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I tried recently to set something up with HotFurryGuy. It was over the course of a week because every time I'd send a text, I'd have to wait one to two days to hear something back from him. I repeatedly asked him if we could have a brief chat via phone to discuss the details of our session. He finally said he didn't discuss details via phone or text, told me his rate, said that he listed what he was into on his profile and that if wasn't in the list he wasn't into it. Rather cold and detached and no interest whatsoever in what I was wanting. At the rate he was quoting, it was a definite no on my end.

Hey guys. Wasn't sure where to put this thread, but this seemed like a good place to get opinions from escorts as well as guys who hire. I had a less than satisfying experience with a friend I met on Scruff. We became friends last January. Have been hanging out, running together, and playing together (everything except anal) since then. Recently we decided to finally fuck. I care about this guy a lot and wanted to give him a special experience. I feel like I failed, and I've been beating myself up about it since then. We started with me on my back, and when he entered me I felt a burning sensation. That quickly morphed into a sensation of feeling like I had to go to the bathroom. I kept trying to breathe and relax, but it wasn't working. So I told him I needed to pause for a few seconds to catch my breath then suggested I ride him. That seemed to work a little better, and I could start to feel myself open up, but he wanted to really pound me, and I couldn't take it. I feel like a failure. I had even played a bit with three different size butt plugs before meeting him to try and get myself loosened up. I decided to order two different dildos - a curved 5-inch and a straight 7-inch - to play with. I'm determined to become a good bottom. I sure could use some advice from experienced bottoms on how to improve my performance. Thanks, guys.

Thanks to those of you who responded with constructive feedback. Based on what I've heard, I've decided not to take a chance on him.

https://rentmen.eu/TroyWebb I could use some advice about this guy. He checks all my boxes, and I'm crazy about his look, but we have tried to meet up unsuccessfully in the past, and I'm not sure whether to cut my losses and give up on thinking we'll ever make it work. A little backstory: twice before when we was going to be in the Cincinnati area, I've asked him if he'd be willing to travel up to Columbus for a night to meet me. Both times he said yes but never followed up with what hotel he would be staying at. So I usually text him back and wait (sometimes up to two or three days) only to hear that he has changed his mind. I figured third time's a charm (either that or I'm a glutton for punishment), so I reached out to him again this past week. I asked him the same thing. This time, he answered promptly, we set a specific day and two-hour time frame, and I tell him I've got it on my calendar. A couple days pass and I decide to text again to see if he knows where he'll be staying at in Columbus. I get a reply saying that he wasn't aware that he'd have to get a hotel (???? - I've told him before I cannot host). I ask if that's a deal breaker. He says "not necessarily". I've heard nothing more. It's been two days again. Should I just take his general flakiness as a sign that the encounter probably isn't going to meet my expectations, or should I persist? Does anyone have any experience with him?

Jake Deckard - I still think he's the hottest guy on the planet! What a fucking HOT daddy!!!

He sure does! He took kissing to another level for me. The things that man can do with his tongue - wow!

What a privilege it was to meet Mike Gaite today! He is a cool guy, easy to converse with, and sexy AF! I have been on cloud nine since I left him, and I hope there will be more chances to spend time with him in the future. Don't want to say too much lest it bleed into review territory, but suffice to say it was two hours of pure bliss. Thank you, Mike, for making this bundle of nerves feel so special!

Don't bother. Over-inflated ego and no sense of integrity.

Jake Deckard - no one else compares!

There was just a big sting in Columbus a few days ago. They busted 27 local men through an ad posted in Backpage. Who's to say they won't start employing those tactics on RM?

As if I weren't already unnerved by the risk involved in this hobby, this pops up in my news feed today! I realize this was a Backpages sting, but the article doesn't specify whether this was straight or gay prostitution involved. The picture used for the article looks like two guys to me, but I'm not sure that's relevant. Could be a generic stock photo? My concern is....what's to prevent local police departments from placing ads on Rentmen, especially now that FOSTA/SESTA is law. I think my days of taking a chance on an unknown escort are over. I'm afraid to even communicate with someone now unless I have firsthand feedback from someone on this forum or a Daddy's Review to validate that the escort is legit. Even then...how worried should I/we be? http://614now.com/2018/news/crime/hilliard-dentist-ua-attorney-national-guard-official-among-those-stung-by-undercover-prostitution

I think it's m4m-forum.org

It's been mentioned by some in this thread that the escort may be asking to ensure that it's not entrapment or LE on the other end. I can certainly understand that mentality, but it can be flipped the other way. When these escorts start asking for my pics, I automatically assume it's a sting out to entrap me! I could lose my job if it got out that I'm engaging in an illegal activity, so I just avoid the risk. And with this FOSTA/SESTA bullshit impending law, the risk seems even greater for clients now. I have always struggled with how explicit to be regarding my expectations for a session. Someone earlier suggested that being explicit could also explain why the escort wanted face pics. But how are you supposed to ask for what you want and clearly articulate what it is you're looking for without being explicit? When there's this amount of money involved, a client wants to make sure he's going to get what he's paying for.

Exactly. I'm paying a premium amount, and an escort should be able to deliver the fantasy without having to know what a client looks like beforehand. If they can't, I still contend they are in the wrong business. If I want to be pre-screened and body shamed, I can go on Grindr and Scruff for that. But I don't expect that when someone is asking me to pay them triple digits per hour. I'm a decent looking guy, relatively fit (training for my 6th marathon), and have a killer ass. But I am plagued with body shame and self confidence issues - always have been. An escort wanting to know what I look like ramps up my tension and self doubt, and that's not going to end well for me. So I just move on. But yes, it pisses me off. These prissy, choosy escorts are ruining the profession for everyone else.

Okay, so I reached out to a newbie in my city after doing some research and getting positive feedback from someone who had met him. He wanted to know if I had Venmo, which means he was wanting payment upfront. I feigned ignorance about Venmo. He didn't pursue advance payment, but then he wanted me to send him pics of myself. What the hell? This is the second time this has happened that an escort wanted me to send pics and stats of myself. These guys are in the wrong business!! They need to be on Grindr, not Rentmen! Pisses me off. A shame, too, because he was hot. This hiring thing is becoming more difficult by the day. Just seems like there aren't any authentically skilled escorts out there - just scammers and fakes who only want your money. It's becoming just as much of a hassle as trying to find some action on the apps.

Link, please?

https://rentmen.eu/CMMx Does anyone have any information on this good-looking guy?

I guess it's not that it feels wrong per se. I'm just a little miffed at being talked to like a teacher scolding an errant schoolboy, if that makes sense. He got a ringing endorsement from a trusted forum member, so I'm trying to decide if I'm just overreacting or whether at this price point I really should expect more of a welcoming vibe.

I received a Growlr blast from a masseur who is passing through. His look is right up my alley (based on the one photo I can see on Growlr), so I did some research on him. Looked at his website (no photos there either) and consulted a couple forum members here who had sessions with him. Liked what I heard and was really looking forward to meeting with him. So here's my dilemma. He came across very curt and almost condescending in tone in our correspondence. He told me his room number and then told me to text when I was parked and under no circumstances to knock on his door until the exact time of the appointment. I am very considerate as a client and mindful of a provider's time, and I would never do that anyway. I guess it's just the way it was said that's bothering me. I get that providers probably deal with lots of clients who don't follow the rules, which I'm sure is upsetting, but why take out that frustration on a brand-new client? I also asked if he could text or send me through Growlr some pics. I don't have the pro version of Growlr, so I couldn't see his pics. He didn't send me any. The description of the massage sounds wonderful, but he's expensive - $275 for two hours. Not sure whether to keep the appointment or cancel. What would you do?

Mintboys seems to be the latest casualty. Just tried to go that site, and it doesn't exist anymore.

Come to Columbus, Ohio, Jack!

I'd also like to know.

Just went to the Cruising for Escorts site, and it's been taken down. Wow. These sites are starting to drop like flies.

Glad to hear you had fun, Trebor. I notice he's leaving tomorrow, though, so I probably missed my chance :-(

Have read his reviews. Wondered if anyone has met him recently? His look is right up my alley, and it seems he could deliver a gentle boyfriend experience that morphs into a verbal daddy/son scenario. The only thing giving me pause is that he's done BB in a lot of his videos. I'd love to treat myself next week for my 45th birthday, but I'm not on Prep. I do always play safe, though. I vacillate between "Life is short, so go for it!" and "Better to be safe than sorry - keep denying yourself." Thoughts? https://rentmen.eu/MattStevens