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I did and my experience was no different - extremely personable, great kisser, avid conversationalist wearing the mask of that passionate lover that most of us seek. We spent the 3 hours on the couch, bed and the tub

I’m seeing him for the first time in a few days. Contacting him (phone/WhatsApp) was easy and he actually responds to voice calls more than text. After a sexy conversation we continued via text to confirm details. I have a REALLY good feeling about Axel Hardy and, correct...he’s not “coach class” when it comes to rates but I’m willing to swallow deep for something special to kick off a few months of no hiring to focus more on my business. Hoping for the kind of night I and my right hand can relive over and over until...say...July when the weather heats up.

Maybe I'm just uber-lucky...I was recently staying at a 5-star hotel and decided to check out the spa. I happened to be about to put on my robe in the locker room when the attendant came in with fresh towels. I said "hi", grabbed a towel from him and went to shower. There were two showers with completely clear glass doors opposite each other, but one of them had an "out of order" sign on it. I obviously hopped into the other shower and started to soap myself down. Low and behold...the attendant comes over to pretend to make sure that the "out of order" sign on the opposite shower was properly posted (you know, pushing along the edges on the adhesive, smoothing it out). I caught him looking a few times, so I continued showering facing him. He continued to watch me. After a while, he moved back to continue laying out the towels but kept looking at me from the locker room mirrors. So I stepped out and started to towel off with a hard on in full view of him. And he came over and gave me a fast and furious hand job...while looking at the locker room door nervously every so often.
 
I'm starting to think that what might get them comfortable (aside from attraction and opportunity) is my attitude. I'm pretty chill and don't act desperate, you know? I let them take the lead and come to me, and I come off as someone who is not going to freak out and will recover quickly if someone walks in on the action.

I've made one Freudian slip which had a surprising ending. Ordered room service at a Marriott in LA late in the evening, literally 5 minutes before they were to close service. I had just checked in, ordered, and then hopped into the shower. I ordered way too much food and a bottle of wine. My computer was up and on the desk, my bottle of lube sitting out on the nightstand in anticipation of a post dinner wank session. My screensaver was of a sexy half naked guy. I had just stepped out of the shower in a bathrobe when food arrived, I open the door, and tell this handsome young latino man to put the tray on the desk, of which my computer with said screensaver is taking up space. He moves the computer out of the way, turns to hand me the bill to sign, and I catch sight of what he saw. I was a tad embarrassed at my foolishness. He comments that I "just got in under the wire for room service, as the kitchen was closing and his shift was over." I decide to give him an additional tip and thanked him for squeezing my order in, mentioning I ordered too much food. He offered to open the bottle of wine which I then offer him a glass of as well as to stay and share in my meal. He was initially hesitant and comments that it looks like I was settling in for the night. In what was a very bold move for me, I told him the company would be welcomed. We shared the meal and the wine with conversation friendly and a bit playful. After we finished he thanks me for saving him from grabbing take out on the way home and helping him "unwind" after a long day. In it to win it at this point, I offered him the chance to take a shower also. He agrees, shyly removes his clothes and hops in while I clean up from dinner. I pop my head in to the bathroom and offer to wash his backside. He grins and tells me he appreciates me being so kind. Well, one long shower led to one long romp in the hay. After two orgasms on my part and working up a sweat requiring another shower for us both, we parted ways just after 3 in the morning. I slept with a smile on my face and missed my morning meeting the next day which was oh so worth it.

This must be in New York City, because a gay guy anywhere else in the world would know to specify the location.

I think we need to lighten up on @TopVolt.
 
When I was looking for the above referenced thread, I read
through volumes of his posts. He’s genuine and has posted
many items that are helpful to the community.
 
Clearly English isn’t his first language and having read
several of his posts sometimes things get lost in translation
or in an attempt to be brief he doesn’t fully explain himself well.
 
I say we cut him some slack. He seems like a good guy.

This is RIDICULOUS! I mean, I guess we could have guessed it was coming when they shut down RentBoy... Personally, I was in DENIAL, and just hoping the secret police wouldn't keep going down that path.
 
And yeah, masseurfinder already screwed everything up when they changed "Sensual" to "Relax" -- because then just about all the masseurs advertised in both Relax and Heal. So no biggie, if they merged the two sides.
 
But the new photo policy sounds absolutely ridiculous.
 
Is there a way we can push things back the other way? Get someone to fight for Freedom of Speech on the internet!!!

Apparently this iTunes scam is getting bigger. I'm not active on Grindr so was surprised when someone reached out of the blue and started chatting. After a few days of pleasant exchanges, he started asking for money for a "gift" via an iTunes card! When I asked why, gave me a whole story of an emergency situation! Beware. Sigh.
 
By the way, did you guys notice that this guy (Joshmic) just weighs 100 pounds ...probably too eager to get the ad up and running Well, let's atleast send him some energy bars haha.

Apparently this iTunes scam is getting bigger. I'm not active on Grindr so was surprised when someone reached out of the blue and started chatting. After a few days of pleasant exchanges, he started asking for money for a "gift" via an iTunes card! When I asked why, gave me a whole story of an emergency situation! Beware. Sigh.
 
By the way, did you guys notice that this guy (Joshmic) just weighs 100 pounds ...probably too eager to get the ad up and running Well, let's atleast send him some energy bars haha.

Hey I've tried him...the pics are accurate and he's incredibly hot. The massage was great and he did offer an HE which I did not take. The massage involved decent body to body contact but it was more out of the moment and chemistry rather than anything else. He's in a closely knit relationship so prefers to maintain his boundaries. Overall a very nice guy, his apartment has a dedicated space and table for the service. Go for it!

I concur with all the positive replies on this thread. Did see him too and it was a very pleasant time.

Hey I've tried him...the pics are accurate and he's incredibly hot. The massage was great and he did offer an HE which I did not take. The massage involved decent body to body contact but it was more out of the moment and chemistry rather than anything else. He's in a closely knit relationship so prefers to maintain his boundaries. Overall a very nice guy, his apartment has a dedicated space and table for the service. Go for it!

Hey I've tried him...the pics are accurate and he's incredibly hot. The massage was great and he did offer an HE which I did not take. The massage involved decent body to body contact but it was more out of the moment and chemistry rather than anything else. He's in a closely knit relationship so prefers to maintain his boundaries. Overall a very nice guy, his apartment has a dedicated space and table for the service. Go for it!

Thank you Does anyone come to mind in Santa Cruz? Online search didn't yield much so any intel would be great! Looks like I also need to start exploring San Jose, not far from where I live.

In Monterey too this weekend and the timing of this thread came as a surprise. Our awesome forum doesn't have a find here yet but I'm sure a Big Sir isn't far from being discovered

I unfortunately do not know of anyone. I have not hired from that area, but friends have had relatively good success in both cities. Invariably the guys they hire are usually college boys, so how bad could that be.

There's nothing in Big "Sir" except... the rangers. ...You could try San Jose or Santa Cruz. Both great University towns. Friends have had good luck in both cities. San Jose is about an hours drive from Monterey and Santa Cruz about half that....good luck

In Monterey too this weekend and the timing of this thread came as a surprise. Our awesome forum doesn't have a find here yet but I'm sure a Big Sir isn't far from being discovered

I took Lyft back to San Francisco and my hotel. I didn’t have time to take the train, or even grab supper. Every other weekend the nob Hill theater has a pair of porn stars come in and give a couple of shows. This weekend it was Jessie Colter and Dylan Strokes. I find Jessie Colter intriguing. Not only is he a power bottom, he is also open about being gay and very personal. I knew they would be doing asex show, I was hoping that he might ven walk around a bit so that you could see his body up closer a bit. Heck, maybe even stand by the edge of the stage and watch.
 
 
 
Defining the Nob Hill is a bit difficult. There is no bar or food or drinks, so it doesn’t qualify as a strip bar or club. They explicitly say it is not a bathhouse (though they do supposedly have naked nights). Downstairs is your typical video booth arcade. Supposedly there is a lot of action down there, but I have never seen any myself. Lot of guys, but not a lot of action. Upstairs is more like a small narrow movie theater. There is a small stage up front. Along side is the access hall, and at the end behind the stage is another smaller little dance pole room, and a couple of booths (I think, I have never seen them used since they had shower shows years ago). It is not a steady stream of strippers, but a dancer every half hour. The routine, or how it is supposed to go anyways, is the twink dances for 15 minutes than spends 15 minutes wandering among the audience. Now the first mark against this place is that the dancers aren’t the best in the world. They are usually really young, bone thin, and somewhat awkward.
 
 
 
But what they lack in looks they make up for in energy. Like I said they are supposed to dance for 15 minutes. Few do. Most walk on stage, drop their shorts (unless they didn’t even bother with them), spend maybe 5 minutes at most trying out various sexy poses on the stage, and then bound into the audience. The Emcee is sure to announce that the dancers work for tips, and “the bigger the bill, the bigger the thrill”. Most guys I think tip a dollar, some do 5’s. You stuff in their sock, and I don’t think most of them have any idea what you tip them. Most wouldn’t care anyways.
 
 
 
What the dancers lack in looks, they more than make up for in eagerness. I said before the booths were rarely used. That is mostly because there is little reason to. The dancer walks up to you, you shove a bill in his sock, and then you play with him for like 30 seconds. Usually they will get into it with you, too. They then step to the guy sitting next to you and repeat. Oral is not a usual occurrence, but let’s just say that I have visually verified it does occasionally happen. Likewise, you do have to be a bit careful who you sit next to, as pants don’t always stay on the customers, either. Whether you need to be careful that you do not or do sit next to certain customers is up to you to decide. But I was here for the sex show. And right on time, the emcee introduces the guest stars, and they appear on stage.
 
 
 
I have to admit Jessie has a good-looking body. I was hoping that I would get a bit closer look that from the back of the theater where I was stuck. With music completely drowning out any vocalization from either guy, and the vocals are a big part of their show, they did a short sex scene. I have to say, it looked terribly contrived. Fortunately both got their dicks out pretty quickly, but they were posing more than doing anything erotic. This was getting off to a bad start. They did their routine for about 10 seconds, and then stood up.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
What I didn’t realize is that even the pornstars walk around the audience. Dylan started at the front, while Jessie started from the back. I was third in his attention. Now these guys were pros. They completely make you feel welcome and at home. It is weird – here is this hot pornstar standing with an erection inches from your face, and you feel like you want to sit down and have a conversation with him! I was hoping to get a closer look at his manhood. I wasn’t expecting to have trouble focusing on it because it was too close.
 
 
 
I put the requisite $5 bill in his sock. I figured a headliner they should get something a little better, right? It was obvious I could touch his chest. I mean, he was pressing it up against me. Another thing I like about Jessie compared to most strippers I have seen – he had hair on his chest. Slowly, would I dare? I moved my hand down, and decided to risk it. I gently brushed the back of my hand against his cock. Would he react? Well, he didn’t really like this idea. But it was not a scolding moment. He took my hand, told me to turn it palm up, and began slapping it with his cock! He then started doing his moaning thing as I sat there, half in shock, giving a pornstar a hand job.
 
 
 
I’d like to think that I did a pretty good job at it. He certainly seemed like he enjoyed it and again made you feel like you were the expert. But I think in reality he pretty much did that with everyone. I have gone places and paid $100 for a lapdance where the guy only once pulled his shorts down for a brief glimpse. Here for $25 admission and a $5 tip I was manhandling a porn star.
 
 
 
Borth guys made their rounds. They spent another 10 minutes trying to get off on stage. It ended up with Jessie lying flat on his back with is head towards the audience while Dylan was lightly fisting him. Alas it never happened. This was obviously not planned - you could tell by their reactions. I was disappointed, yes, but in a strange way it was oddly comforting to know that even pornstars sometimes have trouble getting themselves off.
 
 
 
So that was it for the night. I sat through one more stripper, this young kid who I wasn’t sure got the idea yet that the customers were supposed to be tipping him, as he bounced around every 45 seconds grinding himself against the few guys remaining, some of which were sitting there pants around their knees. It was late; I wanted sleep more than anything else. As I walked to my hotel, I was surprised what my thoughts turned to. I was thinking about Jessie. But I was not thinking about his dick, or his body, or sex with hi. I really, really wanted to have a conversation with him. What was it like being a porn star? What kind of guys really turned him on? Or did they even? And, when he flew, did he get to fly first class, too?

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Like the escort experience: communication is key. I save the sensuous stuff for escorts. When I hire a masseur I specify that I want a legit massage and that a “happy ending” would not be refused but was not required. I also specify that I would like both of us to be naked and that I want to be able to touch him in a non/sexual way for the exchange of energy.
 
Now I also warn that if they station their cock near my mouth for an extended period of time I would consider it an invitation to taste it. A few do and I do but it’s always very briefly.
 
I also request classical music played very softly and as little conversation as possible. Massage for me is the closest I get to being in a meditative state.
 
Again, communication is key.

Yeah I too like a hairy chest & scruffy beard and I hate shaved pubes, but I'd make an exception for Mr. Fever.

I like to keep things light...There is so much BS going on in the world, that there is no point getting all butt hurt about a different opinion. Variety is the spice of life.
 
I can definitely see why you think your examples are hot, but they don't do anything for me. Too young, too pretty, and too hairless!! Lol
 
Like I said, we won't have to scratch each other's eyes out competing for providers. Thanks for sharing.

Hi Guys,
 
I'll be down in Vegas for my first ever trip to the city from the night of 12/23 - 26! Looking to hangout and connect with locals and other travelers. Let me know if you are around.
 
Cheers

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