Vegas_Millennial

If only the queer knew the meaning of discrete

Another downside (besides ticket price): it's only a 75 minute "experience". The original movie was over 2 hours. So, they've cut about about 1/3 of the movie. 😢

The only apps I have on my telephone are Grindr and Growlr. If it's not helping me get laid for free, then it's not going on my phone. I pay my bills (including escorts) with cash and paper checks.

Here's the best I can find, searching 🔎 this forum for "weekend" in the subject title: Even though the prices are 7 years old, the gentleman provide a rule of thumb that 2 nights should be about 1.5 times the overnight rate, and a full weekend should be about 2 times the overnight rate. Plus, the host pays for his companion's travel, meals, and shared entertainment. The other topics with "weekend" in the subject title never mentioned rates, but provided good insight on how to make a a weekend hire go smoothly. A key takeaway is providing a few hours each day of personal time, where the escort is free to go out on his own, use the gym, make phone calls, and just be "off the clock" away from the host. Otherwise, the temptation to turn on the phone during time together is too great, and both parties end up uncomfortable.

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Thanks for this. I visited Sauna Thermas twice last year, and I didn't know about renting rooms. I just spent my time in the sauna, spa, and at the bar. When I met a boy I wanted to hire, he brought me to an available small room and we had our 30 minutes of fun for 50 Euros. It was the same for every boy I hired, about 5 boys over 2 visits. When I visit next year, I'll be sure to ask what the room options are and if any include drinks as you suggest. But, I'll be satisfied even if I don't get a room and have the same experience as my last visits.

When I "googled" "Proper definition", it gave me this: I had not seen the descriptor "British English" when I've looked up words before. But it makes perfect sense. In American English, we would likely say "That man is not an actual sex worker" instead of "proper sex worker", and it wouldn't ruffle as many feathers. I hear that word "actual" used several times a day in this context (not always about sex workers, but something like "I didn't actually have lunch today, only a snack", etc.) and it irks me, because "proper" is clearly the more accurate word in these situations. But that's what makes the English language the colorful language ...colourful language... it is which is awesome ...I mean, brilliant. 😊

My best hires so far for 2025 were the men at the annual Company of Men Palm Springs gathering in April. I hired about 4-5 of them throughout the weekend: some in a group and some separately. My room is already booked for next year's gathering... Just waiting for the dates to officially be announced.

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The next time I hire, I'll be sure to discerne first if he is a proper sex worker. As I surely don't want to waste my hour on a common gigalo. Thankfully, about 99% of the men I've met and hired, including all those I've met as members on Company of Men, have been proper and made me feel like and attractive Bear/Daddy.. BTW, I list "British English" on my resume as a 2nd language that I can understand (Australian English is listed as 3rd). Therefore, perhaps I have a better understanding of @Jamie21 meaning of "proper" as a British Adjective than others might. Just don't ask me to translate Canadian English!

Be mindful if visiting any spas or bathhouses in Montreal, as those were the sources for outbreaks of Monkeypox in the recent past, and Monkeypox is back in Montreal:

Remember to be careful, as spas and bathhouses were the leading cause of the last Monkeypox outbreaks, and Monkeypox is back again in Montreal:

I am grateful to have learned something useful today. To be culturally sensitive to the Day Laborers I hire who are willing to top me but do not want an equal partnership, I will from now on try to remember to say "Exploit me, Daddy" as each of them pounds my ass. 🥳 This way, as the bottom, it will be clear for the record that I am the one who is exploited, if that makes him feel better. It's important to make him feel macho and I'm control, especially if I am interested in hiring him again. 😍

My top guys are in NYC, Dallas, and Ft Lauderdale. All are discussed here, with their home cities mentioned in the subject line to make it easy to search when traveling.

I know a man who fits that description perfectly: Fantastic deep tissue massage that works out every not, combined with mind-blowing sex with his hung package. He's "conventionally attractive", tall, white, blue eyes, silver hair, late 50s/early 60s, straight teeth, no tattoos. 😍 However, he has told me he won't travel to San Francisco again. I would mention his name, but we can't discuss masseurs that provided sex as part of a session, per the Company of Men rules (it would compromise the masseur's livelihood).

I've written "sex tourism" on my customs form in the past and never had a problem. But seeing as how the world is getting more sensitive, next time I'll just say "strip clubs". When I travel each year to Mexico, I bring my own enemas because I'm not putting Mexican water up my anus to prepare for intercourse. Mexican customs officers once stopped me and asked me what they were and tried to give me a hard time. Then I loudly said "It's for sex in the butt", pointing to my penis and then my butt, then the customs officers quickly let me through and away from the rest of the public. My point is: it's just sex. As long is it's not drugs, money laundering, terrorism, employment without the proper visa, or the potential to overstay your visa, you'll be fine if you let it slip that you're going to or went to strip clubs.

I went to Montreal and Toronto last year. The exchange rate for US dollar vs Canadian is good! It's not as good as a few months ago, but it's much better than it was in 2021-2024. Enjoy the exchange rate, cooler weather, and beautiful men in the Gay Village!

Just don't tell my employer. That company has been exploiting me for nearly a quarter century (giving me money to do something I would not otherwise be doing willingly). I sure would hate for that exploitation to end.

There's nothing discrete about Queer today. Gays, Lesbians, and Bisexuals just wanted to not be harassed or arrested for gathering on their own. Today's Queers want attention and thrive on making ordinary situations uncomfortable for as many people as possible. Queer is a fitting word, because it's strange indeed.

Did they have the stripper costumes available for sale in the lobby? I want to buy the twinkle costume to wear at Christmas!

The producers made a big deal about "color-conscience" casting, hoping that would make up for lackluster scenery and directing, when the color they should have focused on was the green.

Equality is a double edged sword 🙁

Welcome to Company of Men! The Search 🔍 feature at the top of the page is a great tool. Searching for "Jock" and "NYC" (must match all words, subject title only) gave this fairly recent discussion. There's a few guys listed here, which I'm sure any of them would be a great first hire:

I agree 💯 When discussing masseurs or spas, I am careful to either recommend a person/place or not. If not, I'll list why. I will not disclose anything else, publicly or privately. As for gay bars, gay clubs, gay saunas, gay hotels, etc., it's a slippery slope with equal rights to prohibit women or people who yell "rape" in online reviews because someone touched his ass at the gay bar. I am finding that mandatory dress codes (pants and underwear prohibited) for back rooms and saunas seem to be the best way to keep the looky-loos away and keep these places for men who know what they want from other men. Or, if no dress code, then fisting porn playing on screens above the gay bar or in the lobby of a gay hotel, to help ward-off would be complainers who take to the Internet to expose all that goes on.

I haven't celebrated Halloween in years. October 31 is Nevada Day, a state holiday, with parades celebrating our state joining the Union on October 31, 1864, just days before the first Republican Presidential re-election. Those of us without kids forget it's also Halloween. Up in our state capital, Halloween has historically been observed on October 30 so it doesn't interfere with the Nevada Day festivities on October 31. I do usually hire escorts for recognized state holidays such as Christmas and Thanksgiving. Perhaps this year I'll hire for Nevada Day also, seeing how it's a Friday this year. And no, escorts haven't charged me a premium for meeting on a holiday.