thedanNYC

I'll find common ground with @Drained Empty and say yes there are racist guys who frequent the Kspas, with the aforementioned walking out and attitude. That does happen. Yes, the part that I don't agree with is the apologizing part. I guess I have a bit of a confrontational streak in me, and if someone physically intimidated me like that I'd glare back, or depending on how pissed I am, make an absolute scene. And well if he physically touched me, all bets are off and the police may be involved.

 

LOL this is the one part where being Asian might work in my favor. I'll say that I'm a real spa patron and that he is some cock hungry slut trolling the kspas.

 

I guess my experience has been the other way around, because I find Wilshire more diverse

I've never had any issues at either spa, but I'd agree with this. At Wilshire, I felt like it was diverse, regular people hanging out. At Century, my first thought was "so glad I hit the gym." You can definitely feel that the scene is different.

I am envious if you guys .I manage hotels and saldy I can't risk my job to hook up with a guest. I have seen some hot guest and would love to do it.

However there is no real reason for me to be in a guest room so long and I am out gay guy so it would just cause suspicion.

 

Also now most of my hotels have cameras in the hallways so we can clearly see who goes in and out of guest rooms.

 

Years ago I worked rooms service when I was 21 sadly I was not out even to myself so I never got to act on my hideen desire.

Sorry to hear you're missing out! Now you know what your room service and spa staff are getting up to where there aren't any cameras

How about we get this thread back on the right track by sharing other fun experiences? I didn't expect to hear from so many other guys who are getting lucky like that out there when I started the thread. And I'm sure we would all love to hear more stories!

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Should this thread not have ended here? No answer can be better!

Beverly Hot Springs is great if you're looking to relax but wouldn't mind a low to medium chance of some low-key action.

I've never been to K-Town. But be very careful at Premier 57. The attendants walk by the steam room and sauna periodically, and you basically have no warning. I've seen guys kicked out of the spa because they were caught hooking up.

This is the reason I only do massage at non-M4M spas. Last outcall I did (off Yelp) ended with a surprise BJ. Stopped it immediately, but the massage was ruined. I don't want to have to think about my masseur's sexual and STD testing history.

P.S. - Go to Soothe some time later and who gets assigned? The same guy! Cancelled the massage and rocked myself to sleep.

I had some sort of bath service at Kabuki once and was shocked that it actually meant the guy was going to bathe me while I was butt naked! I was a newbie and had never heard about that or scrubs... I thought I would be left to do that by myself.

Hi, guys. Looking for recommendations for masseurs who offer a completely legit massage (great technique, full body). I don't need a HE. Bonus points if it's not at an m4m massage parlor. I'd love to get your thoughts. Thanks!

Would love to hear about NY / NJ recommendations. Thanks.

Ditto.

Any recommendations for NYC, guys?

I don’t like this because he may get embarrassed. I prefer the light moaning approach. It’s subtle and he’ll either continue or not so that you stop.

 

 

I do like this suggestion!

 

This is fun!

Am I the only one who thinks that starting to moan (during what's supposed to be a therapeutic massage) is odd and creepy?

Maybe I'm just uber-lucky...I was recently staying at a 5-star hotel and decided to check out the spa. I happened to be about to put on my robe in the locker room when the attendant came in with fresh towels. I said "hi", grabbed a towel from him and went to shower. There were two showers with completely clear glass doors opposite each other, but one of them had an "out of order" sign on it. I obviously hopped into the other shower and started to soap myself down. Low and behold...the attendant comes over to pretend to make sure that the "out of order" sign on the opposite shower was properly posted (you know, pushing along the edges on the adhesive, smoothing it out). I caught him looking a few times, so I continued showering facing him. He continued to watch me. After a while, he moved back to continue laying out the towels but kept looking at me from the locker room mirrors. So I stepped out and started to towel off with a hard on in full view of him. And he came over and gave me a fast and furious hand job...while looking at the locker room door nervously every so often.

I'm starting to think that what might get them comfortable (aside from attraction and opportunity) is my attitude. I'm pretty chill and don't act desperate, you know? I let them take the lead and come to me, and I come off as someone who is not going to freak out and will recover quickly if someone walks in on the action.

I’ve stayed at Mandalay quite a few times. The wet areas of the spa can be cruisy. I can’t say that I’ve noticed any patterns but clearly weekends and evening hours seem to have more guys around. That said, the most fun that I have had in the wet area occurred on a Saturday morning when it was pretty quiet. I have seen blog posts that basically compare the wet areas to a bathhouse; in my experience, that is an exaggeration.

 

I’ve had 2 massages at Mandalay spa. Neither was sensual, in any respect. Even more disappointing was that the lack of technical skill on the part of both masseurs......very basic.

 

I like the Mandalay but I wouldn’t stay there for the spa experience. There are better options in Vegas.

What is your top recommendation?

Where is the Spa Castle in NYC? I only know of the one in Queens. Unless you are referring to the spa on 57th between Park & Lexington.

That's the one he means. It used to be more clearly tied to Spa Castle.

+1 wondering about German tantric Pro. Almost booked him a couple times but didn’t pull the trigger cuz I couldn’t find any reviews that mentioned interactivity.

 

Sam

I haven't seen him and don't know what interactivity means to you, but did you see the video on his website? I'd bet that you could ask him how far he goes without it being an issue.

Hey, guys. Does anyone have a recommendation for a masseur at an Equinox Manhattan location?

Too bad his incalls are at the 14th and 6th rental studio.

Is there something fishy going on at that place? Why don't you like it?

I mean if they are on m4m massage sites even if they say therapeutic, they've seen it all before and know the score. But if you're at a hotel spa and pulling this stuff, I think you are overstepping.

I agree with that. If you ask the wrong person, they might go into the massage thinking you're likely a creep. And then an erection or unintentional brush against the masseur/masseuse (say, as you go to scratch yourself) could be perceived as very inappropriate, as opposed to unintentional.

I saw him once. He was very nice and looks like his pictures. His massage was okay, skilled but not the best I've ever had. I got a HE (more than I expected or really wanted).

THIS is exactly what I was talking about. I wasn't being salty about myself- in fact several of the guys wanted to play with me but I was put off by the fact that they laughed at an older guy and left the steamroom, they literally flocked en masse to the outdoor space and fled as soon as a black guy dared to go out there, and there was more than one occasion where someone told another person they were "being a creep" when ironically what made them a creep was watching while these dudes were jerking off in public. There also seemed to be some serious drug use going on based on some of the behaviors.

 

And as far as your question @thedanNYC - if I am attracted to someone I'm attracted to them. Sometimes they have big dicks, small dicks, sometimes they are really gorgeous and other times they are attractive in other ways. The dick wants what the dick wants... but I am never rude, cruel, or forgetful that if I am going to show off my dick in a public place I can't also expect to limit the people who get to see it. It's a shared public space, not a private home.

You can limit the people who get to see it by stepping out if you're not comfortable, which is what they did and is not inherently wrong. I do agree that how you do it matters, and there's no need to be cruel about it (or to force others to leave instead of you leaving).

I'm curious what the open hostility was. Did they just turn you down or were they actively hostile and rude

I can't speak to @Ludo's experience, but I only ever saw the typical not interested/ignoring/slash stopping the action if someone people weren't interesting in either tried to join in or hovered to stare.

I went to Century Day & Night Spa based on this thread. While there was a lot to look at, there was so much attitude it was insane. I'm not model gorgeous, but I'm in decent shape and have a very large unit, so that got me somewhere, but there was open hostility towards anyone outside the "tolerable" body size, age, or skin color ranges. It was sort of sad. A lot of bitchy boys who think they are too good to go to the gay bathhouse, turning it into a gay bathhouse.

I never had an issue there, but I understand where you're coming from. However, I don't think a guy is necessarily "bitchy" because he doesn't want to hook up with just anyone who strolls by. I don't want to start a whole controversy here...but, is it so wrong to want to hold out for someone who you're more attracted to?

I mean, you seem to think that your "decent" shape and "very large unit" is or should put you in the game with people looking for "model gorgeous" guys. So you're think in those terms too. Would you have hooked up with someone who is not in decent shape and has a small unit just because they tapped you on the shoulder?

Wilshire and Century are both non-stop action.

 

Century has the most attractive guys (including some porn stars and models) and the accompanying creepers.

 

The last weekend it was basically an orgy in steamroom and one guy ended up slipping. It got way out of control and expect a crackdown very soon -- it happens once every couple months.

 

Wilshire is a lot more rundown but more minorities (Century is very Weho-esque) and actually more attitude, too.

I second this post. I always felt that Wilshire was very dingy (though I saw a lot of open action in their dirty sleeping room). Century is cleaner and has more space to move around in/explore.

A friend invited me to tag along with him. He was at a conference in NOLA last week. We got to the Roosevelt in our room and the bellboy brought up our luggage. More like a man than a boy really and he was cute. He had a smile on his face and my friend said that he was trying to flirt with me. I was tired from the flight so I wasn’t picking up on it. My friend asked what the hell was wrong with me. My loss for sure.

One has to remember that, at the end of the day, bellhops/room service staff really want that big tip (no pun intended). So they have be nice. If you were the object of his supposedly flirtatious behavior but didn't pick up on it, maybe he was just being pleasant, not flirty. I wouldn't put stock in someone else's reading of a situation in this instance.