TruthBTold

There are so many different takes on this situation. I will address only one. I am friends with a married couple and the man tells me that he thinks he may be gay. After he tells me that he begins to have an affair with another man. While I understand that his sexual need is different in both situations he has made a promise to his wife, also my friend, about their marriage. I speak to him and ask him if he has spoken to his wife both about his sexuality and the fact that his sexuality has driven him to have an affair outside their marriage. I tell him that I am equally friends with his wife and that I owe her a duty as a friend. I tell him that he must alert her that he is having an affair or end it. I would also tell him that whether he lets her know of his new found sexuality is his business. That may be something that they can work out in some sort of arrangement but that is not my concern. Giving him what I consider a reasonable amount of time to tell her, I would ask him again if he has told her about the affair or ended it. They actually may work out a situation where she allows him to keep the affair going considering the circumstances (highly unlikely but I have to give that a chance). If he has not told her then I have to tell him that I would tell him about the affair as they are both my friends but that I would not tell her about his sexuality. If she asks me who he is having the affair with I will say I do not know.

That happened with me also. Because I had been with my regular so long I felt comfortable starting out the conversation simply asking him if he really did not want to bottom any more. Then I explained that I wanted to top at times so was thinking of engaging a bottom. As he was not available, did he know of anyone that I would feel comfortable with in that capacity? I just said that I figured that he knew my tastes and comfort levels. I think he was actually glad that I asked him as I continued to see him as a top. He gave me three names and I ended up with one of them. Of course, if he had said "no", I would have taken it from there. I would have looked through RM for the looks I might like and then do my search on Daddy R. and in the Forum.

So, I find many of them interesting. I would think you might have more productive things to do than to count how many times a fellow poster posts.

Via the illustrious Master Moondance . . . http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-YByxA7iG6ds/VX6q6x4po5I/AAAAAAAAWxk/j_TUmPVJRBM/s640/David%2BLawson_nm2yho5S6G1rkfg4wo1_1280.jpg

Bear in mind that Daddy Reviews seem to indicate reviews that go back to at least 2002. It was a positive review. That may or may not have any bearing on your choice.

I would look at his "Available For" on his profile to see if he is available for what you wanted. He seems to be into certain things that he is not available for (or that is what it seems).