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He'd be even more wonderful if he'd bother to answer my inquiries.....three so far with no response from him. I guess he's got enough repeat business that he isn't concerned with acquiring new clients. It's frustrating when people don't have the common courtesy to respond to you.

I'd love a PM as well if you've had experience with Seamus. I'm trying to entice him to come to Columbus.

I have been careful not to be stalkerish with him on Facebook. I think the only interaction I've had with him was to send him a private message of Happy Thanksgiving. What's interesting is that he has private messaged me more than once encouraging me to come see him and tip him. Of course I'm not reading much into that because it's in his interest to get tippers to his shows. But he has also "liked" several of my random, social posts. I am going to go for it next time I attend one of his shows. I'm afraid of a no, but I'll never know if I don't try. Based on his performing skills and overall personality and - ahem - endowments, I bet he's a tiger between the sheets!

Him telling you that his nickname is "Trouble" and what he added should say that he's probably been asked this before.

 

I recall asking a stripper at Nob Hill Theater when he was giving me a lapdance "do you do escort work?" He paused for a moment, then said "yes." So it looked like he was a little apprehensive to hear the question, but I doubt it surprised him since he also did porn.

 

Your guy sounds like I'd ask him the next time I see him.

 

Good luck YBO!

Thanks, friend of sheila! I'm going to go for it next time I go see him perform. I'm glad it worked out for you when you asked. Hopefully, you had a fun time and have fond memories!

For clarification.... what kind of strip show? And where?

 

If its a gay venue, and lapdances are part of the performances... if private shows happen.... then arrange for a private. If hes doing a lapdance, just ask quietly if hes available for privates outside the club. Even if he says no, he won't be offended. I've done this, and it worked 2-3 times.... got me polite "no" many others.

 

If its strictly performance venue, like Thunder from Down Under, Chippendales, etc.. if dancers never leave the stage, if there are abolutely no private shows... be content to be friendly. I wouldnt request more unless I got to kniw him very well.

 

Creep alert: if a little obsessed.... try reverse search on his phone number or pictures. You may find ads that address your desires. Its a creepy thing to do, but... somtimes guys cant help being motivated by the crotch.

I don't know his phone number, but he did give me his real name. How do you do a reverse search on his photos?

Thanks for all the thoughtful replies, guys. A little more context: this guy dances/strips in several local gay bars. None of the bars in my state allow for private lap dances or private shows, but after the strippers perform they come out and "mingle" in the crowd for tips. Depending on how much you tip them, they will push the boundaries accordingly, though the furthest I've ever seen them go is allow you to grope them inside their underwear. It's all rather tame, but it is what it is considering our prudish laws.

I am encouraged by all of the comments indicating that I'm not wildly off track for even considering asking him. In one of the bars, I had previously asked if he did "private one on ones". My intent was to find out if he was willing to meet me privately outside the club, but I guess I wasn't direct enough because he responded that the club didn't have a space for that. But then he said, rather cryptically, something to the effect of "But we can make that happen sometime for sure." He then went on to talk about the possibility of getting couches in the bar to allow for something more private. So I'm not sure he really understood what it was I was asking.

I think I like the wording, "Do you ever meet guys privately outside the club?" To me, there's no ambiguity what I'm asking. The worst he could say is no, right?

There is a local stripper/performer that I am absolutely smitten with. I've gone to several of his shows and have gotten to know him a little bit. We've even become Facebook friends. I really want to ask him if he's open to escorting on the side because I would love to experience more of him one on one. I'm wondering how to ask this, though, without coming off as offensive. I sort of broached the topic one time with him by telling him there was something I wanted to ask him but was afraid to because I didn't want to offend him. He told me since his stripper name is "Trouble" there isn't anything I could ask that would offend him.

Any advice? I'm assuming I should ask him in person and not on Facebook since, unfortunately, escorting is illegal.

What does TTT mean?

Sure, SuperJunior. Feel free to PM me. I have not met with either of them, but I can share with you feedback I've gotten from others.

Either I gotta get myself up to Cleveland, or you need to come back down to Columbus - one way or the other, I hope to meet you sometime soon!

Mutual touch?? Yes please, lets exchange energy, time and effort. Lay down and relax, release and refresh. Enjoy a facial (or 2) a nice massage and a sugar scrub-- Need I explain the sugar scrub again? It really gets everyone going. A real trained LMT will understand the importance of mutual touching with m4m massage. S0me go further than others, and like myself-- whom is almost into anything safe and sane!

Hope to experience this in person one day, Brian Kevin.

I have reached out to him twice. No response.

I couldn't have said it better, Keith. A meaningful connection is what's most important to me.

Mike Gaite! He just needs to come back to Columbus so I can hire him.

And how is that helpful to me, Good Grief? Do you have any advice to offer that isn't sarcastic?

Well, after a disappointing first experience a few weeks ago, I am ready to get back on the horse and try again. I've learned some valuable lessons, paramount among them the importance of communicating my needs and desires and not being too shy or afraid to speak up. I have gotten over the guilt of feeling like I'm cheating on my husband. After months of promising to be intimate, it hasn't happened. I have a sex drive that is off the charts, and he has none at all. He has pretty much acknowledged that he has a libido problem and has intimated that he's okay with me meeting this particular need elsewhere. And we aren't promised an unlimited amount of tomorrows, so at 44, I'm ready to lose my anal virginity. I want it to be with the right person, though. It needs to be with someone who enjoys passionate kissing and giving a BFE, someone who will be patient and gentle with a first-time bottom, and someone who can develop an intimate connection with me (or at least fake it so well I can't tell the difference).

My two top choices for my first-time experience - Mike Gaite and Tristan Baldwin - aren't coming to Columbus anytime in the near future. So I've narrowed down my choice to the following guys. Does anyone have any experience with them? I don't want to overthink this, but I also don't want to regret my first time having intercourse being with a guy I didn't feel a special connection with. All feedback is appreciated, guys.

https://rentmen.eu/CodyRyan

https://rentmen.eu/BradRockwell

https://rentmen.eu/LukeHarrington

https://rentmen.eu/NickEverett

https://rentmen.eu/LoganFoxx

He is sexy as fuck! I would go for it. And please share what your experience is like if you do.

Unfortunately, he doesn't do incall, so that's a non-starter for me.

Agreed. One porn performer I like didn't respond to my first request to meet. But then reached out to me a month later and it's been easy communication ever since.

 

Try one more time. Sometimes texts don't arrive. And sometimes they get lost in an avalanche of communication for a popular person.

I am happy to report that I've been texting Jake, and we have a massage session scheduled for this Friday. I am very excited to actually meet him in person. Thanks to those here who encouraged me to persist.

Thank you for posting the links, sync. I would really appreciate any feedback anyone has on either of these guys. I am a novice to this - primarily looking for a good massage with some fun, sensual elements.

I'm new here. How do you post links?

I am looking for a good massage in Columbus, Ohio, and not seeing many options. There are two I am considering. I am looking for a combination of therapeutic and sensual, and I'm considering Mario Muscle Bull and Xmil Luke. Does anyone have any experience with either of these guys? Thanks.

I've also hired Jake a number of times and always found him to be notably professional in his contacts and easy to book. I wonder if this was the first time you had tried to contact him, or had you had an exchange with him some time in the past that he might have experienced as negative? Many pros do keep a "no fly list" of potential or actual clients with whom they no longer wish to engage for whatever reason.

No, I have never contacted him in the past. This was my first contact with him. My text to him was pretty straightforward - that I was a big fan of his and was looking forward to scheduling a massage session with him. Perhaps there are other circumstances I'm unaware of and I should just try calling next time. I've heard such good feedback about him from members of this community, that I hate to write him off just because of one bad experience.

I hired Jake Deckard a number of time for a massage, he always give a good experience.

Jake has always been my favorite porn star and a fantasy of mine. I was very disappointed when I recently texted him to set up a massage appointment in NYC, and he didn't bother to respond. I even followed up with a second text - no response. Kind of pisses me off. I mean wouldn't you think massage therapists would rely on word of mouth and good customer service? I didn't like the feeling of being ignored. Rude.