so I waited and it wasn’t long before the next guy started.
I knew he was different because the technique was very different. Then he stopped too, although it was only a brief stop. But this time it felt kind of different, less wet, slightly tighter and I suddenly realised he’d backed his ass onto my cock. I pulled out and was really annoyed he should assume I’d want to bareback him. For me that’s a definite etiquette breach. In fact it’s more than that, it’s totally unacceptable. If he wanted that he could have offered his ass up at the hole. That’s why I don’t use gloryholes now, and of course I prefer to see the person I’m having fun with (and of course be seen….by them and by others…if my sexual partner is cool with that!!!)

Although some pics are slightly photoshopped, Ruben is an impressive specimen, pecs with great nips and in his private pics a sizable tool.  He should move to Manhattan and mint.

Judging bu his private pics, he can be great fun post massage!!!  I have not seen such an exposed AH from a masseur in a long time!

A lot of you have PM'd me asking for a physical description of the "Fabio" I've had multiple sessions with @ Hush. Here's what he looks like, and if you need details on our sessions or anything else, just PM me.

I think @RBENJI is my new favorite poster. You’ve got me laughing every damn time you post. Some of us need a chuckle sometimes so I appreciate it. 
 
How did your experience at Hush go? 

The places that involve little to no massage are open 24 hours.

There are a few important changes that are in the works that I wanted to let the community know about so that there are no surprises and that you can properly plan for them.  
Sometime before the end of the year (most likely in November), there is going to be an update to the Invision Power Board (IPB) software which will require users to login with their email address instead of their display name.  This means if you have to login to the site, you would type in your email address to access the site once that update is applied.  Once logged in, your email address will not be shown anywhere.  You current username will continue to be used once logged into the site to view and post.    
  With the October release of IPB, it will introduce a new feature that allows admins to prune older private messages that have not had any replies within a certain amount of time.  We currently have over 1M private messages exchanged by users going back for 20 years.  This takes up over 1000MB of space within the site's database.  I plan to use the new feature to prune messages that have not been replied to within 5 years.  If you have older private messages that are important for you (for sentimental purposes or contain helpful information), please be sure to save an offline copy for yourself.  You could also simply just reply to the message again so that it has recent activity.  That would automatically exclude it from being pruned.
  As part of my resiliency planning, I've been trying to figure out how the site would continue to operate if something happened to me.  We've seen what happened when Daddy died...  if we don't have someone who understands how to run a website and how to maintain the IPB software, we could find ourselves in a bad place.  Finding people that understand all of this is difficult if not impossible.  As a result, I've been focused on how to remove this dependancy.  My plan is to have the site moved to being hosted by Invision itself.  They would take care of all of the underlying server technology and ensure the platform is compatible with the software.  Any updates could be applied from the Admin area of the site without needing to understand about the rest of the stuff under the hood.  Sometime before the end of the year (most likely in November), I will need to schedule a day or two to take the site offline for the migration to ensure we don't lose any data from the time I start the export until the time it's migrated and restored.  Having Invision host the site is somewhat more expensive than what we're doing today, but I think it's a critical step to ensure the site's continued operations should I get hit by a bus or something similar.   I don't have specific dates yet for the above changes.  The first two changes are dependent on the IPB software being released and me being able to test them successfully before applying.  The last change will need to be coordinated with the Invision hosting team to make sure they have someone available on their side to handle the import after I finish exporting our data.  
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask below.  

Does anyone else think this monkeypox epidemic, will force a lot of men to come out of the closet? I’m not exactly in the closet, but I’m not really out to everyone either. 

Thanks!

I went through https://wallymassage.com/rates/ and got a hard on reading the Wally Special!!

Yeah both Ragin and San were out of this world to me. I only had Sam once because he kept jumping around at spas. But Ragin I had like 4 times and it was better and better every time. I miss him. Ugh. 

I thought Sam was hot but there wasn’t much chemistry. However Ragin and I had a lot of fun. I hate that he disappeared but perhaps he will resurface again.  

I believe @Beef-a-roniis raising his hand and letting you know that he fits the bill and is up for the challenge.  🤔

I thought Sam was hot but there wasn’t much chemistry. However Ragin and I had a lot of fun. I hate that he disappeared but perhaps he will resurface again.  

I never had Sam but Ragin was out of sight! (He had mixed reviews here and a few others’ experience were apparently not the same—but he was absolutely off the charts with me!).  
As to your question, Alpha Mens Spa (W. 36th/9th Ave) has a black masseur (I forgot his name). He’s professional and friendly with a decent technique and gives an average ending. Just not really enough of my type physically.   I guess I just really want Ragin again. 

Thanks for sharing. I always found Armond Rizzo’s voice too whiny but he can take one like a champ. Jeez. 👏

Before I begin, I want to say that these are my opinions based on personal experiences. After 10 years of hiring men, I can say that I’m totally giving up on it. I’m in my 30’s, so I guess I’m a little pickier, but of the 100+ men I’ve hired over the years, I can honestly only think of 3-4 that were actually worth it. Most of the time, the guy does not look nearly as good as his pictures ( not as muscular, older than advertised, different body pics used, etc.). Most of these guys I could likely meet for free. Somewhere down the line, hiring men became an addiction because I’ve suffered from low self esteem most of my life and any sort of rejection would put me in a funk.   I’m realizing now that spending so much money just to avoid my fears is not helping me in the long run.
 
I feel so ashamed to have spent so much money over the years for companionship I basically could have received for free had I stuck to a workout routine. 
I will say that the worst escorts are usually the Eastern European/Russian ones or the South American ones. They’re usually the rudest and more likely to have misleading pictures/ show disinterest.
I don’t mean to offend anyone with my post. They’re my experiences and options.
 
 

He is extremely hot and has a fantastic body. Very nice thick tool too. 
Easy to communicate with. Polite and friendly. 

Massage was pretty good. Relaxing and decent pressure. I was swinging between being completely relaxed and enjoying his massage, and being super turned on because of all the sensualness. Lots of mutual touch.
It was a fun experience, definitely worth it. Will repeat for sure!
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He’s not new. Just a name change.
I had massage from him a little more than a year ago. Very nice guy. Solid massage.