I echo a lot already said, but will add something new near the end. I've loved sucking as something we both (or we all, for my rare group events) can enjoy, w/my pleasure from the sights, textures & aroma, plus enjoying his enjoyment. But I never have felt subservient--I'm the one who and control where & when this is all going, but he might not realize it. Love to bring him close, edge, etc., although I hurry through round one for the sake of us both. What then delights me is if there's a round 2, maybe with him never softening from round 1. I feel like a maestro getting a standing ovation!