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Some guys just like to fuck or get fucked & are sometimes in the mood or get in the mood if the chemistry is right.

Some clients lay there like they are dead, initiate nothing themselves, so the masseur thinks they aren't interested in anything "extra" so finish up.

Absolutely!

Well I'm actually interested in the other side of the coin, masseurs who bottom. Weighing in here to heartily agree that its all about connection. And also about relationship. The masseurs who have been down to cross the line with me did so, with just one exception, on 2nd or 3rd session. Reverse engineering, its like we used the first session to get to know each other a bit, and the repeat booking signaled that I valued their services, and they were willing to offer more.
 
Re Dmitri's comment that you can be assured of getting what you want by hiring an escort who will start with a massage, I think that's true too. But there is something that feels more seductive/intimate when the masseur uses his hands, body language or a subtle comment to signal that he's open to going to the next level.

We're gunna have to issue a subpoena here. We suspect there's been Russian interference in your briefs...

Me, too. It is all about mutual attraction & energy & just happens. The spontaneity makes it all the more fun.

Me, too. It is all about mutual attraction & energy & just happens. The spontaneity makes it all the more fun.

Me, too. It is all about mutual attraction & energy & just happens. The spontaneity makes it all the more fun.

Have had 3 masseurs segue smoothly from massage to topping me (one of them twice). There were compliments about my glutes beforehand, but otherwise there was no discussion, no questions asked. There have also been a couple of masseurs who attempted to top me, also without anything said, but I discouraged them.

Wow! Link? ;-)

That's a real prostate message by natural means. You hit the jackpot!

Who doesn’t love a dick shaped like a rocket?!?!?

Yes to both, however those are the mechanical aspects of the interaction. What is much more important is the human connection between the client and therapist.
 
It's about the human to human connection that counts. To me, it is all about limbic resonance.
 
"It refers to the energetic exchange that happens between two people who are interacting in a caring and safe relationship. Their interaction stimulates the release of certain neurochemicals in the limbic region of the brain. These chemicals are necessary for full emotional and physical well-being. Without enough limbic resonance in our lives, over time, we function and feel less and less well. This is why isolation is bad for us."
 
"We are social animals; we need one another. As adults, we become depressed and anxious without enough limbic resonance in our lives. As newborns, we may die; if we don't die, we are going to be damaged by this lack. We are not self-contained, self-regulating units. We are regulated through our healthy interactions with those to whom we feel safe and close."
 
The providers (therapists, escorts, etc.) who understand this are the ones that know their craft and the need for human interaction in a safe, close, compassionate environment.
 
Sessions are rejuvenating and an affirmation of our humanity.

Anyone happen to meet up with this new guy Marc for a massage in New York? He looks like a hot new cute frat boy type! Can’t wait to set something up with him. Any idea about any extras?
 
https://rentmasseur.com/HeavenHandsMarc

Agreed...one of us will need to test drive.

anyone?

anyone?

He needs the money for caps & hats. Look at the photos. As soon as his hair went, out came the amazing assortment of headgear.

He needs the money for caps & hats. Look at the photos. As soon as his hair went, out came the amazing assortment of headgear.

Amen!

Amen!

I wouldn't necessarily say that this is warning worthy. What he did provide may have been perfectly fine for others. I am just tired of shelling out a bunch of money and not getting what I want in a session.
 
BTW, I left him and booked with Miguel...who delivered 100%+!
https://rentmasseur.com/Miguelmasseurr

I wouldn't necessarily say that this is warning worthy. What he did provide may have been perfectly fine for others. I am just tired of shelling out a bunch of money and not getting what I want in a session.
 
BTW, I left him and booked with Miguel...who delivered 100%+!
https://rentmasseur.com/Miguelmasseurr