bostonman

Wellp - when I tried to explain I was just hoping to plan ahead and I was sorry that my query was taken the wrong way, he then called me a "crybaby" and blocked me. I think I was saved from a bad experience after all. Good riddance.

Got in touch asking him about rates. Far from "sweet and gregarious" I got berated for saying I was hoping to plan for early next week. ("Talk when ur ready to have fun. People who plan so far out always cancel") Not a great way to start.

I confess that for all of my adult life I've been an enthusiastic sperm swallower lol. It's tough for me to imagine giving head without going all the way. I am HIV negative (which either means I've somehow avoided HIV or swallowing is safer than some may suspect. I'm not into receiving anal, which I've always felt might be the difference). WS has never interested me. But spit does have its sensuality, sexiness, and rawness. In some respects you're right - any intimate contact between people can mean catching something from someone, so any sex has its risk. But there are risks, and then there are risks.

Isn't that for standard STD's? Would it work for respiratory illnesses?

Thanks! Odd that it seems normal on rent.men but still expired on rentmen.eu. In any case, hoping he'll respond back. 😉

I had been interested in him for some time, but hadn't had the time to arrange a meeting. Last week I finally "bit the bullet" so to speak and went to contact him - but his RM ad was gone. I did have his number and I texted him to see if he was still taking clients, but I got no response. Now his ad is back on RM, but it's "expired." I wonder what's going on. I would really like to meet him.

He's in Boston now. (Yes, Boston, not some obscure suburb lol). I like the name Kevin lol, so I gave him a look. Aside from the big arms he sure doesn't advertise well. Anyone know if he's better than his ad is?

I assume they're phony. I just block them. Or sometimes, if I'm in a more playful mood, I'll be over-the-top effusive about their interest, and often they just don't know what to do with that.

Hey guys - so I have a rather odd spit-related question. I've been into having guys spit at me for a while now - so amazingly erotic and also so goofy/kinky/rebellious lol. I've never really given much of a thought to health concerns with it - with guys that have I've always said that we swap enough saliva when we make out that I can't imagine direct spitting is any riskier than that. And I do still believe that. Well, I spent some time this past fall with a case of walking pneumonia - no, this was NOT a result of spit play, etc - but it happened. I'm fine now. But as I watch these amazing pics and clips in this thread, I also now have a sort of caveat in my head - should I be doing stuff like that when airborn infections seem particularly rampant? (I did avoid spit play during covid of course). I don't want to lose my passion for the kink, and I still believe that it's probably not any more contagious than anything else, but I've also been a little less willing to seek out any spit play. What do you all think? Is this just an irrational (if understandable) fear after actually getting an awful respiratory illness, or do we think spitting can be riskier than I've always thought?

I'm not so sure. For a while, Friendboy annoyingly sent you to a pay-to-play porn site when you logged in - clearly they needed the help - and then all of a sudden that was gone, thankfully. But then the whole site went down. I tend to think this was more a financial bust than a "moral" one. Also, the one guy I hired off of Friendboy had told me things that led me to believe the site was not managed well...so that could have been part of this too.

I've only hired once off of Friendboy.pro a long time ago - I check the site often just for fun but rarely see many good prospects. But it's been offline for a few days now - does anyone know anything? It could just be some server issue or the owner isn't maintaining the site, etc, but it's always in the back of my mind that sites like this could be forced down, which we know has happened before. One of the few advantages to Friendboy, perhaps, is that providers are allowed to advertise their rates. Rentmen hasn't allowed that for a long time now. But I also tend to trust Friendboy a lot less as a source. Still, not happy that it's offline.

I had a very short text session with him to let him know what I wanted, asking for his rates, etc. He essentially gave one word answers aside from "when we gonna meet?" - I passed. I understand that this is a business, but if I can't get some kind of read on a guy's personality and enthusiasm (and I've had some great pre-meeting talks with escorts that do want to be personable, so I know it's possible to do), it's not worth it to me. I hope he's better in person, but I can't commit to the $ and take the risk that he's not.

Thanks, but ugh - 500 is really out of my reach. I'll have to think carefully with my upper head before my lower head makes me spend that...we'll see...

Thanks! I hope he's not out of my budget range. Can I ask what he charged? (Though I wouldn't be doing an overnight - probably just an hour.)

https://rentmen.eu/ZakZimmer Currently in Seattle, then CA, NY, Bos. Fairly new profile, but wondering if anyone's seen him yet.