Looking at his ad, I find it unusual that he specifies "49+". Does this mean that he prefers older men? Also, he refers to himself as a "daddy". I think he's a bit too young for me to agree with that.
It's because we have to use discretion so we don't cross the line as to what can be comfortably posted here for all to see. If you are really interested in the detais, you can privately message ('pm') the poster for him to communicate with you privately. Some of us may be reluctant to share the intimate details with someone new to the Forum. We don't know if someone may be on this site trolling for information to use against us. There are the FOSTA laws and we have to consider the great guys who host this site for us by not getting them into trouble.