TruthBTold

That is wonderful for you. Similarly, I have found my limit and really enjoy my limit. I also know that there are plenty of guys out there that meet the limit (or below) so I am not denying myself of a lot. Thank God he knew enough to create a swath of every length and width so that we all have plenty to choose from. Sort of like flavors of ice cream.

Well, to be blunt, there are very few instances in which a BJ is going to be the only item on the sex menu. Generally it is going to be the precursor to the main event. And in that case a 10 inch ain't going near any of my holes.

My dentist told me a long time ago that I produce an excessive amount of saliva and that really helps with decent (good, I hope to say) blow jobs. I definitely do not need to use a lubricant most of the time. I usually know exactly what I want. Meaning, for some reason there are specific times with certain guys that I say to myself, "I definitely want this guy to cum in my mouth and I want to keep his cock in my mouth after he shoots particularly as he writhes from having been blown." There is something so satisfying (at least for me) to swallow his cum and to be in control of him for those seconds after he has cum. I don't know if others are the same way.

I assume that is post Palm Springs Weekend. : ))

In reading the above posts I came away with more questions than going in. For instance, what is meant by "going beyond the providing of normal services"? Or how do you decide how much to tip? Is it like a hairstylist- barber who you normally go to (i.e., a tradesman whose salary is not artificially low) versus a waitperson where you tip a certain amount based on the fact that their wage is generally artificially low and your tip fills in the gap? Do providers ever set their rates assuming they will get a tip? Thanks.

Thanks to everyone, there is a lot of good advice here. I always figure I have more to learn in this area. I have also tried to watch what guys do in the more authentic porn vids because they provide some tips. The highest compliment I think I ever got after giving a blow job was when at the end the guy told me that "it was like I was making love to [his] cock."

When rimming my tongue gets in as deep as possible (sort of a pre-fuck) so I want my partner as clean as possible everywhere without lingering soap tastes.

I tend to rinse dishes, etc. before putting them in the dishwasher.

His pics certainly scream "bottom" even though his profile says he is versatile. He may be one of those guys who will top if you stick a gun to his head.

Who wants him to? I like him just the way he is.

It is just you don't see me at the soles of his feet having just ripped his jeans off his legs. That would be right before me diving in to eat. So I guess it is him "out of jeans."

Were you jealous or upset about the wedding?

I mostly use a landline (I have a cell phone but because I am techno-childish never use it). I only answer those calls that are identified with names I wish to speak with. If for some reason I make a mistake and I get connected I say that I am not me and that I am in India. Unfortunately I am in India and will get back in four months if they wish to call back. No I won't take a message.

I never felt anyone was attracted to me. That would include all escorts so I don't ever imagine that they would be. Money is the motive. On the other hand, I still try to work out and continually try to learn how to eat right. I suppose when I am lying in state someone might say, "He don't look so bad."

Mine too. I felt so young when I would buy it instead of the staid NYT or other establishment papers. It also had a lot of entertainment news you could not get anywhere else. The times are changing but will morph into something else.

I wish I were one of them. They seem happy.

One of Dirk Bogarde's best performances.

I think he bears a faint resemblance to Baryshnikov.

Saw him for years and years. Nothing bad to say. Extraordinary guy and see if you want to see a man.

She is an amazing actress. Have not seen the movie.

4th Man Out - VERY light but not bad flik about a group of four guys. One of them comes out and you see the consequences. Some stereotypes but some well done moments where I definitely laughed out loud. Don't expect a masterwork.

OK. I know this is very elementary. I like avocado. However, I have never actually bought an avocado in the grocery store so have so idea how to tell if it is ripe or not (the perennial melon dilemma) or if I buy an unripe one how long to keep it until it will be ripe?

Via Moondance http://67.media.tumblr.com/f5cdbbd305b855829d5d46d8b725bb05/tumblr_objuxgF8Zq1u1rnafo1_1280.jpg

I am pretty sure I know what you mean but when I email a companion and let him know "what I am into" instead I let him know that these are the things that I would like when we are together and ask him if he thinks he can provide those things. The fact that I am into something does not necessarily mean he is going to do those things with or to me. I want to know specifically what he will do and then I can make a decision. If he tells me he won't do something (or have something done to him) then I can decide to still hire if it is not a necessity or decide not to hire because it is something I have to have.

Damn you, you stole mine. So, for no particular reason Sara Bareilles' She Used To Be Mine Sia's Chandelier David Bowie's Heroes