Mplsgymguy

Your word choice wasn’t offensive to me at all; it’s just that the subject of circumcision can sometimes lead to heated arguments, which I hoped to avoid in asking the question of how does an adult male not know whether they are circumcised. For example: https://https://rent.men/Maykul I realize now, from several of the responses posted, that the answer may lie in language (uncut vs intact) or culture differences.

I was hoping that a thread mentioning circumcision could be started without the word “violence” coming up, but that’s another story. Anyway, this is about the perception of circumcision. After reading the replies above, I went back into the RM site, where one chooses descriptors and found that the body part “foreskin” is listed, followed by the options “cut” or “uncut,” so it seems unlikely that this would be confused with musculature.

As in a muscle guy being described as “cut up”? I never thought of that, but it makes sense if someone is not familiar with the practice of circumcision.

While browsing Rentmen ads I’ve noticed several providers listing themselves as “cut” in their About Me description, when it’s clear from their photos that they have not been circumcised. I know that sometimes it’s difficult to tell a cut cock from an uncut one in a photo when the penis is erect; but shouldn’t the provider know - or do they not understand the meaning of “cut” or “uncut”? Just an observation...but this seems kind of basic. lol

I saw ItalianExpress in Phoenix when he was visiting there in late July. Had no trouble setting an appointment; he was prompt with replies to my questions and made it clear we’d both be nude. I thought he looked a little older than in his pics but he’s in great shape and gave what I thought was an above average massage with extras (and then some). I’d definitely hire him again.

His Rentmasseur ad includes sensual/erotic, and his private pics are nude (but not totally revealing). https://rentmasseur.com/MuscleLMT

I second the recommendation for Allen - very nice guy with great massage technique (including sensual touches throughout), in a quiet, calm space in his condo. I wrote his first review on Rentmasseur and have been back to see him several times. He’s on the border between Mesa & Scottsdale.

Wow, thanks for the excellent sleuthing! I noticed that his face is not visible in the cock shots posted and was a little suspicious.

I use the acronym YMMV to mean “This was my experience with Masseur X, but I don’t know if he does the same with all of his clients.” I’ve fortunately never hired a masseur who didn’t follow through on something mentioned in his ad. There was the masseur I mentioned in my previous post, who had been recommend by a forum member because the massage he got went above and beyond “strictly therapeutic.” The masseur was not the same with me, but I didn’t fault him, as he had not mentioned any of this in his ad.

He’s visiting Minneapolis (I think) but doesn’t list any dates. He doesn’t specify massage types, either, but his “About Me” and photos strongly imply erotic. Or is he TGTBT? https://rentmasseur.com/TheStrongTouch

Massageislife wrote “If YMMV means a masseur advertising erotic massage may not disrobe, may keep away from any of my own touching, and may avoid my private parts, I wish the poster would write that instead.” There have been discussions of a few masseurs in which someone has written (I’m paraphrasing), “Nice massage but strictly therapeutic,” to which I’ve responded, “Not in my experience.” Is that clearer than YMMV? IIRC, none of the masseurs I’m thinking of specified erotic massage in their ads; one, in fact, told me ahead of our appointment, that he did not do sensual/erotic, but when I arrived at his house he offered an erotic massage for an additional fee. But how could I possibly know how a masseur is going to behave with another client, whether he’ll disrobe and so on? Unless the client has posted about it on this site, of course. At the same time, a forum member wrote me about a masseur he’d seen who evidently had been amenable to engaging in activity beyond an erotic massage, but when I engaged said masseur he was “strictly therapeutic.” :-( So the so-called mileage did indeed vary.

I’ve received numerous PMs regarding a masseur about whom I’ve commented a couple of times on here. I first connected with him through the “old” MasseurFinder site, when this guy advertised erotic as well as therapeutic massage, including a fairly detailed description of what to expect for the erotic. This, of course, is no longer allowed on MF. When someone PMs me for details of my experiences with this masseur, I always emphasize that I haven’t seen him in a couple of years and don’t know if he still offers sensual/erotic massage or even if he’s amenable to it if asked; and I believe he and I just “clicked” so that he felt comfortable with me.

Cristian will be in Minneapolis for a few days starting tomorrow. After reading comments above re not wearing pants, DIY HE, etc., thought I would note that his Rentmasseur ad lists only therapeutic massage. Should this be interpreted as YMMV?

https://rent.men/Hayes

After an escort I met laughed when I asked him about a couple things in his ad description, I did a little investigating and discovered that nearly everything in his ad - from the location he listed to what he does for his “real” full-time job - was untrue. So now when I read an ad, I take the description with a very large grain of salt.

As of 9/4, they’re in Detroit. I was suspicious as soon as I read one of the ads, then noticed the others, then decided to check this forum. I don’t want to appear naive, but why would a group like this travel all over the place - ambush & rob horny, unsuspecting clients?

On at least 2 occasions when I was visiting another city, I’ve had sessions with masseurs who also were visiting and were traveling with their table. They essentially turned their hotel room into a cozy massage space. Granted, they were visiting those cities for at least 4-5 days, and I’m pretty sure they were within driving distance of their respective homes, so it wasn’t as though they’d had to schlep their table onto a plane.

Sorry, here’s the correct link https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28020/

It’s been about 3 years since I last had a massage with Tim. Anyone have any recent experience with him? Feel free to PM me. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists

Doesn’t it seem peculiar that a masseur would agree to get naked with the client, even though they are uncomfortable about it and don’t want (and may actively discourage) any interaction with the client? I don’t know anything about this particular masseur as we weren’t able to coordinate schedules when he was visiting Minneapolis.

I have done the same, in the case of masseurs, and a number forum members have contacted me about masseurs I’ve mentioned. I’ve only hired one escort since I’ve been on this forum. My search for him here didn’t turn up anything, nor did posting a new thread receive a response. Finally got up the nerve to contact the guy, who was prompt and charming and put me at ease. He asked to speak with me over the phone, which I found reassuring, so we met and had a good time. Back when I was using Craigslist and Backpage, I wish I’d been able to glean some info on a few wacko masseurs that I ended up meeting. :-(

Thanks (likewise to Gman)! Can’t believe I didn’t think of that.

What is a TIM performer?

My bad; I should’ve made clear that I was referring specifically to replies from Masseurfinder ads, for which providers may no longer post sexually explicit photos or text (as used to be the case). About a year ago I contacted a new guy on MF in the area whose ad for a $150 massage included photos of himself in gym shorts and tank top that showed off a well muscled body. After a couple of initial texts to set up an appointment, I wrote him something about us both being nude during the massage. He replied that I could be naked if I wanted, but I would still be draped, and he would be willing to strip to biking shorts but would not be naked and would definitely not allow me to touch him in any way. When I told him that $150 was kind of steep for a clothed, strictly therapeutic massage, he responded that his training and massage skills made the price worth it. As he would’ve been a bit of a drive for me, anyway, I just canceled the whole thing. But I cautioned him that he might be receiving more requests similar to mine, due to his fee and the photos he’d posted. A few months later he inserted new photos of himself, with less skin showing and looking rather drab.

If I see a masseur on Masseurfinder with whom I might like some “extras,” I first check to see if they also have an ad on Rentmasseur (with an erotic option) or Rentmen. If they do, I ask if the massage is nude on nude or at least tell them I prefer to be undraped for the massage. Sometimes I receive a note of outraged virtue (which has also led to some interesting correspondence) or, more often, the masseur lets me know that he also prefers to be nude or assures me that the massage is “full body,” or something along that line. A few times I’ve been told that they’re fine with me being naked but that they wear shorts or something; however, in every instance I can think of, the masseur was also nude when he got to the HE. In fact, I remember only two massages I’ve ever had for which the masseurs remained completely dressed throughout - and I’m pretty sure one of those was because the guy’s partner arrived home during the masssge.