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I'm more of a Scotch person than Whiskey. On Scotch, I've been dabbling with single-malts lately. Any Laphroaig is good, I've found some as low as $45 us per litre (10-year or select). Laphroaig Triple Wood is excellent at $65-70. Talisker Storm is also good @ $45 Here is a review of single malt Scotch under $50: https://www.pastemagazine.com/drink/whiskey/best-scotch-whisky-under-50-values-single-malt/ You will find availability varies widely from liquor store-to-store

The closest I have cum is having 2 escorts (husbands Seth & Chris Knight) as guests at a group party with other non-escorts. The party was super hot and everyone had a good time. In part, I used the Knights as a marketing tool to attract other hot guys (it worked!). I think what's most important is that the providers all be good with the arrangement if you want good energy. Ideally, they have worked together before. So, maybe find someone who can recommend 2-3 others they have worked with before and have good energy together. If you plan this for NYC, or maybe LA, I suspect you would find plenty of guys who have worked together before. BTW, if you are "in" for this idea, consider cross-posting in the "ask an escort" thread to get the provider perspective. In terms of budget, I'd say $500-1000 per provider assuming you want them for a few hours. Can I come? 😝 Jack PS I saw Jay Dymel a few years ago in Boston. He told me that the night before a wealthy client hired 10 guys to come take turns on him while he watched. He said it cost the client $10k, or $1000/provider for a few hours each.

The Nordic Lodge in Rhode Island: https://www.onlyinyourstate.com/rhode-island/seafood-buffet-ri/

This is not a new book but one I think should be required reading for gay men. It's a critical look at gay culture, esp ghetto, drug, and hyper-masculinity subcultures. It's not all negative tho' also highlights plenty of alternative positive gay subcultures. Originally published in 1997, some of it's content will be dated, like many of us 😎. I read this book when we were living in the ghetto and fully immersed in ghetto culture and it helped us turn our lives in a new direction: https://www.amazon.com/Life-Outside-Signorile-Muscles-Passages/dp/0060187611/ref=sr_1_3?crid=2SHGZL5CC9MB0&dchild=1&keywords=michelangelo+signorile&qid=1625399177&sprefix=michalangelo+sign%2Caps%2C165&sr=8-3 Another suggestion, The Male Couple. Written by psychologists who interviewed 1000s of couples, and followed 100s for several years. Gives insights to how male relationships develop and how they are different from other relationships. Read this just before meeting my husband and it gave us real insights to some of the things we experienced along the way. Again, originally published 1985 so some context will be dated (like, this is before internet, iPhones and Grindr); but the basics I think still hold true: https://www.amazon.com/Male-Couple-How-Relationships-Develop/dp/0135476615/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+male+couple&qid=1625399450&sr=8-1

Is there a way to bookmark a thread, or a post, that you want to come back to later? Jack

With all due respect......from a fellow IT guy, thank you Rob!

Back when Idol had talent:

I don't think most Grindr guys are looking for lunch! Some truth to the stats above - lots of flakes, etc. But, I am pleasantly surprised that "Daddy Dick" is a thing and lots of younger guys are looking for it. Dom Top Daddy Dick is nirvana. I find if I work this vibe (Dom Top Daddy Dick) I get positive responses. Good luck

Didn't see that one coming 🙄 Love his voice, and he struck me as sweet, sincere and vulnerable Glad he's finding his truth, and hope to hear more of his song

As a dedicated top, I find other tops who occasionally bottom so hot. Like, it makes me want to be in the inner circle of guys who have made them flip. A few examples: Dato Foland Dillon Anderson Chris Damned FitnessPapi Anyone else find this hot 🔥? 🐷😈💪

Provincetown MA or Ogunquit ME are both good choices Provincetown is a huge gay scene (mostly in a good way) Ogunquit has a smaller, more subdued gay scene but still plenty of gay

Also interested 😎

Sadly, I don't see myself traveling to Mexico to see him, hope he visits NYC or Boston 😘

Adding to my previous list: Chris Damned Dillon Anderson Spencer Daley Bastian Karim Allen King Seth Knight Leander Steve Rickz (Hattrickz) Shawn Reeve IsaacX

True dayuse is not bargain rates. I generally like to meet up during the day anyway which can make normal check in/out times difficult, so Dayuse is a perfect solution.

I have been using www.BroadwayDirect.com , some other sites have outrageous fees. For music events I have been using www.Songkick.com Good luck

I recently saw a porn (fans) with this furry man, it was very hot 🔥

Dayuse.com is one that I have used quite a bit

Lots here to unpack. Re: "with a friend", that could be awkward too depending on the friend. Not all friendships will thrive or survive that kind of experience. Re: "not the typical businessman daddy type", there are many types I wouldn't sweat this one I'd try to focus on someone who will make you feel comfortable. At the risk of stereotyping, maybe someone who's a little older (not early 20s), a little less perfect (not a chiseled god), and has been doing this work a few years with good reviews. They should be mature and experienced enough to make you comfortable (while draining your balls 😃). I'm sure there are lots of folks on here who would give you a recommendation.....

To the M4M Community: You stepped up and helped navigate a thorny transition, and secure the future of the M4M Site and Community. Almost $11,000 was raised! Team Washington, led by @Orin, used some of the money for travel to/from Las Vegas to secure the computers in Daddy's apartment Some money was also used to move the site to new hosting servers etc. and secure a new Domain name Team Washington has now transferred the remaining money to @RadioRob and all remaining funds will be used to support costs associated with the ongoing operation of the site. There is another phase still to be worked out - which is the long term plan for supporting the site. I'm going to leave that plan to others....but with confidence that this community can and will figure that out. We now have plenty of runway to sort that out. Thanks again to all for your support at a critical time. This community really pulled together in an incredible way! Jack

I'd rather we be investing in high speed rail...much bigger impact. Like the Concorde, this will serve the uber-rich and ultra business travelers. Unlike 20+ years ago, we now have Zoom Skype and Teams is we need to see someone urgently yo get business done, which IMHO puts the value question into question.

Google "man in bathing suit" and check Google images, I suspect you will have 1000s to choose from 😉

As Broadway reopens, ALL seats are available when a new play is confirmed! If you act quickly you can get great seats for just about every show. Same for concerts as they get posted. Have great seats for MJ, Dear Evan Hansen, and Chicago (so far). Good luck! Jack

I just bought tickets to Evan Hansen and Chicago in late Oct. Great seats for both! Also picked up tix for MJ (Michael Jackson) Enjoy..... Jack

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