Ghadd

Wow he's so very hot!

Anybody has anything to say about this fella?

Also interested. Anyone?

You'll probably get a lot more and better suggestions if you tell us a bit more what you like-physique type-average, defined, athletic, or muscular; kisser or non; vanilla/wild; straight/bi/gay (as much as we can tell); top/bottom/versatile; etc; etc; & etc.

 

Gman

Ah yes details! was unsure of what to include in the OP.

I'd be looking for a pretty vanilla BFE. He'd top, but I'm more into sensual physical contact than sweaty action. So yeah kisser, definitely.

Physique can be defined to muscular. Hairy is nice too. Not too picky on that part. And just not straight, as I found that it tends to limit the vanilla part of the BFE.

Hey guys,

I'll soon be visiting Montreal for the first time ever. I'm looking for a tender escort to take care of an overweight dude (me!) and I'm lost in the multitude of choices on RM.

Any recommendations?

I'm so bad at small talk that the less I have to do it, the better it is for everyone...

But really, I already have conversations at home, so I'd rather if we get into the fun stuff right away. So that's what I ask for: I would prefer if the action started soon after removing my shoes (or them theirs), then the session can be filled cuddling and chatting at the end. Works very well.

Communication!

Oh, Mike Mike, Mike . . .

How could you ever feel rejected?

You are wonderful and sexy and sexy and wonderful and on and on!

And I thought I couldn't like Mike Gaite any more than I did.

Anybody?

Personally, I'm always upfront about my body size. I figured that if they're going to reject me, I'd rather know it beforehand than go into the trouble of setting up a meeting, getting ready for the encounter, and being faced with that awkward humiliation in person. That hurts so much more than being told "No thanks" (or simply ignored) over email or text.

There will always be the guys who won't want me as a client because I'm fat. I've accepted that. So I weed them out early with the information. Meeting up with them would not have been fun anyway.

It doesn't have to be fancy either. My messages say something like: "I'm an overweight guy, but I take hygiene seriously and I don't expect acrobatics." That seems to have been enough information to make them decide. Some have indeed told me they'll pass. But then I was able to go through with the ones for whom it wasn't an issue.

I'm in a similar situation, and I remember reading a thread a while back about that issue. Even with the drama, I found it very informative.

Would you rather overweight clients inform you about their expectations before meeting?

There are many escorts who are fine with larger men, and who will take you as a client just the same. Some state that in their ad. As suggested, I'd start there.

I enjoy the profiles as well. Tells a lot about how a guy decides to word things. One thing, though: I find the use of too many emojis rather annoying.

FIVE STARS ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

BFE ? ?

MUSCLES ? ?

TEXT ? OR CALL ? ASAP

I mean, I'm not 5. I can read a book without the pretty pictures.

New guy in Vancouver, BC.

https://rentmen.eu/BradKnight

He partners with Juan. Has anyone has been with him?

This read very peculiar to me for a number of reasons. The question at hand and what you wrote don’t really correlate. I hope you don’t mind I ask a few questions:

 

If you hired him for an hour and he gave you the time you paid for, and you tipped him (signifying you somewhat enjoyed the experience). Does it matter?

 

If this was not a bareback session and you were not seeking to collect his load. Does it matter?

 

Did you finish? If so, does it matter?

 

How do you even know he “faked” it?

 

We are hired to get YOU off, and while that’s “courteous” of clients to keep our pleasure in mind..it is for you more than it is for us. If you did not communicate to your provider that him having an orgasm (a real one) was of importance to you, then whether or not he faked it really has no significance. You hired him to get you off. He didn’t hire you to get him off. We’re here for your pleasure and if your pleasure is reliant on the escort having an orgasm, you must communicate it.

 

Speaking personally. I take all my sessions seriously, regardless of time. One hour clients are not looked down upon. Some escorts prefer longer, some do not. Same goes with clients: some want a very quick session, others want an extended experience. You wanting one hour doesn’t make you a cheapskate, it means you want one hour. You’re overthinking.

All very good points. I guess it does not matter. As you said, I probably put too much stock into him being pleased with the encounter. I will keep that in mind.

Thank you for your kind response.

Hey guys.

I hired my second escort while traveling for work not too long ago. Without going into specifics, it was a 1 hour meeting (with tip), and I'm pretty sure he faked his orgasm (the condom disappeared shockingly fast when the act was done).

I completely understand that cumming isn't guaranteed. I also get that he might have better clients later that day/night. But him faking it left me wondering how I should tackle hiring again.

How seriously do you take 1 hour meetings with new clients? Are they looked down on? Am seen like a cheapskate when I book for just one hour? Or am I overthinking this?

I've always had an issue with "a real man". It implies that some things a man can do will make them less of a man.

"Be a man!" as if men can't be vulnerable. "You throw like a girl", as if at birth, all men are draft candidates for the MLB (which acronym I just had to Google...). "Stop being a pussy", as if being a human with female body parts makes you less than. To me, if you're a man, you're automatically a "real man".

I like what I consider 'normal'. I don't want a guy with a lot of feminine mannerisms. On the other hand I am not interested in an overly macho guy whose every other word is a 'cuss-word' and who is overly abrasive.

 

Gman

That's what I prefer as well. I have no patience for people who put on a show, who are a character of themselves. Because so few of those super macho dudes or super effeminate guys act like that when they're alone. I prefer guys who act the same, whether they're alone or with different groups of friends.

So much for "Verified ID".

https://rent.men/Cazalucxxl

Looks like one of his pictures might be from another person on the internet who's not in Montreal. But that smile, thought...

Anyone with experience?

Was looking into it as well.

Unfortunately, some of his pictures are from a German male model, others from random models and a certain one is from Kellan Lutz. So yeah...

Anybody? Profile looks great.

Also curious for more info!

Vlad Bicepsual

Kenyo Lift

There could be a vast number of reasons why that guy vanished, but... we do live in a time where "ghosting" is a thing that people do. They do it enough that the concept has its own name...

Hopefully it's not the norm for you guys.

Tim Hortons.

I've been to a bath house several times in recent years. It's been a great experience overall, but can be extremely hit or miss.

I'm overweight, but was otherwise young and cute enough, so I attracted mostly older men, which was fine with me. I was chased by a lot of Asians too. Every time was different. One time, nobody was very interested in me, so I ended up jerking off while watching two guys make out.

The key, as was said, is to not have expectations. You're going there to get off. But how entirely depends on who's there when you go.

No. I'll admit it must be great to have adult kids who have become great people. But it takes YEARS for that to happen, and I'm not up for that. In the mean time, you have tiny creatures who depend 100% on you, 100% of the time. Not for me.

And, to quote the internet:

I have puppies instead of children. I would rather ruin my carpet than my life.

Just want to chime in, in case it could still help.

I met with him recently while he was traveling, and I was impressed. I had never done anything remotely like this before, so I had no idea what I was getting myself into. He was great. His pictures are recent, and he's indeed very handsome. On top of that, he's so very friendly. Definitely recommend him.