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OK, I was kidding. Sort of. But, truly, over the years I’ve met a lot of guys with big muscles who weren’t worth the mindfuck that came with them. Thanks for the warning.

Is he dressed throughout the massage? If he were naked or al least in little gym shorts, I might hire him anyway. ;-)

Even among masseurs who advertise both, there can be wildly differing approaches. I recently saw a masseur whose idea of “erotic” was, to me, just mildly sensual. But another masseur I’ve seen a few times told me the difference is: with erotic, we’ll get to know each other pretty well. ;-)

Bingo!

To each his own. :-) For me, Jay is quite appealing *except* for his cock. I agree with SteelFan.

Have had 3 masseurs segue smoothly from massage to topping me (one of them twice). There were compliments about my glutes beforehand, but otherwise there was no discussion, no questions asked. There have also been a couple of masseurs who attempted to top me, also without anything said, but I discouraged them.

Even though no info about TempeJR had been posted by the time I visited Phoenix back in Jan, I decided to hire him anyway. I agree with everything SteelFan wrote; TempeJR has a great ass, was very sweet, extremely hygienic, and fun (even though he seemed somewhat preoccupied and mentioned, both in our initial texts and in person, that he had a lot of stuff to do.) He said he had a full-time job and escorted only when he needed extra money. To my surprise, he shared some personal info about his life and his family; I had the feeling that he wanted to make a “connection” with me or maybe clients in general. After I left AZ and was back home, we texted and he sent several photos of himself. When I returned to the Phx area a few weeks ago and tried to contact him, I didn’t receive a response. His RM ad was still up and, in fact, he added then deleted new photos. Now his ad is gone.

I don’t want to seem dense, but what’s the point of a fake ad? What do so-called scammers hope to achieve? Are they luring clients with provocative photos, then ask for money up front?

I had located that thread, which is mostly a discussion of whether his age places him in the category of “slightly older” escorts, along with comments from guys who, like me, have contacted him but not actually met him. I actually found his note to me about not showing his “junk” to be kind of charming. The fact that he’s good looking and has a hard bodybuilder physique, I can tell from his photos. As someone else wrote, a second Daddy’s review might help. The new info about him having a boyfriend raises some questions for me that probably deserve their own thread, in the Ask an Escort section.

Has anyone spent time with Jake? https://rent.men/jakepines I couldn’t find much about him on this site and the single review on Daddy’s is almost generically uninformative. I contacted him regarding his private photos and he wrote back that he doesn’t like to show strangers his “junk” until he has a conversation with them. (I’m actually more interested in seeing what his ass is like than his “junk,” but OK.) Planning a trip to SD, so any personal insights regarding him would be appreciated.

Thanks, that’s what I needed to know.

I don’t mean to seem dense, but what does this mean? Did he seem bored or was he queasy about having another man touch him? In what way did he seem “obviously” gay for pay? I’m especially curious because I’ve been thinking about hiring him.

Why? Not your type or expecting something very different? (Just curious.)

Patrick’s ad must have recently been re-posted, as I’ve searched for him a couple of times to find out his traveling schedule. In fact, a while ago I created a post to learn if anyone knew what happened to him. He’s been to Minneapolis at least twice, and although I wasn’t comfortable with him trying to upsell me with his partner, I found Patrick to be charming, handsome, and *very* hot. So-so massage but wonderful “extras.”

Maybe. But my point is that there are legitimate, skilled masseurs who may cross over into escort territory without any prompting from their client. As mentioned, I can’t say if they do this all the time; in my experiences it has seemed pretty spontaneous, with the exception of one masseur who quoted me a very steep price for *just* a massage, but it turned into an experience I would’ve expected with an escort.

When I first began getting massages, I was caught off guard but was pleasantly surprised by the whole “happy ending” thing. And that’s as much as I hoped for - for a while. I’m afraid I’ve become spoiled by a few legitimate CMTs who are not on Rentmen but who give a massage that is more than sensual and sometimes segues into what could only be called “full service.” In every case it’s been initiated by the masseur; I neither expected nor asked for it (but I’ve tipped them big-time). At the same time, soneone on here wrote about his experience with one of the masseurs I’m referring to and said his experience was strictly therapeutic. So one’s mileage definitely will vary.

Although I didn’t receive any info back on AllenAZ, I took a chance when I was in the area back in January. Wow! Great sensual massage - even a bit more than sensual. He’s not my “type” physically, but is a terrific masseur. Nice massage room in his condo, also. And for only $80!

Thanks, I’ll give it another shot.

Can someone tell me how to subscribe to Ryan Steel’s OnlyFans page? When I go to the link above, it seems to think that I want to create my own page rather than subscribe to someone else’s.

For those of you too young to know, Haus Weston had done a number of scenes in porno movies of the 1990s, then lost some “baby fat,” bulked up, and modeled for Colt Studio. The fall of 2001 he was doing some escorting and was in Chicago the same weekend I was visiting. I made an appointment and went to his hotel. When he opened the door I was stunned by how incredibly handsome he was, so much better looking than in his movies or even in his Colt photos. And he was taller than I expected. Anyway, I guess I was just overwhelmed and couldn’t bring myself to get physical with him, even though he gladly kept removing articles of clothing until he was nude. The whole time we were chatting about his career, his family, how he got started in the business, stuff like that. He autographed his page in that year’s Colt calendar, gave me a nice kiss, and sent me on my way. About a year later I read that he had committed suicide. I had the autographed photo framed and still have it.

I almost got together with them when they were visiting Minneapolis last year. Could you be more specific as to how they were “the worst”?

Had a 4-hand from Will and his partner when they were living in Minneapolis. Will is very hot, better looking in person, and was aggressively sexual (in a good way) during the massage. The partner seemed unskilled and became an annoyance. After they relocated to Phoenix, Will offered massage on his own; texted him a couple times while I was there recently but he never responded. Now it looks like they’re only offering a 4-hand experience again.

Isn’t this Chad by another name? https://rent.men/SFGoodBoy

Hypothetical situation: I find an escort on Rentmen who is very appealing and that I’d like to meet. He lists a number of services (massage, BF experience, etc), and also identifies himself as a bottom or versatile/bottom, with photos to match. When contacting him, just so we’re on the same page, should I tell him, “You have a beautiful ass, I’d love to top you”? so he knows I’m looking for more than, say, muscle worship. Unless I say something to the contrary, will the provider expect to bottom as part of our date? Despite having had many massages that have turned into sex, I’m not very experienced in hiring an escort.

*slaps forehead* I guess that was just too easy!