FTM Zachary Prince

One person spitting into the other's mouth during sex. Anyone into this?

One of my favorite things about summer is seeing men exposure their legs in shorts. I constantly look around noticing hairy legs first, often I admit giving me a hard on. I like all types and I can’t keep my eyes off them. Even if they aren’t that handsome in the face, I love those legs.

First, a brief introduction....and then some questions for discussion...
 
I was myself an escort years ago (as in the 1990s) in New England. I was moderately successful for several years, not needing any other supplemental source of income. I eventually found a steady job outside of sex work and left it a couple of decades ago.
 
These were, of course, the days before there were well-known websites where you would advertise your wares. (Hell, AOL was sending floppy discs and CD-ROMs in the mail every month to just about everyone in the US in those days.) This was before Craigslist, adam4adam, rentmen, etc. You had to find other ways to make yourself known and keep yourself safe.
 
While there aren't many people who continue escorting for decades at a time, I was wondering how some of the long-timers would compare escorting today (in 2018) as opposed to when they started years ago. Is there anything about the "old days" that they wish they could bring back? Have things changed for the better in the age of smartphones, etc.? What were things like when you started vs. how you do business today?

Things have changed very little.
 
Those escorts who have cultivated a longterm, loyal clientele remain busy. I travel now as much (or more) as I did 10 years ago.
 
In starting this back in 2004, I never thought this would be a true career. I was wrong. It can be if you handle it (and yourself) properly.

THIS! I advertise on half a dozen different escort platforms. I have multiple other streams of income besides escorting, which also involve communication. I do not have a receptionist or an assistant to check my “email” (note: internal messaging, not actually email) on every single website where I advertise. I absolutely insist that all of my appointment requests (from NEW clients) must come streamlined through one form of contact. I do not have time, when I need to double check what is the address for the Outcall, to search through my email, Twitter DMs, rentmen messages, and text inbox trying to figure out which platform my client used to send it to me. All the information in one place is a MUST for me. I receive dozens of messages every single day and I need all the serious inquiries in one place or I simply cannot keep track of them. Most escorts who insist on one particular form of contact probably feel the same. I think most clients have no idea how overwhelming it is to deal with dozens of inquiries a day, the majority of which are just jerkoffs looking for free attention, and then to also try to keep track of where your serious inquiries are spread across multiple methods of contact.
 
Plus tons of time wasters like to DM on every single platform with no intention of booking. It takes a lot more effort to open my website, read my booking requirements, and come correctly with a detailed appointment request by email than it does to send a DM on this forum, rentmen, twitter, or any of the other numberous sites where I advertise. I want to see my potential clients jumping thru a hoop or two to prove to me that they are serious about booking me before I dedicate my valuable time to responding. I’m not the type of escort that people book out of CONVENIENCE, hence stressing myself out to keep maximum forms of contact available to accept bookings is NOT a priority for me. The clients who end up as my long-term, repeat clients generally find something unique about me that makes them willing to jump through a hoop or two in order to meet me. That is who I choose to focus my attention on servicing. If someone is ready to move on to the next escort because I don’t accept appointments by text message, then so be it. I will wait for the client who is happy to adhere to my preferences because he respects that I have booking policies for a good reason.

A lot of my clients say that from the moment we meet, they feel like we are long lost lovers. I have a natural talent for making people feel comfortable to be deeply intimate with me very quickly. I can’t really claim that this is something ONLY I can do, but it’s definitely something that seems to make my style of BFE very special... I kiss without reservation. Love and sex are not separate entities to me and their energy flows together when I give BFE. Now am I literally in love with all my clients? No, but perhaps for the moment, I allow myself to be energetically on that path with them. Someone who is looking for a taste of genuine intimacy can find it with me. My portals are open when I allow them to be...

THIS! I advertise on half a dozen different escort platforms. I have multiple other streams of income besides escorting, which also involve communication. I do not have a receptionist or an assistant to check my “email” (note: internal messaging, not actually email) on every single website where I advertise. I absolutely insist that all of my appointment requests (from NEW clients) must come streamlined through one form of contact. I do not have time, when I need to double check what is the address for the Outcall, to search through my email, Twitter DMs, rentmen messages, and text inbox trying to figure out which platform my client used to send it to me. All the information in one place is a MUST for me. I receive dozens of messages every single day and I need all the serious inquiries in one place or I simply cannot keep track of them. Most escorts who insist on one particular form of contact probably feel the same. I think most clients have no idea how overwhelming it is to deal with dozens of inquiries a day, the majority of which are just jerkoffs looking for free attention, and then to also try to keep track of where your serious inquiries are spread across multiple methods of contact.
 
Plus tons of time wasters like to DM on every single platform with no intention of booking. It takes a lot more effort to open my website, read my booking requirements, and come correctly with a detailed appointment request by email than it does to send a DM on this forum, rentmen, twitter, or any of the other numberous sites where I advertise. I want to see my potential clients jumping thru a hoop or two to prove to me that they are serious about booking me before I dedicate my valuable time to responding. I’m not the type of escort that people book out of CONVENIENCE, hence stressing myself out to keep maximum forms of contact available to accept bookings is NOT a priority for me. The clients who end up as my long-term, repeat clients generally find something unique about me that makes them willing to jump through a hoop or two in order to meet me. That is who I choose to focus my attention on servicing. If someone is ready to move on to the next escort because I don’t accept appointments by text message, then so be it. I will wait for the client who is happy to adhere to my preferences because he respects that I have booking policies for a good reason.

I think what it comes down to is this: the provider is trying to communicate with you in the best way they can get the information across, based on past experience.
 
I know everyone here has shared their experience; I’m better at email communication and have hated talking on the phone since I was a teenager. In my experience, talking on the phone hasn’t been great with clients. It feels like people think out loud on the phone, they’re trying to get a gauge of your personality (and I come off better in person and in text) or they’re jacking off and want dirty talk. I do concede often, but if someone prefers to talk on the phone, I like to be prepared with a text or email first.
 
It can also be overwhelming trying to keep up with communication systems. We are asked to communicate on phone, text, email, WhatsApp, Skype, Kik, instagram, and the advertising platforms themselves. A provider may just be trying to simplify communication.
 
Plus the email on RentMen / rentmasseur is buggy and doesn’t always work. And it may just be easier to switch to another medium.

This whole thread borders on my “peeve” with my fellow clients. That peeve being clients who expect advertisers to “snap to” all the client’s preferences in the way providers advertise, communicate, setup ad layout, availability, on and on and on.
 
A bit of mutual respect and patience goes a long way

I have found that strictly keeping all contact via telegram has been effective. Truly an underrated form of communication.

A lot of my clients say that from the moment we meet, they feel like we are long lost lovers. I have a natural talent for making people feel comfortable to be deeply intimate with me very quickly. I can’t really claim that this is something ONLY I can do, but it’s definitely something that seems to make my style of BFE very special... I kiss without reservation. Love and sex are not separate entities to me and their energy flows together when I give BFE. Now am I literally in love with all my clients? No, but perhaps for the moment, I allow myself to be energetically on that path with them. Someone who is looking for a taste of genuine intimacy can find it with me. My portals are open when I allow them to be...

A lot of my clients say that from the moment we meet, they feel like we are long lost lovers. I have a natural talent for making people feel comfortable to be deeply intimate with me very quickly. I can’t really claim that this is something ONLY I can do, but it’s definitely something that seems to make my style of BFE very special... I kiss without reservation. Love and sex are not separate entities to me and their energy flows together when I give BFE. Now am I literally in love with all my clients? No, but perhaps for the moment, I allow myself to be energetically on that path with them. Someone who is looking for a taste of genuine intimacy can find it with me. My portals are open when I allow them to be...

A lot of my clients say that from the moment we meet, they feel like we are long lost lovers. I have a natural talent for making people feel comfortable to be deeply intimate with me very quickly. I can’t really claim that this is something ONLY I can do, but it’s definitely something that seems to make my style of BFE very special... I kiss without reservation. Love and sex are not separate entities to me and their energy flows together when I give BFE. Now am I literally in love with all my clients? No, but perhaps for the moment, I allow myself to be energetically on that path with them. Someone who is looking for a taste of genuine intimacy can find it with me. My portals are open when I allow them to be...

When I want to network with another provider, I offer to meet them for coffee or lunch. My treat, if I can afford it at the time. Meeting face to face, feeling each other’s vibe, and getting to understand the basics of how the other person enjoys doing business can go a long way. Not every meeting yields referrals, but some of them do, and all of them make me more well-connected and turn me into a real live human being for that person rather than just an Internet persona. If you’re struggling to network with people then I highly recommend you (or any escort) try it.
 
Asking a colleague out to a lunch meeting in a professional manner is wildly different than if I texted a colleague who I’d never met before saying that I randomly saw them out in public, which I’m sure you weren’t intending to be creepy, but would be received by a lot of people as exactly that. I don’t think it’s a great example of another escort declining to network with you. Try not to let that experience get you down about networking in general. Networking isn’t about making guaranteed referrals from every single meeting any more than advertising is about making guaranteed appointments from every single click. It’s just an additional source of exposure. And it can be very effective.

A lot of my clients say that from the moment we meet, they feel like we are long lost lovers. I have a natural talent for making people feel comfortable to be deeply intimate with me very quickly. I can’t really claim that this is something ONLY I can do, but it’s definitely something that seems to make my style of BFE very special... I kiss without reservation. Love and sex are not separate entities to me and their energy flows together when I give BFE. Now am I literally in love with all my clients? No, but perhaps for the moment, I allow myself to be energetically on that path with them. Someone who is looking for a taste of genuine intimacy can find it with me. My portals are open when I allow them to be...

1) We don’t know if the referred escort would take on the client. That is for the escort to decide. A recommendation is just that... a recommendation! That said, I have friends who I refer to regularly who appreciate the business and take my reference seriously. Because I do not put up with BS. I’m no one’s pimp and I don’t have a single client who would confuse a referral with a guarantee that the escort in question would meet him. So I’m not seeing how this is a reason not to give referrals at all. When you have good working relationships with other escorts, you know if they want more work or not, and they also tend to prioritize accepting the clients you refer to them.
 
2) My friends’ rates often differ from mine. My clients generally know better than to haggle. If they are hagglers, how did they end up as my clients in the first place? They didn’t. My clients know better than to try to haggle one of my friends’ rates. If they did any such thing then my escort friends surely wouldn’t blame me, as they know I’m not my client’s keeper. It’s simply a business referral that didn’t work out in that case. And that client would never get a referral from me again. But I’ve referred clients to other escorts hundreds of times over the last 8 years, and I can’t think of a single time this has happened.
 
3) My escort friends aren’t racist.
 
You can choose not to cross-network with other people and give/accept referrals, but you’re only damaging your business and limiting your income. You can justify it all kinds of ways and feel like you don’t owe any other escort referrals and they wouldn’t give you any referrals either, but that kind of attitude severely limits your income potential. Taking the time to develop relationships with other escorts and trading referrals is very profitable. Clients like it, and it’s good for business.
 
That said, if you don’t have a referral to give, simply say you don’t know anyone! No harm, no foul.

What is REALLY tacky, tho, is when a client who has NEVER met you or spoken to you before emails you to tell you that he’s not attracted to you, but can you provide any referrals to another escort in your area?
 
You’d actually be shocked, guys sometimes email me to say that they’re not into my armpit hair and could I please recommend another escort who looks like me who shaves their armpits? Or they’re not into trans guys... can I recommend a cis lady or a cis guy in Mumbai? OMFG. Talk about tacky! These are guys who I’ve never even met or conversed with before!

I agree. Being possessive about clients is a newbie mistake in this industry. There's plenty of business to go around. Abundance mentality & networking with other talented escorts goes a LONG way!

No, I am transparent with all my regulars and expect the same. When I am not avaible for a client, I always ask “may I make a make a recommendation?” and I have built rapport with clients and escorts by doing this. I much rather my client be satisfied with quality service when I am not avaible than to risk having a bad experience with a new guy. And in regard to passing them off to a “colleague,” same thing. My escort friends will benefit much more from a regular client I trust than someone who may be flaky or kooky. This is my run of show in NYC and is much more monetary than trying to escort during off peak season when there are 900+ active escorts in the city. If you’re well connected within this world. You don’t even really have to seek out clients. Referrals warrant a lot of success. I sidetracked but yes, your question is totally okay.

Lol... if any fellow escorts who bottom would like to *personally* test the caliber of my toppings services so that you can consider giving me as a recommendation to clients... just let me know :p;):D:D:D
 
#escort4escort

I’m always happy to recommend friends. Hell, sometimes I have a friend pop into a date as a surprise! LOL Happy Birthday!!

I’m always happy to recommend friends. Hell, sometimes I have a friend pop into a date as a surprise! LOL Happy Birthday!!

I’m always happy to recommend friends. Hell, sometimes I have a friend pop into a date as a surprise! LOL Happy Birthday!!

I’m always happy to recommend friends. Hell, sometimes I have a friend pop into a date as a surprise! LOL Happy Birthday!!

Breath play gets a bad rap. There are situations that make it very dangerous, but there are also ways to do it that are very safe. The high is absolutely luxurious! I’m a huge fan of breath play...
 
Safety tips for extremely low risk breath play:
~ never do it alone, always with a sane & sober partner
~ avoid using objects to restrict airflow... the web of your thumb is all that’s necessary
~ do not crush the voice box; breath can be cut off at a much lower point in the neck using very little pressure
~ avoid making your partner pass out / ask your partner to avoid allowing you to pass out... EDGING is very effective in breath play & five or ten minutes of struggling to breath and barely getting enough air is enough to make you high and your orgasm insane... the struggle causes your brain to panic... releasing happy chemicals ... without the medical risks associated with passing out
~ TOPS: keep EYE CONTACT with your bottom during breath play AND/OR keep your head very close to their head!! You want to be able to hear each and every ragged breath escaping through their windpipe so you are intimately aware how much air they are getting! You should NEVER restrict someone’s airflow in a situation where you are unable to monitor your bottom’s breathing! This is also why you should NEVER EVER do breath play alone!!
 
There is virtually no risk to breath play if these safety tips are followed. A little web of thumb across the lower throat, perhaps your body’s weight on his, the restricted airflow and perceived helplessness causes a panic that turns delicious and euphoric after it runs its course.
 
Yes, breath play can result in death. But only when safety is blatantly disregarded. Fastening belts around necks and hanging oneself from a closet are absolutely not safe, sane forms of play, so that’s what you want to stay away from.