FrankR

I have done both Roth conversions and Roth 401k contributions for many years. Given how many years I have left before retirement it makes sense for me. Never regretted it - but you may want to talk it over with your tax preparer/CPA ahead of time. Especially if you have more than one IRA account it gets very complicated how your conversion will be allocates across the various IRA accounts.

And the dad jokes are out there…

Oh, my poor, innocent young friend! You really think Grindr is a “dating” app?? 😆 The word you are looking for is “hookup”! 😉

I am terrible with faces and names. Every time I go back to my home town I run into people who recognize me but I have no idea who they are. It can be awkward as hell. And sometimes it leads to a pleasant memory!

It always surprises me to see how many profiles on the various sites (rentmen, rentmasseur, A4A etc) shows the guy staged with, or draped over, an expensive vehicle. Also a significant correllation between profiles with this type of picture and language that implies “high class” or something similar. Have you noticed this too and do you find this picture makes the provider more appealing? Does it make them appear more manly or butch? Curious to understand the logic - any sociologists in the house? 🤓

I always tell my friends: there is a difference between price and value - make sure you don’t confuse the two.

I think you need to reconsider your expectations. Leaving aside the fact that some masseurs wont be comfortable with working on a couple and that an outcall to your location will cost more due to travel, you are also asking for a double service. So yes, you should expect to pay double. Also keep in mind, that a massage done right is hard work - my go-to usually end up sweating from the physical nature of a proper massage. It is tiring and you are asking someone to do two of those, back to back. Your best bet may be a couple that both do massages or someone with a buddy that does 4 hand massages. Or you can keep trying, aim specifically for non peak hours and see if you get lucky.

Feel like I tuned into a telenovela, mid episode, and have no idea what is going on and why… 😅

On CBS today: https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/record-share-americans-cant-pay-credit-card-bills/

https://rentmen.eu/Bazbttm I ass-ume this is him… Toronto based.

It is hard to be a good neighbor. Surely mine thinks I am running a modeling agency or a workout studio for studs! 😉 in general, I have found that people are more tense and have shorter fuses the past few years since Covid. I am sure a Purplekow can explain it!

There is always at least two sides to these types of stories. It is unlikely that Alan R would escalate a situation when his kids are around, if he is any kind of father. Let’s see how this evolves. 🔍

There are older/closed threads on Ethan but nothing recent. He has new pictures up that makes him look like he added serious muscle. Anyone seen him recently and can confirm he looks as muscular as the recent pics indicate? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1632/ https://rentmasseur.com/Southernjock

That's just the tip of the iceberg—did they tell you the part where he was also secretly a Russian spy? If you're going to make things up, at least make them more creative. That gossip is a little cliché. Feel free to dream, but use your inside voice for gossip…or prove it.

Your “hold my beer” warning light is on. Indicating your risk meter may be broken. This could be a serious and immediate issue…you need to have checked out. 😎

This showed up on my Instagram… There may be some wisdom in this.

Yuck! Swimming in massage oil makes my skin crawl. 🥴

Adding it to this thread will add little value - will get lost. If the provider has his own thread, I would add a comment there…that you don’t recommend him with whatever details you are comfortable with. Or start a thread on him if he does not have a thread. That way members will actually be able to see the comments when they look at his thread.

Really? I guess I should get my vision prescription updated… By NYC standards he is barely “boy next door”.

Doxy may be your friend but not the friend of your kids, nieces and nephews. Overuse and overprescription of antibiotics without a clear diagnosis is resulting in a significant rise in anti-microbeal resistant bugs. It is also harmful to your immune and digestive system.

Really? You do you. In my case, Jesus breaks my heart every night he doesnt cum.

This thread is about Deontee - adding other providers is muddying the water; suggest you start a Greensboro thread instead.

Finding gen men on Grindr is like finding sushi at CVS… Think twice.

There is some truth to that - the “parties” and “apps” have promoted a “one time and move on to the next” culture. You may have more luck of a repeat if it is someone that you are introduced to by a friend etc. I too, have limited time, so I value my repeat dates and hires. It isnt too hard to read the room - if they are comfortable and stick around, I am good with that. If not, I dont take it personally - send them a nice text message afterwards anyway. When I am paying for their time, I understand they have to move on after time is up.

Why are so many men xenophobic?