Youngmilkman

Many Jewish families have entirely separate utensils - sometimes even sinks if they can afford - for dairy and meat. So perhaps it is indeed a question of contamination. As far as I know, halal is a lot less strict about this, hence why Muslims will eat kosher food but observant Jews will not want to eat halal.

SArugbymuscle ive seen three times when he was around my city earlier in the year. He is very interactive, nice guy, great kisser and a bottom/ vers! I wish he would visit again so that I can book to see him. His RM expired recently so im not sure if he has retired or taking a break. i would totally recommend him. One reservation I have though about meeting him or anyone else in general was that he hosts in a hotel. this is generally nice and ofc clean with good facilities but I started feeling weird the second time that the doormen may have started noticing me walking in not really going to the desk but heading straight for the lifts only to walk back out an hour later with towel dried hair...

SArugbymuscle ive seen three times when he was around my city earlier in the year. He is very interactive, nice guy, great kisser and a bottom/ vers! I wish he would visit again so that I can book to see him. His RM expired recently so im not sure if he has retired or taking a break. i would totally recommend him. One reservation I have though about meeting him or anyone else in general was that he hosts in a hotel. this is generally nice and ofc clean with good facilities but I started feeling weird the second time that the doormen may have started noticing me walking in not really going to the desk but heading straight for the lifts only to walk back out an hour later with towel dried hair...

His pics certainly scream "bottom" even though his profile says he is versatile. He may be one of those guys who will top if you stick a gun to his head.

PREMIER INN at Putney is ok - you would have to meet him in reception though to get through the pass door.
 
I've done this 3-4 times and its fine.
 
Many smaller hotels its more tricky.

If you do (have mutual friends), remember the info you hold about the arrangement is just as powerful as the info the other party holds. One should never break the confidentiality code between provider/client, but if you need to feel at ease, remember the other party’s anxieties per discretion are equally if not more challenging to navigate than your own.

Thanks for your replies, they were very helpful!

One problem of my own, though, as a young client in my 20s in London - I'm always paranoid that the escort and I actually share mutual friends. Also, I get a little paranoid that younger escorts will judge me, which is why I gravitate towards older escorts, not because I want a daddy.

Be s smart ass and send pictures of your dog, backyard, car, etc..

That's one of the great things about Forum gatherings. You get to sit across the table from guys so you don't need to ask for a picture.

Your desires @opentoideas seem quite reasonable to me.
 
No-one of course can speak for “most escorts” but I suggest you discuss this with the guys who most interest you. It may be easier to raise this with guys with whom you’ve already had one date, as they will have some sense of you and what you like to do. My experience in the past as a client is that the escort’s reaction may well be unpredictable.
 
FWIW I once suggested to 2 separate guys with whom I’d played before (me top, him bottom) that I’d enjoy next time just having sex as soon as they arrived (no drinks, no chit-chat, no preamble - just passionate, torrid sex where I was dominant and not concerned with their enjoyment). One, a muscled New Zealander, said So you’d be a selfish top and just use me how you like? I said Yes. He told me his cock was getting hard at the prospect. When the date occurred, as he came through my front door, he dropped to his knees and started sucking my cock... The second guy, an beautiful Italian muscle-bottom, was horrified at my suggestion and said he couldn’t do that! He told me he liked all the kissing and affection I showed to him and the good foreplay we had prior to my giving him a good fuck. Later, talking post-coitus, I suggested that maybe next time I could tie him up - he confided that he “loved being tied up” and being helpless as his body was worshipped and put to good hard use. And on the next date, I did precisely that and tho he normally found it difficult to climax, tied up and “used hard” he came loads.

You'd be shocked at how many of us have full authentic goat herder outfits, complete with Bo Peep cane.

One problem of my own, though, as a young client in my 20s in London - I'm always paranoid that the escort and I actually share mutual friends. Also, I get a little paranoid that younger escorts will judge me, which is why I gravitate towards older escorts, not because I want a daddy.

One problem of my own, though, as a young client in my 20s in London - I'm always paranoid that the escort and I actually share mutual friends. Also, I get a little paranoid that younger escorts will judge me, which is why I gravitate towards older escorts, not because I want a daddy.

the timeless 'Angel'

the timeless 'Angel'

the timeless 'Angel'

the timeless 'Angel'

I have been hiring escorts for over fifteen years and have been fortunate to have NEVER had a negative experience. Thus I have never had to write a negative review. I have had several mediocre experiences but I have always believed those happened because one of us was having a bad day and the experience didn't warrant a review. I ceased writing reviews a couple of years ago when new restrictions were imposed and as far as I'm concerned they became meaningless.
If I do post something about my experience with Arabian_A it will likely be on this thread. It will also be brief -- probably one or two words.

Hah, I have the opposite problem - many escorts claiming to be bi but when you meet them, they're clearly uncomfortable with men (and fellow clients have reported the same - before you say it's my ugly looks!)

Sometimes cam roulette surprises you.
Not sure if anyone here knows this guy!

For me it's all about challenging the conventionally powerful. So I love CMNM where a scrawny or fat guy stays clothed while the big muscular guy is stripped. The StraightHell and SlowTeasingHandjobs videos are great for this.

Sometimes the clothes actually enhance the pecs...

Sometimes the clothes actually enhance the pecs...