I went to the periodontist for some surgery and during the procedure she mentioned that I was an over-producer of saliva and had an extraordinarily strong tongue. I knew that it would make someone happy.
I have seen my "companion" for many years now and know each other pretty well. On one occasion (among a few) we simply had a nice, long Italian meal and then went to see a not necessarily known group (DeVotchka) at a small club. It is a mixture of intimacy and dancing. It was a lot of fun where we could talk and get to know each other even better.
I find any cross-over film to be embarrassing. For example, anything done by T.J. Cummings. I mean he's fucking women for god's sake. He should be being fucked by men.