FrankR

The link you provided didn’t work for me. Do you perhaps mean this Danny: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/25716/ ?

I travel quite a bit and already carry a phone for work in addition to my personal phone. So I decided to go with the burner app on my personal phone instead of a third ‘burner phone’. I pay the monthly burner app fee - $6 i believe - without regret. Pick the one that works for you. I am not sure how anonymous google voice is - I have been able to google a google voice number and was able to pull up the name and associates gmail account...

He’s been around for a while - used various names.

I believe this is him: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-matthewlaos-in-nyc.117543/#post-1152949 https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/matthew-in-nyc.103901/#post-955782

@7829V is spot on. Take the time to update your profile here, make it viewable to members and include links to your ad. Best free marketing you can get.

Aahhh! Well I can’t confirm that, but perhaps that explains the rate - you’re paying for ‘celebrity star power’!

Adorable, certainly yes. But pricey!

You are assuming South Africa wants him back...and they aren't just too glad to be rid of him!!!

I am sorry that you did not have a good experience with Joe. My time with him, and thus my review, did not include massage so I can speak to his skills in that department. Feel free to submit a review (https://www.daddysreviews.com/).

As a client, I do not find misbehavior by fellow clients acceptable. It is probably part of the cost of doing business and you have to do what you have to do to minimize the impact on your business. I should point out that client misbehavior does not go unnoticed and you will find that clients do stand up for providers when they detect this kind of B.S. This example from earlier today: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/drunk-client-or-questionable-escort.137569/

I am always careful of a public wifi access, especiay if it is free. No doubt it is convenient, but I make sure to use a VPN to keep the data exchange as ‘secure’ as possible. My vote is for “appreciate” with a caveat for responsible use.

Damn, I miss George Carlin... The man knew how to turn a phrase.

Indeed, without a name or location it is pretty much useless... If you want to be a truth teller and share do. If not, then don’t.

Awesome, I can't wait!!

Reminds me of this joke by Ron White... Enjoy!

I have not seen him advertise on either masseurfinder or rentmasseur - hardly ever look at other sites (massagem4m) so can't really help you there. Would agree that it is towards the high end, especially for a 60 minute session in NYC.

I would likely choose not to leave a negative review. It does depend on the facts and circumstances. Is it your first appointment with the provider? What was the tone of the conversation like? Same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. I known the provider well, have spent time with him before and he told me he likes to spend 30 minutes in the gym before every appointment to buff up a little. When he texted me to let me know that he hurt himself and needs to spend some quality time with an ice pack, I was disappointed but these things happen.

Excellent - thank you for sharing!!

I sense a lot of anger in you, young man... Don't sweat the things you cannot change, like crowded shopping malls - it will distract you from the positive things in your life, and the things that you can change! May harmony find you.

I just finished season 2 - it is awesome! Can't wait to get started on season 3!!!

Indeed it is!

That is an interesting situation. How about the next time you speak/text, to confirm the time for your next meeting, raise the topic with him: The last time we spoke, you mentioned that I overstuffed the envelope, what rate would make your more comfortable? Best way to get to a meeting of the minds, is to have clarity. If you feel he is under charging, how about you offer to do something special for him. Ask him what his favorite beverage is or if you can have wine waiting? Perhaps take him out for a meal? Send him a membership gift on Rentmen? Make a donation to Daddy or the Trevor Project in his honor? As the man said: The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little "extra".

I noticed you received another glowing review on Daddy's yesterday- congratulations!!! (Since I started the thread, I am sure I can get away with diverting from the original question!)

I do very much the same - my starting point is the assumption that the provider has been thoughtful in setting his rate: am I not just wasting his time by attempting to negotiate that which he has already considered? He's busy. I'm busy. The last thing I want to be is disrespectful of his time. Back when Rentmen listed rates, I would filter out the providers that were outside of my price range and focus on other attributes instead of rate. Now it is going to be far more difficult with recent changes to the site. I would rather look at other sites like Friendboy.pro where rates are listed; unfortunately many of those sites are not as good when it comes to applying a filter for other attributes. I hope they will improve. I will also say that I tend to be more flexible on specific sites - for example Adam4Adam Pro section has worked well for me in certain cities and Rentmasseur in others. Attributes and level of actual service is not always as transparent as say, Rentmen; but I will be clear on what I am looking for so that when a rate is provided/restated, there is little need for additional discussion.

Nor is there any rest for the wicked!