BlakeBenz

How are you guys certain that the escorts are not infact just giving you a second alias...?

Yes I was just there in October. The room is only open on the weekends and there's a $10 cover which is given back as a drink voucher. It's a very small with a divider in the back corner that the boys go and give lap dances behind. There's no stage or any place like that. Just a small bar, some club lighting, music, and 2 boys in their underwear to keep you company.

The only time it's necessary to give my government name is if you're buying an airline ticket for me of you're sending me money via western union. I feel it's an invasive question to ask, personally. It's irrelevant to the quality of the session.

Why play cat-and-mouse? If you want to meet the guy, send him an email telling him you want to meet him.

People always act like carbs are the enemy... if you study nutrition you'll find that carbs really are just our source of energy! If you want a booty you gotta feed it, so give me allllll the carbs haha. However, I am pescatarian for spiritual reasons and I do keep my fats low. I try to keep my fats at 60g per day.
 
Favorite cheat meal? Oreos for sure. I have a problem and it's a little embarrassing lol

People always act like carbs are the enemy... if you study nutrition you'll find that carbs really are just our source of energy! If you want a booty you gotta feed it, so give me allllll the carbs haha. However, I am pescatarian for spiritual reasons and I do keep my fats low. I try to keep my fats at 60g per day.
 
Favorite cheat meal? Oreos for sure. I have a problem and it's a little embarrassing lol

People always act like carbs are the enemy... if you study nutrition you'll find that carbs really are just our source of energy! If you want a booty you gotta feed it, so give me allllll the carbs haha. However, I am pescatarian for spiritual reasons and I do keep my fats low. I try to keep my fats at 60g per day.
 
Favorite cheat meal? Oreos for sure. I have a problem and it's a little embarrassing lol

I thought this said Escorts and Crabs.
 
Kevin Slater

Absolutely a career. Always setting finically goals and creating business plans. I will escort as long as I can while using my money to create other successful business ventures along side. I will work until I can't anymore and by that time all my money will already be working for me.

Interesting thread, strong commentary by both @Mocha and @VictorPowers , as well as the client side too.
 
I find that although I can stay plenty busy in New England / NYC, it’s more fun to explore on the road...and that the novelty of being somewhere near makes your experience part vacation part work; versus purely work. When you go into things in a GOOD MOOD with a SMILE on your face, you’re already setting the stage for success. You could be a lackluster escort with a great attitude and still succeed...or you could be a great looking guy...but if you’re miserable and whine and cry a lot about what’s strong and what’s not; you’re gonna be found lacking. #justsaying
 
I routinely miss the dogs and the comforts of home, but when I’m on the road it drives me...not to make $ nexceasarily, but to make sure the events you DO connect with, whether busy or slow, are successes. I mean, why the fuck would you step on a plane to go bring a C- game somewhere.
 
My advice- because a lot of these guys go on road 10-14 days....it’s more cost effective I agree on flights, to do 3/4 cities on multi City tickets, then round trips out and back....but if you go out 4 days back 2, out 4 back 2 and so on....you’ll be a lot happier, who cares if you don’t have as much money at end or the day, you’ll have more sexual energy and always bring your A game.
 
But what the fuck do I know...?

Hi Mocha,
You didn't call me a "sell out" in this post and you were only slightly patronizing, you must be in a good mood this week.
In any event, I went and it was great. ......Mmmm I'm skeptical by nature but he ended up being the real deal which I knew when I got the ticket and he was a nice guy!!! Thanks for the concern but as I mentioned I have great instincts that always serve me well which is why I went and I'll go again if invited. To address your note, I don't know why guys hire companions from from clear across the country ...but if I had to make an educated guess I would say "it's because they can" or "because they want to" ...but I suppose you'd have to ask them for more details on that. This guy was the second person to contact me from out of state..but the other was in Arizona which is right next door to CA. I stayed with that guy for a few days and it was great and I knew it would be great because...instincts!! Florida was unique for me because it was literally across the country. Your comment makes it sound like it's unorthodox but a number of other companions here on this forum besides me have posted their similar experiences. @jawjatech mentioned on the thread that he as a client has flown guys in a number of times and all were great trips....Soooo it may not occur regularly but it's definitely not that unusual apparently. Evidence of that is that other companions have done this quite a bit and I've now done it twice and I've only been a companion for less than a year...and not even consistently because I do other things and have another job.
 
 
By the way, didn't you make a really long announcement that u weren't participating on this forum anymore? I'm just curious, what pray tell happened to that?

Yesssssss , we have similar view on this. A 20$ tip to me is gas money and maybe a latte lol still gas and a latte I didn't have before so I am greatful, but it's not a significant amount to treat yourself to something nice or put up in savings. Regardless, the nice gesture is appreciated wether you're just tipping a few bucks or in the 4 digits (it's happened).

I completely agree with you, @Clen. The best escorts (such as @peterhung85 or @AresEscortNYC) do SO much more than just furnish a sexual adventure! They rock our world in so many other ways, too. Perhaps some clients who hardly even hire, never really enjoy(ed) themselves enough to tip. Ever!
 
TruHart1

I agree. We all have our perceptional twists on the topic.

You are fortunate your finances match your generosity. I always say "if it feels good, DO IT"... so if tipping your boys floats your boat, by all means, MAKE IT RAIN....

Sometimes, if a provider has experienced an experience, they will share that experience if it's not a good experience. Thus, compelling a provider to pre-block such person. Not sure if that's the case here, but it's not unheard of.

Ha. I think you'd have more then a few angry emails when they figure out what you're up to. I think of this as an interview where they're expecting a much bigger pay off down the road.
 
Like your idea though:)

Some people take the payment for time only bandaid way too seriously. The same is true in the other direction, too.

Thank you, But I didn't come up with this formula on my own. My first encounter many years ago was Peter hung and he was kind enough to help me understand what a professional escort is worth and if I treat them with respect they will return it. I have great memories of his ability to slip into any situation with me and make it seem like we have been friends forever. Worth a lot in my eyes.

Not generous really very self serving, I think it fosters an extremely professional experience. I forgot to add that I am a pretty demanding person in terms of being on time , dressed for the occasion, and maintaining the appropriate professional distance. I think the saying goes "we aren't paying them to stay , we are paying them to go away"

Potentially yes. However I do book multiple hours so that the base rate tip and other costs do not seem like such a large portion of the outlay. One hour would make it seem outrageous however say three hours and now it seems more reasonable.