Something very XXX is going on. I recall this from Maverick Men, and the bottom (who's supposedly bi) is saying something like, "Yeah, f**k me, you sonofabitch." Other moments in the scene make it clear the top is doing exactly that.
Love it when an Asian man has a trail that contrasts with all the smooth skin. As an intrepid explorer, I find that having a trail to follow adds to the hotness.
I take the more direct approach: "Guys, I'd appreciate it if we could all just hold the conversation so I can relax and enjoy what your hands are doing." That usually does it.