Kris_Canada

Thanks for sharing that, it was informative. ?

The contrast. The perceived power dynamic/imbalance it brings to the experience. As far as pics involving suits, I like the boss/employee thing (should one choose to interpret these that way). The blow & go/quick-getaway-for-the-clothed-guy aspect. Both appeal. Am usually the guy running the show, but I could just as easily drop to my knees and service his cock and balls and whatever parts of his thighs I can reach with my tongue through his fly...

Even though I've done this before, never really fixated on it and didn't know it was a named fetish. After the photos and posts in this thread, though ? Man, powerful stuff. I think it's my new favourite thing. Definitely employing more of this.

The first link only leads to the front page (guess he either made his quota or didn't attract any takers quickly enough), but the other two work. If I had an OnlyFans account and the border was open...and if I could get either of those two escorts to consent to it...might make a fun bit of content, me hiring them and filming the experience. Depending on how open they were. Sex, interview, whatever else they wanna show me around their homes or neighbourhoods. Day-in-the-life. Props to them for giving it a go. ETA: Oh, they're straight, so nevermind...probably? ?

Good, someone else mentioned it. Surprised it hasn't been mentioned otherwise (just saw this thread now after months away from this forum), but then again, health care workers and organizations are still getting the word out and they only started routine vaccinating tweens against it in some countries a few to several years ago. Get the HPV vaccine, guys. Claim it if you can or pay outta pocket for it when you can. Should be mandatory for all escorts, it's a no-brainer, and it would be good if all non-escorts got it as well. Where I live in Canada (the cost varies from province to province), it's three shots administered over 6 months. Each costs about $200 Canadian, so it could run you $600 total if you have little or no coverage. I was lucky that my first shot and a bit of the second shot were covered under my drug plan, but I paid outta pocket for the third and most of the second one. Then you can put "HPV vaccinated" or "Vaccinated against HPV" in your ads and maybe it'll help up your appeal even more to anyone looking. Can't hurt, plus it shows 'em you're taking your health and their health into consideration. Re: safer sex Not a problem during the pandemic, if you're following social distancing recommendations and refraining from sex anyway (unless you live with someone you can play with--lucky!). Man I miss fucking. ? And cuddling and massage (giving and receiving) and basic human contact. ? Are we there yet ?

That got me hard, thanks for sharing it. Strokin' to it now at 2:40am...

As far as rating sites go, wasn't there something called RateYourTrick.com or RateMyTrick.net, not so many years ago ? I forgot to check it for a number of years and now I can't find it. A quick Google and DuckDuckGo search turned up nothing but a blog by the same name that isn't what I was looking for. RateYourTrick might've been useful not just for rating the folks you hook up with, but for rating and checking reviews on escorts as well.

Interesting. When it's in code like that, though, there's no guarantee of what you might be getting. When I was living in downtown Toronto, my room mate (a flight attendant) was away so often that he decided to make some money off of his room via AirBnB and MisterBnB and share it with me for my inconvenience of having a stranger live in my space. Gay and bi clients use both apps/websites, of course, but the majority of our non-straight guests came from MisterBnB. There was always that air of, "Hmmm, something MIGHT happen with this guy, hmmm", but neither party is guaranteeing that and, while I'm very relaxed/chill about most things, if the hook-up went south for some reason, you still have the potential awkwardness of living with that guest for however long they've booked the extra room...though most visitors are out enjoying their travel destination and not in the home much. Never considered trying to mix escorting with MisterBnB somehow...

There're liars on both sides and it sucks that a minority of swindlers (on the escort side) and time-wasters (on the potential-client-but-let's-face-it-that-prankster-was-never-actually-gonna-become-a-client side) cause us to be less trustful of each other. The first half of 2019 was the Year of Fakes, Flakes, Scammers and Pranksters, oddly, for me. Thankfully it tapered off. But yeah, if I'm driving any further than 45 minutes anywhere for a client, I ask for a $40 USD pre-payment via e-transfer or PayPal (and now I realize I can use Western Union as well and started to a few weeks ago) to cover me for gas, travel time, and wear & tear on my vehicle, and it increases the further they are from me. If the person chickens out last minute, or if they were a fake to begin with and never intended to meet (but oddly still decided to pay the upfront in order to get their rocks off over scamming me), this at least covers me for the hour there and the hour back from a what-I'd-make-at-the-lowest-paying-of-my-day-jobs-in-the-film-industry perspective. It's more if the client wants me to travel further specifically for them. The drive from Toronto to Rochester isn't a short one, for example (dang lake's in the way, heh). A guy asked recently and I quoted him a $100 pre-payment, otherwise he'd need to wait until the next time I'm in Buffalo or passing through. If someone in another province or country wants to see me but doesn't wanna pay anything in advance, I politely decline and tell them that hopefully we can meet when/if I happen to be staying in their city some day. If it's for an overnight and I already know them well (I have a few regular clients in my province who I drive 2 to 4 hours for), no travel fee is implemented. There were a few posts here that seemed to be mixing the meaning of what constitutes an advance payment. I can understand avoiding pre-payment in full (or ANY, if your escort is local to you) before you've even seen the guy, but some of you don't believe in paying the escort when they arrive at your door or hotel room ? Don't tons of other escorts (the majority?) refuse to do business if they're not paid upon entering ? Or at least SHOWN that the cash is on hand and have had it set down on the night stand or elsewhere and they simply don't touch it until the session is over ? Sorry, but I've been ripped off twice -- once by my original/longest [at the time] client, randomly/weirdly (we got to the end of the session and he said abruptly/with his head down, "I don't have it, I don't have it!"), and he's requested my services since then, without agreeing with me that he first needs to make up for the free session he tricked me into...and another time by a new guy I spent 15 minutes with before remembering to ask for payment (that guy got some kissing and a bit of a shoulder massage outta me before I wised up). I asked to at least SEE that he had the money, even if he put it back in his wallet and locked his wallet in a safe after or something, and he STILL refused. And he started saying, "Yyyep! That's right, you can leave," as I was putting my shoes back on, "You just missed out on $240 buddy!" (talking Canadian rates, in that case) Twice-bitten, doubly shy. I'm not gonna get naked with a client and then potentially NOT get paid. Re: "don't you want a tip?" Fair point, but that's kinda disingenuous. You CAN tip after the session is over, if you feel like doing so/if you think things went so well that he deserves one, even if you paid him his hourly or overnight at the outset. There's no rule saying it needs to be all in one stack, in the same handover. I never expect a tip. They're bonuses. My day's already awesome by getting paid to keep you company, massage you, and/or be your companion, travel-and/or-cuddle-buddy for the hour/the day/the weekend...a tip is gravy. You know what's just as valuable to me as a $20 to $100 tip ? A nice review. If you're not in the habit of tipping cash or if money's tight, you providing a review for me is huge.

Just talk to the guy you're interested in. Ask questions in the most direct manner possible, in a way that makes it less easy for him to simply tell you what you wanna hear. People can always lie, but on the safe sex and HIV status front, I find the vast majority of people are honest (ie, those I've gotten to know don't later reveal that they lied to get in my pants).

I mean hey, I'll come to NYC for ya once every month or two (or however often) if that's all the criteria you need met. ? (ya didn't say whether ya want him jacked or not) Just got my passport... ?

What someone else was saying above -- some escorts who don't intend to do this regularly but still want the odd bonus earnings to supplement their day job, intentionally have high rates because they're not all that interested in dropping their pants for strangers, but for the "right" price, they'll go for it. They fully expect and accept that they won't be hired as often as the guys who keep their rates within the standard range. Not defending or condemning the guy, he can run his business as he sees fit, just something I've observed. Interesting that he was quoted as saying to a poster here that he doesn't do hourly rates, he sells EXPERIENCES, but his ONE review appears to be from a client who hired him for a 1-hour massage. With or without extras, $1000 is a LOT to pay for a massage, heh.

That's inspiring as fuck, wow. ??

Hot. But I'd only hire if he bottomed. Sure would love to WORK with him and tag team a bottom or vers guy, though, wow.

His pup play pic sure is cute/hot. Great backside too.

How old do you think I look ? I'm 36, but play younger on TV. Info's in my RM profile.

I did walk all the areas mentioned in this thread one night, just for fun, from about midnight until 2am. Even got some hankies (the blue one that signifies "top" and the green one that signifies "hustler") and hung 'em out my back pocket, for anyone who knows what the handkerchief code is (wiki it). I dunno how many people still recognize it, I did it more for the novelty of it, for my own self-amusement, than anything else. This was a few weeks back, I think it was a Friday or Saturday when I tried. No luck, heh. Went up Church Street/The Village of course, as well. Spotted an acquiantance (who's a stripper at Remingtons) coming back from work, walked with him for a bit and caught up. We got stopped by a few guys that he knows, but no one wanted to have us back to their place for a paid session, they were nearing the end of their nights and saying goodbyes to friends outside of the clubs and had probably already gotten laid or were simply out for a night of drinks and laughs (I'm not personally into much of the Village's scene -- can't dance, but I can fuck, hah -- but I enjoy it peripherally from time to time). It was a thrill to walk around specifically on the prowl for potential clients. Bit of danger to it. I'd have to think on my feet if someone picked me up in their car (text my fellow escort/safety-buddy what kind of car I was getting into, plate, plus address if client provided it). Made sure to make eye contact with everyone I passed. Throw a smile/smirk (that ain't a put-on, since I'm pretty friendly in general, but making sure to do it for nearly everyone you pass becomes intentional). I'll try it again some day, if I'm feeling restless and adventurous some hot summer night. I wonder if you can go to places like Statlers (piano bar), Pegasus, Woody's, or The Eagle (the only Church Street bar I just haven't gotten around to going into yet, though me and a friend waited in line one night for 45 minutes before giving up) and have much of a chance of picking up. I see people on here talking about hanging around the bars/lounges in high end hotels as well, though that seems to be a technique employed less and less.

Grrr, I love doing this to a guy. Already got him moanin' and groanin' while I'm poundin' him and then if the mood strikes, to grab one of his feet and start licking and sucking and kissing and worshipping (while also using that grabbing hand to massage at the same time) while continuing to nail him...just...new heights of pleasure for him and me. The ultimate. Ya gotta clip those toenails, though. Hard on my teeth and mouth, otherwise. Not into that kind of punishment, heh.

NICE compromise, I like it. One time a client asked me how many times I'm able to cum in an hour (he only wanted or perhaps could only afford a 1-hour session), I said 2 to 3 times within an hour (maybe I could do more, but that's the amount I know I can put out, so better not to raise expectations beyond a reasonable level). We were enjoying ourselves to the extent that we went past session time and I hadn't gotten off that third time yet. Wanted to make him happy, it's hot for me to give ya what you're craving (and the more times I cum, the better and deeper that post-session nap ends up being, so advantage both of us), so we went over by 20 or 30 minutes in order to do another full fuck session (to be fair, in this instance the first ejaculation was fucking and the second was us lazying around on our backs and touching and jacking each other off). Escort might not wanna refund any of what he's been paid at the start of the session, but if things don't go as planned for whatever reason, one way to make it up to the client instead of partial refund is with a bit of extra time (if the client is receptive to this and the escort doesn't have another appointment he's gotta get to -- shouldn't book things hour-to-hour anyway, IMO). You can always bargain with extra time and fulfill expectations within that extension. Doesn't work if your client is a businessman on his strict 1-hour lunch break, but with everyone else, it's a possible save. What another forum member said up above, about it being time to retire if you can't get it up and how you should use Viagara or Cialis if you can't get and maintain an erection with every client...to each his own, but if I have to start taking a drug just to do a job, it's quitting time. If/when this happens, though, I'll look up the pros and cons (potential side effects or any documented effects of longterm use) before I take a hard line against them, to be fair. I dunno, I'm sort of a health nut, to a degree (unless I'm being taken out to eat, then all bets are off). There was talk about wanting drug-free escorts earlier who aren't burnt out after a weekend of partying ? This is gonna make me more appealing to some and seem like a lot less fun to others, but completely drug-free here. No PnP. Guaranteed. I'm smoke-sensitive, I can't even share a joint with ya.

Woof ! That backside (#93).

I'm so curious about this side of Toronto. The last post in this thread was almost 7 and a half years ago. Any updates ? Are the same spots as before semi-reliable to spot guys working ? (Breadalbane Street or the Yonge/Grosvenor/Surrey/Grenville loop) Any new spots ?

I always provide. This past winter I carried around a mini-bottle of lube in my coat pocket every day (even when at my day job, just in case anyone called for play time after my shift). Buzzkill and you risk looking unprofessional if you don't provide (wastes people's time if you suddenly have to run to the drug store or stag shop to resupply).

Prefer to know (out of curiosity, if nothing else), but wouldn't expect the client to tell me why. Probably wouldn't enquire as to why if we're talking cancellation-after-much-communication, unless some planning went into it and/or they were a regular who suddenly soured on me. But sure, feedback can only help. You can't offend me, so say whatever you like. I understand folks are shopping around.

Is this available anywhere ? I did a quick search with the details you provided, but nothing came up. I would watch this.