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My experiences with Jose (John) have been quite the opposite of Redwine56. Perhaps he was having an off day.

Any ideas?

Any ideas?

In this day & age, I think its just dumb for anyone to record sex - unless they 100% dont care who sees it.
 
I would never trust that it would remain 100% private. Stuff happens, not always intentionally.
 
My tablet is always trying to save stuff to the cloud... no matter how many times I confirm settings prohibiting that. Young relatives or friends' children are always reaching for phones.... oops. Maybe a curious friend, or housekeeper, or coworker/subordinate .....
 
Those things all seem farfetched, even paranoid. Except similar occurrences are increasingly prevalent.
 
We live in a world where folks watch TMZ. Im no celebrity... no network wants video of me. But their very existence lends acceptability to pursuit of dirt. Young girls take unflattering pictures of other young girls and broadcast them with the intent to shame.
 
Glass is half empty view... but not entirely unrealistic... if sex tapes of me existed... some day, soon or distant future, I'm sure theyd re-enter my life in a manner that I regret.

Doesnt happen to me, because I rarely get massages.
 
But, hoping the OP doesnt mind, I am very familiar with munchies pursuant to a particular activity. I counter the urge with another activity. Sometimes something minor, like "structure"
 
If I find myself in the kitchen after time on the exercise bike, or while relaxing with a book or movie... I straighten the kitchen, turn off the lights, declare the kitchen closed for the night. Or I'll distract myself with something requiring two hands and focus - minor home repair, cleanup & organizing, even something as basic as changing a pair of shoelaces.
 
We build emotional associations into our brain.... the cigarette after sex or whenever on the phone were classic examples. Popcorn with a movie. I try to reprogram those associations- one of the best methods was no food outside the kitchen. The distraction or structure are tools in reprogramming my brain.
 
A clinical person may know more about the chemistry.... perhaps a massage's effects on cortisol or hormones can trigger hunger.... I dont know. I know that marijuana-induced munchies were something I could never control. I havent gotten stoned in over a decade....Im sure I'd weigh 500 lbs if pot was still part of my life.

How's that body language? You move so the 'drape' falls to the side?

That is the lesson of this thread!!

I haven't been back since I posted my review earlier this year. Which probably says something now that I think about it.
 
I gather that he is more interactive with some clients than others. My experience differed from @Gr8massage -- but I still haven't repeated. PM if you want to know more.
 
But yeah he is hot. The photos are very real, and he's even hotter in person.

Thanks! Much appreciated. I guess better to look at the pictures and jerk off!

Unfortunately, we don't have massage places here in Chicago that employ young masseurs. That is why I go to NYC. Lucky New Yorkers!!!

I scheduled with a young guy from CL a few years back. He mentioned in his ad that he particularly like to massage older and bigger guys and I certainly fit that bill. The first time I went to his place and after strippping down and laying on the table noticed he was hard before I was. A very promising sign. The back and leg massage was terrific. The kid was strong and "searched and destroyed" the kinks and tight spots. When he got to my butt I knew this was going into my top ten list. After kneading my glutes with his thumbs and knuckles, I felt the familiar, yet always exhilarating, presence of a wet, probing tongue. My young and eager massage boy went to town for about ten minutes and brought me close without ever turning me over. As if sensing this, he slowly removed his face from my posterior and asked if I get on my back. I complied but needed to piss so I got off the table and started toward the bathroom. It occurred to me that my dick had leaked a lot of precum so I turned and asked him if he would be so kind as to clean that up. He was across the room and on his knees in a second and eagerly tongued my cock and made "all gone". I returned to the table and he worked my chest (nipples played with and sucked) shoulders, legs and feet til I was moaning with pleasure. He then massaged my head, temples and ears which was surprisingly tender and erotic. He finished me up with yet another tongue bath...this time on my balls...and worked his way up to a 5 minute blowjob while he massaged my prostate. He took my load fully and then shot his on my freshly washed sack. Waste not, want not, he then cleaned up his cum with another lick session that almost got me going again!
 
We saw each other many times after that with the sessions getting longer and a bit kinkier. But I'll save that for another thread.

Once, many years ago, I was visiting San Francisco and scheduled a massage. It took place in the masseur's home. He had me lie on his granite kitchen counter for the massage. It was uncomfortable for many reasons. The hard stone had no give, It was cold. And it was in the middle of a large room. I felt like I was on display (and not in a good way.) That was memorable for the wrong reasons.

Several years ago I decided try someone new and give my regular masseur a break. I arrived at the young man's apartment and my regular masseur comes outside to meet me! Or at least I thought it was my regular. When the guy shows no sign of recognizing me I come to realize I am about to get a massage from his twin brother.
 
And it was awesome. I spent the next couple of years covertly comparing the two.

On one of my very first massage sessions I went to this guy's apartment, and it was VERY memorable. When he showed me to the massage room, we had to walk thru the kitchen. His roommate was in his boxers at the sink washing dishes and nodded and said hello. His roommate was HOT with a bulge in his boxers. I then reached the massage room and stripped and got on the table. The masseur was also naked, and the massage was very good. A few times he brushed up against me and I could tell he was hard, but I was to nervous to do anything. At one point I heard his roommate at the door asking my masseur if he could lend a hand. (?) They asked if I would mind, and of course I said sure, he could help. (my first 4 hands) I do work out alot, and am very muscular, and they both started massaging me, both of them naked, commenting on my muscular body. Before I knew it, I had 2 large erect cocks in my face, and I took turns sucking each of them. They were both super huge...easily 9" each. The roommate then asked if I would mind if he stood on the massage table and shoot on me. (Of course I wanted that!) So he did....a huge load. He then climbed off the table and then my masseur asked if he could fuck me. I was now super horny after all this, and he bent me over the table and rammed me hard and fast for 5 minutes, pulled out, and shot all over my ass. All this time I was stroking myself, and came right as he was shooting on my ass. We were all wiped out, and went to their bed and laid around for about 20 minutes talking about the whole thing. We all laughed and said it was better than any porn film we had ever seen. How could I ever forget this massage? Very memorable!

I think it was a massage about 10-12 years ago. I went to a legit spa and after I turned over I could see the masseur had a hardon under his shorts. I started stroking him and one thing led to another and I got up, bent him over the table and fucked him! After it was all over he said “gee I’ve never done that before in the massage room!”

These stories make me want to schedule a massage today!

Many years ago - I don't remember the name, how I contacted him or most anything else about him personally. But......I had a very good massage, of course in the nude. Near the end he removed his shorts and proceeded to straddle my head pushing his ass into my face. I did what came naturally and gave him my first rimming job. Much to my surprise I fully enjoyed doing it. It was a surprise introduction to a new additive to my sex life.

Mine was a negative and my very first massage when I was in college! The masseur had me draped with a sheet and stayed 12-18" away from my groin -- knew about and expected nothing else at the time as it was my first and was recommended by my physician -- once I was on my back, I ejaculated spontaneously with a TOTALLY flaccid penis! I didn't have a semi/chub and no tenting of the sheet beyond the mound a flaccid penis would cause. When my semen liquified and the wet spot showed through the sheet, The Masseur went CRAZY and yelled at me that that was disgusting and the massage was over -- he left the room as he told me to get dressed and leave..
 
I was shaken and horrified as I had done nothing, he had done nothing - it was just the energy flow from the massage that had me ejaculate.
 
After that it was years before I went for another and I ALWAYS clarified that I needed to be undraped and that during a good massage, I would ejaculate spontaneously - I wanted a masseur who would work nude and who was not afraid of any portion of the male body.
 
My spontaneous ejaculations while flaccid interested them:) and once I started working with the same masseur, this natural release was followed by a second at the end -- either hand or mouth generated.
 
I have, over the years experiences a new (1st time) masseur go down on me unexpectedly while I was zoned out and he blew me to completion -- later mutual oral was part of our sessions.
 
I had one masseur who would fuck me as he worked my back and gluts -- then come around front so I found finish him off -- my HE with him would be oral at the end.
 
Now I have two I use -- my prostate masseur who is hands and body only who spends 1/3 on back, 1/3 on front and 1/3 on prostate and my highly skilled therapeutic masseur where I enjoy mutual oral after an excellent and skilled groin area massage is worked into the full body procedure.
 
Looking for a few to try as I travel south this winter and I will look to this forum for feedback.

I was rimmed once at a very legitimate spa. That's gotta be the most unexpected thing that happened to me and most likely the most memorable. After massaging my back, then legs, I suddenly felt his tongue and he was good, really good. Other stuff happened afterwards. Pretty crazy considering there was no lock on massage room and anyone could have entered. It was a very hot experience.

Not sure if it's my MOST memorable, but one of my very very first hires was at a house, on the floor in a beautiful room in front of a fireplace. I undressed and laid down, he kept his underwear on & started the massage. After a while, I looked over and saw he'd lost the underwear. He was working on my inner thighs and I said "you're starting to give me a hard-on", to which he replied "Let me see". I flipped over and we had a wonderful time. Kind of pedestrian by my current standards, but to the new-to-the-whole-thing me, it was pretty amazing.

About two years ago I went to the doctor complaining about a sore shoulder. Doctor told me it was from sleeping on my side and my shoulder digging into the mattress. Gave my some mild muscle relaxers but suggested I try a more holistic approach - try a massage, she said. After a few days I scheduled my very first massage appointment with Ryan. Nice guy, certainly better looking than I could have hoped for, was a few years younger and more muscled, but I played it cool and we talked about my shoulder and he was very professional about it.
 
As I had arrived freshly showered, he asked me to disrobe and get on the table. He got started and we talked while he worked. Just random banter, we didn't really have that much in common. I'm not really shy - but have found that most people have more of a sense of modesty than I have. So I was surprised when I realized, after a few minutes, that he was naked as well. I was also pleasantly surprised by how much time he spent working on other parts of my body, not just those affected by my shoulder issues. (By that I mean my butt cheeks, clear?) When he asked me to turn over, after a very nice technical massage, I was further surprised to see how excited he was. And as he worked his way up from my legs to my groin, well, let's just say the excitement was mutual. Then there was the eye contact and the playful smiles... It was a truly awesome happy ending and he was very open to me indulging my urge to touch him as he worked up to it.
 
When my legs recovered from a case of the rubbers, I got in the shower to rinse off. Guess who joined me to wash my back!!! Yup - best massage ever!

His focus is on energy work; not massage-therapeutic or otherwise.
He has been discussed on here.

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