For purely scientific purposes, Deon and I are about the same height, 5'6", 155, slim-average body type, brown hair/eyes, 15 yrs older than Deon but have been told that I don't look my age. For full disclosure, I did arrive about 5-10 minutes late for my appointment, apologized, I was coming from work & had to travel to him by subway. It was winter and it may have taken me a few minutes to undress. I asked if he had someone after me and he said 'no'. But it was clear to me that he was not allowing me the courtesy of an extra few minutes. I got the impression that Eli was coming home and I better be out of there.