@Realalist bravo for sharing. I think the real flaw in your logic is assuming that providers like or are attracted to guys with bodies different from yours. I am certain providers see their share of guys who may be thinner or more muscled or younger or whatever and are still not attracted to them. At a very basic level most escorts are attracted to your money and have learned to work around whatever lack of attraction they have to whatever it is you are. As a bigger dude myself I can attest to the fact that loads of young and hot guys have been very into me and my body. Some of it is just the confidence in which I present myself. In terms of informing someone in advance, I highly recommend it. It shifts the conversation when you arrive to being in-the-moment and thinking of the pleasures to come instead of in your head worrying about what the provider thinks, after all- forewarned is fair warned.