Coolwave35 - from what you've shared, it seems to me that you have a good marriage. Perhaps, even better than you realize it to be. You've done everything right from the time and effort you guys put into it prior to tying the knot to the seemingly great communication you continue to have. From the outside looking in, it seems like you have a solid foundation and truly care for each other deep down. Don't throw that all away. Some never find that in a lifetime. I felt compelled to share my sentiments. I wish you well.