Tarty

He still looks pretty hot.

can we see a picture of you Dan ? lol

Actually I am!

inquiring minds want to know: how did this go? or still in negotiations?

inquiring minds want to know: how did this go? or still in negotiations?

i would be very surprised if eric agrees to bottom. have fun!

i've been wondering the same thing - have never seen ad before this week.

I hate that guys do not list exactly what position they are offering to engage in. Of course, they know that they can always change the extremes if need be. By that I mean, if a guy only wants to top, he can put that but if he will also bottom if asked he can say that if asked. Or he can just put versatile/top and say that he will bottom if he will ask or just top as he intended. The same can be said for a bottom who is a versatile/bottom. But to put nothing or "ask me" for some reason just irks me.

His ad is enticing, but important info is missing, like what a session with him is like. You need to flesh that out. You must describe your sensual interests, and see if he expresses agreement and enthusiasm to meet you. If enthusiasm is missing, he is sluggish to respond, doesn't answer your questions, or at any time makes you doubt that you would have a good time, forget him and move on.

As the person who started this thread more than a year ago, I decided to take a look at what's been posted. Tons. And lots of it good. As for me? Well, one of the reasons I've not been on here for a long time is that I met someone from Seeking Arrangements. And we've been in a "relationship" since late summer of 2016. I had quite a few good experiences and quite a few bad ones (including some really clueless guys). Then in last summer of last year, I came upon a 25 year old guy on the site. He's 4.5 hours from Manhattan. He's 25, putting himself through college at a very good school, teaches gymnastics, and has his own training business/gym. He's very self-sufficient, has been on his own since he was 19. Comes from a solid middle class family who live upstate. He called himself an "alpha with a heart." Loves older men, can't relate to young people his age. And he does physique competitions. We texted for a couple days, I thought it had promise so we agreed to meet halfway at a hotel. Because of his limited schedule he said he'd have to leave in the middle of the night to get back for a client appointment at 6 am ....
 
So we met. It was non-stop talking for 3 hours as we instantly got along. He was very masculine, very alpha. At one point, he said "get over here" and he got on top of me and we stated making out and fooling around. We went to dinner and then settled in to watch a movie in bed. He was obviously very tired (he seems to be going 24/7) and at one point he fell asleep. I let him sleep. I thought it was clear that we had made a connection and that I would be interested in an arrangement with this guy. I was sound asleep and then around 3:30 I felt movement. I figured he got up to leave. I was half asleep when -- not saying a word -- as he was leaving he leaned over me and kissed me on the forehead. I thought this is a keeper.
 
We spent several weeks back and forth texting -- he unsure if he had the time to do this but wanting to -- but I felt there was something good here. So we eventually settled on a week to go to my lake house. We discussed money and we were all set. By the end of the first day, it was clear something was going on. I wanted to say something, he sensed it and said go ahead. I told him it was crazy but I really liked him and it would be a real fantasy to date. He said "why do you think it's a fantasy ...."
 
It's 7 months later, and we're still together. We realized that week we had a real connection and decided we should be together. No money has ever exchanged hands. I've tried helping him out from time to time but I usually have to be some money in his jacket pocket or something. He really doesn't want it but I know he could use it. He's very drived, goal oriented, ambitious ... we haven't had a cross word or argument. Our only real conflict is that because he's so busy we don't get to see each other as much as we'd like.
 
I wake up each day thinking this is too good to be true but then I get a text in the morning saying "good morning sweetie, have a great day, love you ..." and I realize that it is really happening. He's basically a younger, way hotter, more masculine version of me ....
 
So I'd have to call Seeking Arrangements a success for me. I didn't find what I was seeking there (something uncomplicated) but I think I've found something much better. I have no idea how long this will last but I'm very happy for right now.

haha

I was curious about this as well. according to google:
 
yinz
yinz/
pronoun
USdialect

(in western Pennsylvania) you (used to refer to more than one person).
"how yinz guys doing?"

When he's done look at him and say: "Hummm.... Maybe 50 more."
 
http://media.gettyimages.com/videos/young-man-athlete-doing-push-ups-street-fitness-gym-exercises-and-video-id546649378?s=640x640

Did he offer to add cream for fifty bucks?

also wrote him via the RM system and did receive a brief reply that way from him asking what's up......I replied with more detail and am hoping for the best.....hanging on by a thread here!
 
http://rentmen.com/ConnorJock

Conner was reviewed here:
http://www.daddysreviews.com/cruise/2016-03-08/connor_longbearch
By a 3 time reviewer.
 
Website: http://hourboy.com/connor25
 
Now, Conner is fairly local to me, and I like what I see. Anyone have any further info or experiences with the young man? I know that hourboy.com not a first tier place to look...