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Hahaha. Just for that description I’d like to invite him a drink at a bar. 😅 I love his humor. 

As a reference. Because they disappear or change them.  

If I was allowed to eat that peach, I wouldn’t complain. 😅

I guess the buzz word these days is tantric... they use it even if they don´t know what it means.

I´ve sent masseurs back when they said they´ll bring their table and they show up without. 😤

I´ve sent masseurs back when they said they´ll bring their table and they show up without. 😤

I guess the buzz word these days is tantric... they use it even if they don´t know what it means.

1. Patrick 
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3. Eli 
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I saw Chris based on prior year Best Of nominations. Best massage I had all year. 
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He took a break but now mobile only and price increase sigh -

but will always be one of my favorites

Taylor/Los Angeles for me. Nice guy, mad massage skills, interactive.
 
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My two entries, both were spectacular: 
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Thanks for your insight. Brings a different perspective and I like it. 

Thanks for your feedback, I'm glad this approach has worked for you! If you have any other ideas or advice, let me know.

Honestly, I didn't recall this post; it seems to be a recurring theme in my life. Currently, I'm in a long-term relationship where my partner's income is considerably less than mine. While he offers to contribute to household expenses, I consistently decline, reassuring him there's no need to worry. However, I've been contemplating the idea that he could cover specific expenses or perhaps create a "going out" fund. For instance, for every $100 he contributes, I could contribute $300, or a similar arrangement. I'm interested in learning from those in long-term relationships with income discrepancies how they have navigated situations like this.

Just about any approach can work as long as there is open and honest two-way communication. Cliche, but true.
I pay for 100% of everything in my decades-long relationship. (Heh, love makes you do crazy things, haha!). But I’m very careful to acknowledge any resentment, first to myself, then voicing it to him so that we can talk it through.
 
Agree the terms that you are comfortable with, and if you find something isn’t working, address it quickly, before it festers. 

Here's an idea, stop worrying about the money.  Let him pay the bills he offers to pay.  If you like, you can pay the whole bill and put his money aside and save up for a great vacation.  Value the person and respect his financial limitations.  Also, hope he is not writing in and saying, my live in is wealthy and while he satisfies my financial needs, he does not fulfill my sexual needs. Each partner brings something different to the table, the bank and the bedroom.  They should do so in a spirit of love and caring without counting who is giving what.  

Thanks for your feedback, I'm glad this approach has worked for you! If you have any other ideas or advice, let me know.

I think the percentage or "ratio" allocation is a really good way to go. When my partner and I bought our first home together, we sat down and took a long look at all our finances and figured that I made about 65% of our total household income. We then figured out what our monthly expenses would be (including everything averaged out over the course of the year, like property taxes and insurance). With that number in hand, we took 65% of the total, and that's how much I contributed, and he contributed 35%. We've been adjusting it every so often since, and it's never been a problem. 

Perhaps you should just realize you have too much money to know how to relate to people who don't.
 

I thought Cesar took his page down for a while. Good to see he's back.

Whom did you hire this year that was the most memorable? What made this masseur stand out from all the others that you hire? His body, his personality, his technique... 
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Always one of my favorite threads each year!  Here are two favorites that were new to me in 2023:
Joe - outstanding massage, super nice guy - everything is excellent.  will be traveling much of 2024  
https://rentmasseur.com/JoeDetroit
Sandor - great massage, very connected, fit and an awesome experience overall, NYC
https://www.massagefinder.com/massage-therapists/45838/

For me, no contest, it's Cesar in Chicago. Tremendous masseur, incredible body, super personality, and always a HE.  Please respect his boundaries.  
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/25241/
 
Also a huge fan of Leo. Great masseur, another incredible body, friendly guy.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/12196/