EXACTLY.
I'm a bigger dude, not a musclebear or anything, but not a chub. There seem to be a lot of guys at Santa Monica who are just looking for a thin, hairless clone. On the other hand there are more than a few creepers who are a little overeager to get to know you. That's a bad look on anyone frankly. Also, if you were already kicking around the steamroom at 3PM and you're still there after my massage and it's like 7PM, don't try to talk to me about killing time to avoid the 405. Gurrrrrl.